my dear friends...i got to know this guy online and e were talking to each other for abt a week. finally, he said he wanted to meet and i said fine. we were suposed to meet yesterday. The night b4, my mum wasn't feeling well and i sent him a text message stating that i wouldnt be able to make it for the meeting as i need to tak emy mum for check up and i'll try to meet him by this week. tht's it. after tha ti never heard from him at all. many times i called him today but he neve rpicked my call. then, i met him on yahoo messenger and he said tht i'm a women who plays with men and he told me to keep away from him and never to clal him again or he would get really upset. Why did he change like this?i ont understand. If he was upset with me tht he cudnt meet me, then shud i have left my mum and just met him? i thought he was understanding. i lost a friend and i feel guilty. but why did he accuse me tht i m playing with men and i shudnt treat him like an animal?al those words hurt me
2006-11-08 18:46:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be glad you found out what a worm he is BEFORE you got really deep involved with him!
Let it go, babe, he wasn't the right one for you.
2006-11-08 18:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by revenueforge 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. do no longer for a minute fool your self and think of that he's unswerving. he's clearly lacking something and is stretching out to those mediums to fill that void. this does not recommend that there is something incorrect with you. Many adult males undertaking into the international of porn and internet dating because of the fact they could be intimate and sexual without being rejected. a woman in a mag can no longer inform him no and a woman on a dating website only has to click off his website if she does not like a guy. the guy's ego is preserved. save a exact eye on him until eventually you have some annoying evidence yet do no longer for a minute enable your shelter down with him, he does not sound like he would be relied on. stable success!
2016-10-21 12:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that when he accused you of treating him like an animal he was just describing himself. When people attack you verbally like that for no good reason it is probably because it's something they're guilty of themselves. He is looking for a piece of a** and since you didn't come through he is moving on to the next victim. He made himself feel better about it by coming down on you. Be thankful he did it for you before you got even more deceived by this pig.
2006-11-08 18:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time comes that it is hard to understand a man, then something is wrong... with him- NOT YOU !!
Men are simple creatures. It is women who are the complex ones.
He is acting weird and you should save yourself the headache and/or frustration and find more friends that are understanding or give you a chance to be trusted.
He was impatient and quick to think negative of your motives. So don't waste your time on someone who won't waste their time on you.
2006-11-08 18:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he has issues and he is doing you a favor by staying away. If he can't understand that you needed to take care of your sick mum than the loss is his. Don't let one immature man ruin your opinion of all men. The majority of men would not have acted like this guy did.
2006-11-08 18:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a narrow minded person he is not fit to be your friend.you can not go and meet a person by leaving your mother in that condition. so u are correct you did your duty.he blamed you without knowing your problem so u should keep away from such people. dont get upset for what he said.
2006-11-08 19:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must have thought that u have chickened out in the last minute..
U cant genrealise all men because of this..and in a way its ok cos now u know this guy's temperament!!
2006-11-08 18:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time it is pinching.forget & wait ,a lot of joyful thing are waiting for you ,dont mind for loosing one,he must have past experience very bad with females so he is behaving like that.
Even if you recall him ,it will be a routeen problem every time to make him in confidence.
He is a weaker guy
2006-11-08 18:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our level of maturity dictates our reaction to dissapointment. Our true intentions are sometimes revealed also. consider yourself luck to have dodged a potential bullet!
2006-11-08 18:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Al 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only interested in sex and not in you. Be glad that you found out. You do not need a man who will not respect you.
2006-11-08 18:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋