If your ex boyfriend or girlfriend was intoxicated and called you while you are at work and you work midnight?

Question

shift, You do have boyfriend/girlfriend but do not reside in same apartment and the ex that is intoxicated will be leaving in the morning before you get home from work. Ex has no family in the area justs needs a place to sleep for the night. How would you feel? What would you do?

Answer 1

let her sleep over the nite...is very dangerous to let out alone, then ask my gf to take care of her....we work on the trust system...

Answer 2

Well I imagine it would get old after a while but I guess its better that he/she come to you than end up dead because they are too intoxicated!!!
Maybe it's time to tell them they might have a drinking problem or at the very least they need to make arrangements for themselves BEFORE they go out!!! Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Offer to put him up at the Super 8 or drive him to the nearest homeless shelter. Don't take him home. If he doesn't have any money for a hotel (but had money to drink), didn't care where he was going to crash before he got drunk, then don't put yourself in a situation. He sounds like a bit of a loser. Don't fall into his trap!

Answer 4

I would book a hotel room and call a cab for the ex. This way they will be in a safe place for the night and it won't cause you problems with your current other.

Answer 5

i will feel disturbed by his actions and immature behaviors. If he had an approriate reason for behaving this way,, i will let him stay over, if he didnt have one, i would call his friend or even the police to get rid of him, because he's intruding my personal space.

Answer 6

I would let him/her stay at my place,he/she would be safe..
as long as you trust him/her not to steal from you..be careful in the morning old flames may catch up again.

Answer 7

i will go