Okay, my last question seemed like I just wanted sex and that I can't wait or w/e. It's not like that lol, but we only see each other once a week... but just say yes / no to these.
Fingering (I'm guessing no),
Rubbing of clit,
Dry sex, and
Sex.
if it's gonna hurt at all I don't wanna do it...
PS: I'd rather have some girls who have personal experience with this answer, lol.
2006-11-08 21:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by omega 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh, so many contradicting answers...
Does it really relax the girl even though it's bloody/ w/e? idk cuz, I think I'd mind the mess a bit, but if it really relaxes her, then it'd be worth it... does it really work?
And thanks, if I don't do the above I'll try not to bring up anything about that area, so she feels comfortable. =P
2006-11-08 21:51:41 · update #1
Dog' Can't you keep your hands off until her period is over. Some women get sore down there when they are on there period
2006-11-08 21:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and in my opinion I would not want my boyfriend to do any of the above when I'm in my period. It's enough that I feel bloated, moody and dirty without him making me feel uncomfortable about my period. What I do appreciate during my period is a good back rub and comforting arms to hold me when the cramps are driving me up the wall...
2006-11-09 05:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by j -cold 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from a woman of more mature years
it is definitely possible to do all that you asked about during menstruation without causing your lady any pain; in fact penetration is supposed to help with period cramps.
this is really a matter of personal choice - 1st on the lady's part ; is she feels comfortable with it
then also on your part; as someone else answered you do have to be prepared for a mess - though this may not happen.
BUT as with any other time - DO NOT pressure your lady if she does not feel up to any sexual activity at this time.
you will be appreciated more if you can be supportive or her moods & just cuddle her; give her back/foot massages;
ask her & LISTEN to what it is that she feels most comfortable with at that time
lots of good points in the other answers also
2006-11-09 05:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a guy. .. bit i can still answer the question...
U can do all the above provided you r comfortable with all the messyness...
Make sure u use a sheet or towel to avoid dirting the laundry.
2006-11-09 05:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a girl but I have experience. When my wife is on her period she is hornier than ever. They are just embarrassed about it at first is all, just let her know you don't care. I highly doubt you are going to hurt her, and it will probably feel better to her.
2006-11-09 05:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i will answer one by one yeah... i am a guy and i did all this while she had period.. so i am telling u wad i c or feel from a GUY's point of view...
fingerin/rubbin/sex is fine... it won't hurt at all.. but u have to have the discharge.. yup... it can get real bloody there... as in REAL bloody...
dry sex? no no... it will hurt... and irritated her...
hope u get one from a ladies point of view..
2006-11-09 05:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to accord your girl that respect when she is on her period, fingering, rubbing, dry sex or whatever you call it, is a messy act. how do you do that with the flow of blood gushing out. bad, bad, bad, self control is needed no matter what. give her that respect for just three to five days o.k.
2006-11-09 05:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not sex in her period. Health is the first thing in love.
2006-11-09 05:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do have personal experience with it and all of them things are fine and you wont hurt her, I promise.... It will relax her cramps and not make her so crabby...
2006-11-09 05:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fingering (I'm guessing no) - no, its painful
Rubbing of clit - no, its too tender and that makes it painful
Dry sex - no, you'll give her lots of infections in her vagina
Sex - no you both will end up with infections and then no sex...you sure you want to take that risk?
2006-11-09 05:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋