we were assigned to debate about divorce (anti-divorce). but how can we deliver a good rebuttal to our opponent even if i know that they have a good chance of winning.. and of course we dont want to turn it that way.. pls give me some pointers about anti-divorce.. pls? tnx..
2006-11-08 21:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by _-rei-_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce can have very negative affects on children: suicide, drug use is higher in children of divorce
2006-11-08 21:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is not good for family relationships. Divorce is difficult for small children since they often blame themselves. Divorce leaves people broken hearted and unable to trust again. Divorce is a painful thing to go through even when their is no other choice. Divorce can be expensive. Divorce separates loving parents from their children.
2006-11-08 22:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is costly, especially when the parties involved fight for custody of the children. Divorce ruins children's lives respect for parents and ruins relationships with parents stresses them and makes them more prone to having bad relationships. The break down of family structure causes a great deal of pressure on society and the finances of the country state in welfare etc. Once you divorce once their is more of a chance you will do it again their fore a pattern of problems. More monies and efforts should be put into place to save relationships and marriages and less into cleaning up the aftermath of this destruction.
2006-11-08 22:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a Catholic who switched over. i could been married thrice till now and all of those marriages led to divorce ... i replaced into married to a guy who replaced into changing on an identical time. I went by a 'Tribunal determination' by way of actuality that 2 of my ex-spouses are no longer secure to testify ... and that i went by an prolonged confession with our priest who suggested that 'divorce' in situations like mine, the place we the two did no longer plan on being together perpetually, or the place I were severely abused, have been surely annulled (as though we had under no circumstances been married) ... and my husband and that i ought to do a renewal of vows interior the Catholic church as quickly as we've been waiting, yet we are actually the two complete Catholics, and our relationship is unquestionably previous 'perpetually.' in elementary terms in this occasion do i think that divorce is allowable ... people do make errors, yet at last we ought to continuously all be predicted to get it ultimate suited. with out divorce, there ought to be fewer marriages by way of fact people could be extra careful of their determination of companions. by way of fact of this i'm against divorce ...
2016-12-14 04:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by kull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were "assigned?" You have to believe in what you're talking about to be effective.
And don't make debating a matter of "winning or losing." This is how I defeat liberals all of the time. To them it's a matter of winning, but for me it's a matter of what's right, over winning or losing. When it's what's right that matters, winning or losing stops becoming so important.
However, liberals will often attack you at this point, in an effort to try to win and convince people regarding their wrong.
2006-11-08 21:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only bad thing, cause ive been there, is the children caught up in it all.
seeing them once a fortnight and talking on the phone once a week is nothing like living with them again, watching them grow up helping them with their every day to day problems, and knowing that one day some other man will be doing the job of father to my kids.
Then having to meet this man when i go to pick my kids up and hearing my children call a stranger dad.
as to divorcing the wife happy happy joy joy!
its the best thing i could have done, its like 10 pound of gum fell off my boot!
2006-11-08 21:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you consider anti-divorce???
You mean stop people getting out of marriage??? BAD IDEA!!!
Then there would be an increase in the number of murders and suicides...
2006-11-08 21:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck, people just don't give a damn anymore, look at the divorce rate, its pathetic. folks give up on each other, and how can we expect our kids not to give up when they see us parents giving up everyday on there future. its all about me me me, and that seems to be the attitude these days. look back it the day when marriage meant something, ask ur grandparents what commitment means, anyone there after(including myself) don't have a clue what it is to give ur life to someone whole hearted.
2006-11-08 22:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by my_lyin_eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is costly/expensive
2006-11-08 21:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋