Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

he shouldnt control my life

2006-11-07 15:43:29 · 11 answers · asked by Nanay 1 in Singles & Dating

After many years of relationship crap, I decided to stop looking for a man. I decided to learn about me. I even quit having sex with men; it confused the issues. So am i strange for wanting to be and live alone?

2006-11-07 15:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by curious cat 2 in Singles & Dating

If i told you i was getting married.

2006-11-07 15:41:47 · 18 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5 in Weddings

The service is out of state.

2006-11-07 15:40:55 · 27 answers · asked by grimm72 2 in Friends

I am out of high school, graduated this year in the summer because I didn't try in school, despite me having CP classes and having a intelligent mind but not intelligent choices. my mom wasn't on me because I was actually focusing on school. she tells me to get a job. I want to get one now because I just turned 18 etc, etc, I know I need one, I definitely need the money. I was basicaly forced to go to a JC college very recently and I understand the concepts, even know most of what my teachers are saying already. but I don't study, I haven't put any effort because I have been accustomed to failing since junior year in high school. back then I was drinking more than anybody else could, and doing drugs like crazy.
now I sit at home not doing anything, while my brothers go to HS and college, and my mom works, and I do nothing. I have gone online, played video games, and done enough drugs to know what it has for me.I just dont know how to change. I want to change, but I dont have the motiv

2006-11-07 15:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by l u m i n o u s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 15:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by leena 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's been courting me for almost a month now. I do like him but I always knew him as someone "polygamous".

2006-11-07 15:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by mashka 1 in Singles & Dating

...react to this?

A guy you've known for a pretty long time (and have a crush on), goes up to you and starts chatting and starts to flirt. Would you flirt back and try and get him to like you? Or would you try and tell him to stop? Would you laugh and twirl your hair, or would you just look at him?

2006-11-07 15:36:20 · 12 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Singles & Dating

i just got married on oct. 14 and already my husband doesnt care about his apperance. he doesnt brush his teeth doesnt wash his *** and has the nerve to try to get some. we have 2 kids and i havent let myself go. we get married and 2 weeks later he doesnt care anymore. i am disgusted by him. what should i do.

2006-11-07 15:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by alize2882 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 of my best friends are driving me crazy...they put me in the middle of a fight that i dont wanna get into!!.......my friends boyfriend complimented my other best friend, and the boyfriend and girlfriend broke upp, and blamed it on my best friend, that is practiaclly my sister. im planning not to talk to either of them for a while, so that i dont get into it, but, they're gonna think that im mad at both of them, in which im not, im just too good of a person to fight with my friendz, fighting is my pet peeve.....please!!! anyone out there who see's this, please answer!!!!!! i cant survive without your advice!!!!!

2006-11-07 15:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by alli 3 in Friends

How do I know the attorney General is not cheating us? I have asked the attorney general in Waco, TX - Bryan, TX- and Houston, Tx . None of them seem to know what they are doing. What can we do to get help without having to higher a lawyer?

2006-11-07 15:36:00 · 23 answers · asked by kay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it bad to have a friend with benefits if both of you understand the relationships

2006-11-07 15:35:48 · 5 answers · asked by chica69 2 in Singles & Dating

Welll i have these 2 friends wich are girls and they both like me and i like both of them and i cant decide wich one i want.... Any tips on how i can decide? Im just can choose i really really like them both....

2006-11-07 15:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am making a list of reasons why i love my boyfriend for our anniversary and i am having trouble coming up with different, unique ones (i need over 100). do you have ideas? do you know a website where some are listed? please help!!

2006-11-07 15:34:04 · 13 answers · asked by supergirl608 2 in Singles & Dating

why or why not

2006-11-07 15:33:31 · 22 answers · asked by moi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 15:33:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If someone gave you the one thing that you wanted more then anything else in life, but had to give up the one you loved, would you do it?

2006-11-07 15:33:01 · 22 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

as old as she is , my sister refuses to talk to me, when i see her/when we are in same building, she acts as if she doesn't know me, when we meet somewheres she looks the other way.
as far back as i can remember when we were growing up , it was always this way. both our parents are gone now, sometime i wish i had a close relationship with her but she doesn't want no part of me. her daughter my niece, we use to be close, now she won't talk to me also, could she have told her not to be so close to me????

2006-11-07 15:32:20 · 8 answers · asked by ~muffun~ 3 in Family

to tell him something and they told me he didnt work today so i ask her again to make sure if he didnt work today and she said he didnt so i called his house and his not their either and he was suppose to be home like 3hrs ago

2006-11-07 15:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by Lore 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today my girlfriend and I were watching tv when she said she wants to put me in a diaper and have me use it, so she can change me like she would a baby. She said that she had ordered diapers and by tommorrow she would start to put them on me. How sheould I react to this?

2006-11-07 15:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At least I think he was staring at me, it sure seemed like it.
This guy from my youth group was staring at me after our youth group Sunday night.
I am still kind of new to that particular church.
I haven't really made any friends there.
I sort of like this guy but I doubt he likes me.

How would you take it if a guy was staring at you?

2006-11-07 15:31:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i reallly really like this guy and ive liked him every since last jan. well we went out a coupld of time but we broke up for stupid stuff well i still and think i love him and i dont know what hes feeling and im to shy to come out and ask him i mean he kindah hints to me that he likes me but i dont want to seem like aand idiot and ask him how do i find out what hes feelin and find out if he likes me or not
???

2006-11-07 15:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by blair w 1 in Singles & Dating

I lied to this girl tonight. I look at her straight in the eyes and lied to her right in her face. I couldn't tell her the truth. Here's my story.

I work at a grocery store. I'm a stocker. The girl i'm talking about is a cashier. Anyways I had the day off and she didn't. I went grocery shopping. I seen her I said hey to her. She said hey back. Than the manager asked me if I could work tonight. I said no at first, but when I got home I thought about it. And decided to work. So I called the manager told him i'm coming in.

Anyways she asked me "what change my mind about coming in"? I told her "I needed the money". But the truth is I enjoy her company. And have a little crush on her.

First time I lied to a girl. I'm usually an honest sweet guy to girls.

So my question is if I told her the truth do you think she will get mad because I lied to her.

I think she likes me, but at times its hard to say.

2006-11-07 15:31:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I AM SCARED OF REJECTION. HOW DO I OVER COME THAT FEAR???

2006-11-07 15:31:26 · 7 answers · asked by pink_panther 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious to see how you ladies feel about it when your husbands or b/f's think of themselves first, like it's me first, instead of thinking of you and your feelings and needs before his own?

Personally I think it's wrong, and will admit that I have been guilty of it, and have been working hard at chaning my mentality as far as putting my wife before myself.

2006-11-07 15:30:18 · 23 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a lesbian and she really is the greatest friend I could have ever asked for.On my birthday we all went out and got drunk and she ended up telling me that her feelings for me are deeper than just friends. I mean the world to her and she could never ask for anything more than my friendship but she is very attracted to me. I think the world of her but I am confused as to what my feelings for her are. I originally thought I just had "Friend Feelings" for her but for the last couple of weeks before my birthday I have been really confused and i have been having a lot of dreams about her. I think about her all the time and now that she told me how she feels about me. I don't know if I am as straight as I thought I was. And my feelings are just a lot of confusion. Please help me figure this all out so I dont lose her. I dont think my life would be complete with out her in it in some way but i dont know what way. HELP!!!!!

2006-11-07 15:29:18 · 16 answers · asked by tigerlike8585 1 in Friends

My bf always calls me to see what im doin. he wants to know my every move. we have been going out for alomost 3 yrs, i love him and hes just recently started this. Oh and his new friend might have alot to do with. He does almost everything with us if were not alone hes with us. HELP!!! what should i do

2006-11-07 15:27:48 · 21 answers · asked by sas 5 in Singles & Dating

I dont think its right that he hangs out at her house to visit his son, while she's there. He is old enough to be alone. Its not for an hour its more like 5 hours, so my question is...Was I wrong to tell him not to be hanging out at her house? He can take him somewhere else and yes he takes him every other weekend. I need some advice please.

2006-11-07 15:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by Crazy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

if he only cheat once

2006-11-07 15:26:00 · 33 answers · asked by mizcokebottle_06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been goin out with my boyfriend for a year now, he recently moved to Corona. Now i wont be able to talk to him or see him as much. He broke his cellphone, and now i have no way to talk to him. I sent him emails and he hasnt replied, i dont know what to do?, should i leave him, or wait for him to come back??, he specifically told me to wait for him kus he wants to b with me and he really loves me, but i cant just be here waiting for me all lonely..so i dont know what to do???

2006-11-07 15:25:58 · 18 answers · asked by Missinghim_02 1 in Singles & Dating