He's been courting me for almost a month now. I do like him but I always knew him as someone "polygamous".
2006-11-07 15:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by mashka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll look you in the eye if he's telling the truth. If he fidgets, looks up or away, smiles or giggles, or comes up with really lame excuses for being late or whatever, then I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. Love wasn't meant to be easy, but if I was you, I would be a little cautious. Where there is smoke there is fire, and it obviously is a concern for you, so just be careful. Keep those walls up until you are sure you can trust him enough to bring them down. best of luck
2006-11-07 15:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by exaluva 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by "polygamous" is he already married to more that one wife??? Then what the hell are you doing with him??? I think what you mean is, that you always knew him as a flirt. Well most guys are flirts till cupid’s arrow strikes. How do you act or behave when you tell lies…he will probably behave in a similar manner, look out for it. My advice is simple. After one month of courting if you already have reasons to doubt him added to the fact that you know him to be polygamous or an outright flirt then get out of the relationship…it is not worth the heart aches of tomorrow. Don’t try to find love, let love find you. Believe me Mashka dear, when love finds you…there will be no doubts, no fears & no tears. Love is a gift from God, worth any amount of wait and never, ever too late. Wish you all the Best.
2006-11-07 18:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Means, he already has more than one wife living with him? Isn't that illegal, unless he happens to be a Muslim?
If you know that he has committed polygamy, why are you still moving around with him? If you are unsure, I think you should check the facts and not depend on assumptions.
Anyway, if he indeed has many wives or just even one and is planning to add you to the existing member(s) of his family, which is not to your liking, just call off this courtship. Without delay.
2006-11-07 15:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not let emotions cloud your judgement.... and that you got to make. Its quite difficult to make out if a person is telling the truth but then gauge him through his actions. There is no point in confronting if you guys are not serious about the affair.
2006-11-07 15:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, i don't think that guy likes you. He sounds like a guffy guy. Try to love yourself first, and not depend on anybody. You heart will told you if his lying to you. You know that, but you don't want to admited it. Look at his eyes closely, and you will know the truth. Take care.
2006-11-07 15:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by jumyaly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truth about what? Cats and Dogs?
2006-11-07 15:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, a guy like that has only one goal: To have sex with as many woman as he can.
2006-11-07 15:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
does he look you in the eye when he talks to you? if you have the thought in your mind that he is a liar then youll have a hard time convincing yourself otherwise
2006-11-07 15:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by kikitlive 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how long you been with them... you can figure out if he's lying or not... he will get an attitude or change the subject or get s affensive u will be able to tell..
2006-11-07 15:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nanay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If his lips are moving, he is telling the truth.
2006-11-07 15:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋