I lied to this girl tonight. I look at her straight in the eyes and lied to her right in her face. I couldn't tell her the truth. Here's my story.
I work at a grocery store. I'm a stocker. The girl i'm talking about is a cashier. Anyways I had the day off and she didn't. I went grocery shopping. I seen her I said hey to her. She said hey back. Than the manager asked me if I could work tonight. I said no at first, but when I got home I thought about it. And decided to work. So I called the manager told him i'm coming in.
Anyways she asked me "what change my mind about coming in"? I told her "I needed the money". But the truth is I enjoy her company. And have a little crush on her.
First time I lied to a girl. I'm usually an honest sweet guy to girls.
So my question is if I told her the truth do you think she will get mad because I lied to her.
I think she likes me, but at times its hard to say.
2006-11-07 15:31:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's so cute!!!!!! Dude, if you actually tell her the truth, she is totally yours. I think any girl would appreciate you actually coming into work just be near her. Tell her, I think she will like it. If not, then she's a fool. Don't rush things, just go with the flow. Good luck!!!
2006-11-07 15:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You need to calm down and take a deep breath. No, she will not care that you lied about that. It's not really considered a bad lie. If you told the truth about every little thing in your life it would get you in a lot of trouble. Just put things in perspective. If you had a girlfriend and she asks, "Do you think [insert movie star that you like here] is prettier than me?" You always say no! She knows it's not true, you know it's not true, but it make everyone happy. See there are such things as necessary lies. Don't stress out, this does not make you a bad guy. The fact that you are worried about it makes you a good guy.
On a psychological perspective...
I would say, by your comment, that you lack confidence. Before you enter the dating world this is something that is very important. If you don't seem sure of yourself girls will run over you. You seem like a nice guy, so I hope this does not happen. Try to work on your self esteem a little. You have a lot to offer; guys like you are hard to come by.
2006-11-07 15:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by ecogrl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, i am sure that she would in no way be mad at all with you. It's not like you lied to hurt her, you lied to protect yourself from putting both of you in what could possibly be an uncomfortable situation. I think you should tell her the truth, and if she does like you aswell this will flatter her, and possibly lead to something more. I know that i personally would absolutely adore a guy if he did this for me. You seem like such a sweetheart and should have no worries. Good Luck!
2006-11-07 15:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Ive got a feeling you know the answer already....but I will tell you what I would do....truth is always the best way to go...unless the truth would truly be hurting someone and for no reason. Also you know?...it's never too late to tell the truth and i bet not only will she not be mad but i bet she will be flattered and have a higher regard for you!!.....and since I'm a girl..i can tell you...that I would be happy you fessed up!!
Peace!!
2006-11-07 15:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by KorvetteKaren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my friend, I think she will. I'm really honest too and I know how you're feeling. I think she will and even will feel flattered and honored by you telling her you enjoy her company. Don't tell her about the crush though!!!!! She wouldn't believe you have a crush on her,and she'll think you want something else from her. So just let the things flow between you two and don't stress it much. Good lock my friend!!!
2006-11-07 15:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Josh A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a white lie sweetheart, nothin to worry about. but if you lied later down the line saying somethin crazy about age or name and never saying the truth until after marriage then ya, but this is pety and kinda cute that you felt the need to ask. honesty is beautiful but sometimes until we're ready to admit our feelings we may twinge the truth a little.
2006-11-07 15:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by musikluver83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her....she might be a little upset at first, but once she realizes how you feel about her and if she feels the same way about you, she'll forget all about the little fib you let slip. You will never know how she feels about you until you come clean with her. Good luck!!!
2006-11-07 15:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you know-en her???
lying to her was just an impulse action...you should of made it funny and told her the truth she probably would of been flattered.
start flirting to see what she does..girls are easy to read if they like a guy.
good luck and make working with her fun!
keep the truth to your self for now.
2006-11-07 15:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by chris c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very sweet to hear a guy say that he was sorry for lying, he actually wanted to be around me and that is why he came to work but felt funny saying it to me at first..go for it, honesty is the best.
2006-11-07 15:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason y u lied is so sweet..If u tell her..she wont even consider it a lie..
U know what...there was not even a problem to start with
2006-11-07 15:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋