Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

2006-11-06 03:59:45 · 6 answers · asked by niceguy07 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i know i should be grateful someone has bought me a present, but i am on a permanent diet because of weight problems and i just think chocolates are so thoughtless + impersonal

2006-11-06 03:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Friends

He has been leaving in California for the past 2 years but coming to visit here in Florida every weekend. He does care for me and our family, but this separation has put a wedge in our relationship. I'm not sure if I would or wouldn't cheat on him again. I do not feel the same for him as I did before, but I still want to be with him. I wonder if this is the way a relaintionship should feel like after 5 years.

2006-11-06 03:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

SURVEY FOR COURTLY LOVE IN 2006

Open-Ended Questions
#1) How old are you?
#2) Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? If yes, do you love them? How do you know?

Yes or No?
#3) Can a boy love a girl if he is not jealous of other boys that like her?
#4) Is it possible for a person to love to people at the same time?
#5) Does love never have the same level of intensity, does it constantly increase or decrease?
#6) If a person does something against the wishes of the one they love, do they really love them?
#7) Are boys able to love before they reach puberty?
#8) When your loved one dies, should you be required to mourn for two years until you begin to date again?
#9) Should everyone be able to love, unless they have some unfortunate circumstance?
#10) Can friendship turn into love?
#11) Should a man love a woman he would be ashamed to marry?
#12) Will love last if it is made public?

2006-11-06 03:57:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really fancy someone who i am quite good mates with. We used 2 always have a laugh together in lessons and used 2 flirt quite alot, but then he didn't sit next 2 me so we didn't really get 2 talk. When we used 2 sit next 2 eachother, he would tickle me alot, touch my leg occasionally and would catch my eye-contact lots of the time, but he would still go on about his girlfriend quite alot. The other day i was in town and he spoke 2 me even though he was with his girlfriend (who i don't know so she could take it the wrong way). Then i happened 2 see him again (we weren't close enough 2 speak), but the person i was with said he was staring at me. She seems 2 think he likes me because of the staring and because he spoke 2 me. Then today (2 days after i saw him in town) he had 2 sit near me and 1 of my mates in the seating plan and the laughs we used 2 have continued. Whenever he spoke 2 us about his girlfriend, we would listen and then i would sneakily fit something 2 do with me and a male into the conversation (eg. mention meeting up with some male friends at the weekend). Whenever i did this, he would butt into the conversation if he didnt hear properly or if he did hear he would not say anything atall. What do u think? Any advice?

2006-11-06 03:56:56 · 12 answers · asked by DanniG 2 in Singles & Dating

If Men Were to Rewrite "The Rules"

Rule # 1 Anything we said six or eight months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.

Rule # 2 If we say something that can be interpreted in two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other way.

Rule # 3 It is in neither your best interest nor ours to make us take those stupid Cosmo quizzes together.

Rule # 4 You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done -- not both.

Rule # 5 Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials or time-outs.

Rule # 6 Christopher Columbus didn't need directions and neither do we.

Rule # 7 When we're turning the wheel and the car is nosing onto the ramp, you saying "This is our exit" is not necessary.

2006-11-06 03:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by G 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your general oppinion of a secret admirer?

2006-11-06 03:55:55 · 27 answers · asked by need help now? 2 in Singles & Dating

When we were younger-we had some really bad things happen which forced my brother to quit school. I was already out. He finally took his test and now has his GED.
I know that may not seem like much to some of you, but I'd like to celebrate it somehow.
I am very proud of him and now he wants to start going to a community college.
The other thing is - the bad thing that happened years ago is not over, how can we keep ourselves emotinoally fit not to let it screw up our lives again?

2006-11-06 03:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, I stared my English 1020 class and our profesor put us in groups. Well, this guy in my group was asking me all kinds of questions about myself, and we hit it off really well. I answered his questions nicely, but I did not do it in a flirting type of way. Just simply answering his questions. He asked me things about where I was from all of questions about myself. The other people in my group noticed that I was very good in English, so everyone was asking me question, and I was helping them about bc we had 2 do a rhetorical analysis. Well, I did not mean 2 ignore him, but he kept asking me for help, and I tried 2 assist him, but other people keep butting in, so I never got 2 help him. We live in the same apt complex. Now, when I see him walking 2 class it is like I am not even there. He does not even speak 2 me. However, when I go to the lunchroom and he is there. I catch him looking at me. He looks at me now, whenever I am not likely 2 see it. What is up with him?

2006-11-06 03:54:49 · 5 answers · asked by I <3 you 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by ktgirl465 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I´ve been dating stood me up, the net day he called me 3 times and left me a long cute message explainig and apologizing, anyways since I was mad I didn´t returned his calls, so yesterday he told a friend of mine that he wasn´t gonna call me because I was mad and that he thought if he did I would probably not answer his calls. So he hasn´t called, so what do I call him or wait for him o call?

2006-11-06 03:53:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by brodi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:53:09 · 21 answers · asked by sexylilvixen8869 1 in Singles & Dating

i posted a question last night about my boyfriend sending sexual messages to a girl and it not being the first time. i got some great answers back the thing is though its alot more complicated than i am able to put into 1000 words! i work as a model and im good at it but La is not my market knowing this i moved here anyway to be with the love of my life. we broke up beging of the year 2 weeks before i was to move my life , ticket paid for and everything. we got back together and i did move. it was hard to learn to trust him again but i did and then he messed up again with messages to a girl. i got over that and now he has done it again. the thing is he is giving up his apartment here to move somewher i can work. this is not somewhere i want to b but its a place he can really thrive too. in a week we are going o europe then he is coming back home to s africa with me for 1 mnth. i love him but i do not trust him anymore and my heart feels hard and heavy. knw whats right but not easy

2006-11-06 03:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by serendipity 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone wants to know what it is.what is your definition of it?

2006-11-06 03:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by anal_powerslide 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:51:45 · 15 answers · asked by afghan angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We're in our mid-twenties, and we've been dating exclusively for a few years and we've been living together for the past year and a half.

We get along great, we never fight, we enjoy the time we spend with each other, and I have no doubt she'll be a wonderful mother someday. Our personalities mesh very well. Also, the sex is pretty darn good.

However, there's no spark, and there never has been. I've never experienced the rush of being head-over-heels for her. I love her, but I don't feel like I'm in love with her. It's very upsetting. Also, I'm just not attracted to her physically. I feel superficial for that, but it's true.

So what do I do? I have this remarkable, really almost perfect woman in my life, but she just doesn't do it for me. Should I keep what I have and be happy but feel forever discontent, or should I scrap the best thing that's ever happened to me in the hopes that I'll find better?

2006-11-06 03:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been getting together with a guy who lives a few hours away from me, and the only times we've ever seen each other is when we go out with our mutual friends, who by the way are all guys. He told me he's always likes me, but then he's acting really funny. A couple of nights ago we saw each other again and we ended up sleeping in the same bed, which is the third time it happened, we've never had actual sex and he's never pressurized me to although we did do other things, and i took as this as him really liking me and wanting to wait. The next day though he was ignoring me and acting all cool, is this because his friends were there? His friends tell me that he really really likes me and that he's funny around girls he really likes, and that i should just tell him how i feel, but I'm pretty sure he already knows. We all went out again the next day and he was being really quiet which isn't normal with him. I asked him if he was pissed off with me and he said no, i'm just feeling ill.

2006-11-06 03:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by button31_us 1 in Friends

I have been married to this guy for 5 years. We have 3 kids under 5yrs. He has all control over the finances. I do work but when I get paid he makes sure it all goes to the bills. I do have a car it's in both our names. He is abusive emotionally, verbaly, and a few times physically. I do not want to go to my family's home for help. He will find me. Shelters i have contacted want a police report. What do you tell a cop ya he told me this and that. I have no marks on me. It would just seem pointless. I live in utah and am willing to relocate. I do have a job which may let me work from home for a while. i'm not too sure about that. Does any one know of any resourse or places that I may be able to stay till I can get on my feet? Or maybe able to help me money wise to get on my feet???? Or any suggestions on what I should do...Please help..

2006-11-06 03:49:44 · 24 answers · asked by grrr... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works for Gator Land , It burned this morning . It has been here for 57 years . A Florida Landmark tourist attraction . I 've been out of work for 3 yrs , due to back injury and this is our only income . We are hoping they will rebuild
but nothing is official yet . Your YA friend , Debb Thanks !

2006-11-06 03:49:17 · 28 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I overheard my brother last night talking to his friends about me. What he said was not only negative, but highly critical and sarcastic. He obviously has a very low opinion of me. Yet he never says this to my face nor does he tell me how he's feeling. How do I reconsile my relationship with my brother if he thinks so utterly poorly of me? I'm not very happy with him at the moment and probably won't speak to him again for a long while.

Paul

2006-11-06 03:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Family

1. Would you prefer your boyfriend to hang out with his weed smoking no job having friends and go clubbing at night

OR

2. Stay in the house, play video games, ignore the hell out of you and your 1 year old daughter and spends little to no time with you and the child?

Please explain why you chose your answer. Really need to know! Thanks guys.

2006-11-06 03:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Singles & Dating

i fowt with my friends theiy r 2 . we fowt b/c theiy gat a new friend and theiy wante me to go withe them but i don't wan't to go so we tok abwte tis ting 5 times so nowe we r separiting but we love ech ather i don't know wate to do ? i hate going thier but tye love going thier whate shude i do ?

2006-11-06 03:47:37 · 6 answers · asked by emu 1 in Friends

child as your own?

2006-11-06 03:46:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 03:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by sexylilvixen8869 1 in Singles & Dating

i called this guy i like and put some songs that say what i feel for him, i really like him but i'm not sure if he likes me. he kept asking me who i was and he said he liked the songs.
Should i tell him its me?
he is my friend.
i'm scared he would stop talking to me...

2006-11-06 03:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Singles & Dating

what to do at the end of the night, when you don't want to do anything with them at this stage?

2006-11-06 03:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Singles & Dating

ive dated two of my bros friends friends is it a bad thing?

2006-11-06 03:46:00 · 2 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating