A guy I´ve been dating stood me up, the net day he called me 3 times and left me a long cute message explainig and apologizing, anyways since I was mad I didn´t returned his calls, so yesterday he told a friend of mine that he wasn´t gonna call me because I was mad and that he thought if he did I would probably not answer his calls. So he hasn´t called, so what do I call him or wait for him o call?
2006-11-06 03:53:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait for him to call? He already called you several times and you didn't answer. Why would you want to call someone who stood you up? You are better off moving on, since he stood you up. Do not let him walk over you.
2006-11-06 03:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. If his reason for not making it was legit, give him a chance. If he has a cell and could have called you but just didn't, be a little leary about taking him back right away, but respect the fact that perhaps he was in an area with no service, and that is why he didn't call before. I actually had a girlfriend break up with me becuase she siad that since i stood her up and didn't call her, even from my cell, that meant that i was cheating. I guess I kinda was, I was seeing a doctor for a septic appendix. I was given a 30% chance to live and spent 3 weeks in the hospital after the surgery. i guess what i am saying is don't jump to conclusions until you know all the facts, and give him a call.
2006-11-06 03:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. I'm glad you stood your ground by making it clear that you would not accept behavior like standing someone up, but if you still like the guy give him a call. Explain that you were annoyed but that you do like him and would like to see him. Then leave it in his hands. If he stands you up again, then it's time to boot him out the window.....if he likes you he's going to make sure he's there.....15 minutes early :)
He's probably not calling because he doesn't want to annoy you or probably thinks you're not interested anymore, so it's really your call...good luck!
2006-11-06 04:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by INS24106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on down the road. Firstly, if he stood you up, he probably doesn't care about you, secondly, if he told your friend that he hasn't called back, because your mad at him, and wont answer his call. The second one confirms, the first one.
2006-11-06 03:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by cheztom1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still mad at him? If not call him and talk...let him know it upset you being stood up, but if you accept his reason, get past it.
2006-11-06 03:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and get it over with
2006-11-06 03:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julie, it's over. Guys MAKE TIME for what they WANT time for. If he stood you up, chances are he has another interest more interesting to him. Move on girl.
2006-11-06 03:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's his excuse for not showing up? Is his excuse a legitimate one? Sometimes **** happens and we have no control over it. If he has a legitimate excuse, then I would call him and explain myself. If his excuse is a weak one, don't bother wasting your time on him, honey...there's plenty more fish in the sea. :)
2006-11-06 03:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to call him because it sounds like he isn't going to call you any more
2006-11-06 03:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were him I wouldnt call you back. The ball is in your court now.
2006-11-06 03:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋