i posted a question last night about my boyfriend sending sexual messages to a girl and it not being the first time. i got some great answers back the thing is though its alot more complicated than i am able to put into 1000 words! i work as a model and im good at it but La is not my market knowing this i moved here anyway to be with the love of my life. we broke up beging of the year 2 weeks before i was to move my life , ticket paid for and everything. we got back together and i did move. it was hard to learn to trust him again but i did and then he messed up again with messages to a girl. i got over that and now he has done it again. the thing is he is giving up his apartment here to move somewher i can work. this is not somewhere i want to b but its a place he can really thrive too. in a week we are going o europe then he is coming back home to s africa with me for 1 mnth. i love him but i do not trust him anymore and my heart feels hard and heavy. knw whats right but not easy
2006-11-06 03:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by serendipity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I get it. It's complicated because of an existing living arrangements, plans, etc. What if none of that stuff was in place? Would you feel that you would want to be with this guy who has proved himself possibly unworthy of your trust and who has betrayed you emotionally? Sounds like the answer is no. At minimum, if I were you, I'd separate, go your separate ways and do your own thing for 6 months. Once you become free and independent of all this, then decide if you ever want to give this another chance. You might see things more clearly. Going around with a hard heart isn't what a good relationship is about, right? Move ahead and enjoy life. You never know who you might meet next.
2006-11-06 04:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 08:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by freudenburg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are just confused about it.Make no mistake..once a cheater always a cheater! Become strong and independent without having to depend on a man! I know a lot of women who were in your situation and gave up everything in their lives to be with some useless man. Get strong quick and try living on your own for once!
2006-11-06 03:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, do yuorself a favor and leave this guy alone. Why would you want to put yourself through the same s*** all over again?
2006-11-06 03:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋