1. Would you prefer your boyfriend to hang out with his weed smoking no job having friends and go clubbing at night
OR
2. Stay in the house, play video games, ignore the hell out of you and your 1 year old daughter and spends little to no time with you and the child?
Please explain why you chose your answer. Really need to know! Thanks guys.
2006-11-06 03:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you left out option number three
3. kick his sorry *** to the curb - get my paternity established and get the child support hooked up - take a little time to evaulate myself and get my life in order - show my daughter by example that no man should determine my self worth or happiness.
Please - for your health - and your daughters future, don't be stuck in a rut and think that the two choices that you have laid out before you are your only options.
Men are not a requirment - they are bonus points. Find one that feels the same way.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-06 03:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by hmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather my boyfriend stay at home play video games, ignore the hell out of me and 1year old daughter. I choose this because for one thing if my b/f did weed then i would kick his *** and he needs a job so he can help pay for the bills and the food so i wouldn't have to do it by myself.
2006-11-06 11:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by button31_us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. The only one winning in this situation is him. Its not fair. I wouldn't mind him smoking, but it gets old quick. He would have to have a job or get to stepping. As for him ignoring the family, I would rather move on. You can do bad all by yourself. I would hate to be in either of these situations. I know how hard it is to leave and move on, but when we look at the end of the tunnel, we will see why it was necessary and something better will come along.
2006-11-06 11:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just get rid of him? I know this isn't your question, but no way freakin' way would my man act like that or I would smash a broomstick over his head. Seriously though, neither of your two choices are a good way for a child to grow up with. So many people don't realize that even a child of 1 isn't stupid and is getting very negative views of life from his behaviour and yours for staying with him, even if he is the father.
2006-11-06 11:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy_Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither really but if i had to pick id pick number 2 because if he smoked weed i wouldnt want him bringing that home to my 1yr old daughter after he comes back from clubbing and why would it matter if he ignored your daughter at home he would be ignoring her by not being there too. at least she has u
2006-11-06 11:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by 123456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really I wouldn't choose neither one of them. Men only do what we allow them to do. But I would probably rather have him home that way I would know that he's not getting into any trouble.
2006-11-06 11:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that all depends on if he has a job and at least takes care of his responsibilities financially... I guess I would rather have him home then out with idiots that can't keep a job..
2006-11-06 11:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second answer bcz atlease he's stay at home and i will know he's here with me and he will start pay attention on his kid to it way better then him smoking weed and end up with no job
2006-11-06 11:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a answer but why would one choose either for a b/f let alone to father a child
2006-11-06 11:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't even chose he is a LOSER and ur daughter needs someone a dad.
So tell him its me n ue daughter or i am outa here
gd luck xxxx
2006-11-06 11:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by xx-bbz-xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋