Dude, you can impregnate her the first time ya know, especially if you guys didnt use protection. If your concerned she may be playing you, by all means get DNA testing as soon as possible but don't act like one of those Maury asssholes who always say something dumb like "I only slept with her one time" For the record. I got knocked up the very first time I did the do.......
2006-11-06 03:52:07
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answered by Mean Carleen 7
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I'm not a guy but I would be nice enough to help during the pregnancy and ask the girl for a blood test when she has the baby just in case. If this girl is pregnant a week or two later then you know she's lying and the child isn't yours. It usually takes a little more time for the egg to implant itself and for the woman to know she's pregnant. Nobody can sleep with a guy and then two weeks later talk about their pregnant. However if she popped up pregnant a month later then that's more understandble. You have to do the math here for yourself. Also it's really hard to take this girl seriously seeing that she slept with you on the first night. It makes you think if she does this with every other guy too. The only true way to know for sure is with a blood test. If she doesn't like it that's too bad. There are so many men out here that are decieved into thinking these kids are theirs. What makes it even worse is all the child support their paying when the child isn't even theirs. Don't become another statistic. This child could be yours and then it may not be, who knows??? Just get to the bottom of things and then go from there.
2006-11-06 03:57:29
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answered by Anonymous
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SH*T happens and as we all know it is possible to get pregnant the first time... so if you were a real man you would chill and worry about the rest later. I'm not saying give her money and tell her you love her, I'm saying hang out be a friend and then when the baby is born worry about paternity then but don't be an *** and be honest with her from the start...
2006-11-06 03:51:31
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answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3
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There are ways to tell. And if you don't want to pay for the tests, just call Maury Povich and he'll foot the bill if your willing to find out on national TV. But yes it's possible..2 out of my 4 children happened the first shot. I should get a marksmans medal!!
2006-11-06 03:50:55
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answered by flashpro 5
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get a DNA test, what a minute she said she was pregant the very next day??? No you are not the father. IT takes about 19 days from conception for a positive to appear on pregancy test, might even be longer but 19 days is the rule of thumb.
2006-11-06 03:50:39
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answered by shorte716 6
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Are you out of your mind? Look I'm a girl and I am suspicous! I would definitely get a DNA test! This is 2006 and a test should not offend anyone! Have you watched an episode of Maury lately? Get a test to ease your mind and hers
2006-11-06 03:56:38
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answered by Anonymous
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of course really talk to her, see what her plan is fi she's going to have the child or not. if she is, realize if she is trustworthy or not, do you have the gut feeling that the child is yours, because if it is you need to face the music and be a real man! Now if you still feel kind of strange and doubtful, then tell her about that be honest and tell her you are going to need a paternity test once the child is born!!!
2006-11-06 03:52:57
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answered by lasugarfree 4
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Why would you be suspicious?? All it takes is one time to get pregnant. Just because she got pregnant the first time doesn't mean she was sleeping around or that it couldn't be yours. Buck up and face the facts. Ready or not you could be a father.
2006-11-06 03:51:24
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answered by april_fay21 3
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I work for child suport so heres the deal. either demand a blood test after the child is born through your state, or pay for one. its easier to go to child support and ask them to do it in most states if your not the father its free
2006-11-06 03:53:09
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answered by Arthur D 3
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Be suspicious... And Im a girl.....
You can get a DNA test while the Child is still in the womb. Tell her your not trying to be mean or horrible but it would really relax your mind to know for sure if the child is yours. You have the right to know. she acts hesitant please beware..
2006-11-06 03:51:33
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answered by kaliprincess82 2
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