I've been getting together with a guy who lives a few hours away from me, and the only times we've ever seen each other is when we go out with our mutual friends, who by the way are all guys. He told me he's always likes me, but then he's acting really funny. A couple of nights ago we saw each other again and we ended up sleeping in the same bed, which is the third time it happened, we've never had actual sex and he's never pressurized me to although we did do other things, and i took as this as him really liking me and wanting to wait. The next day though he was ignoring me and acting all cool, is this because his friends were there? His friends tell me that he really really likes me and that he's funny around girls he really likes, and that i should just tell him how i feel, but I'm pretty sure he already knows. We all went out again the next day and he was being really quiet which isn't normal with him. I asked him if he was pissed off with me and he said no, i'm just feeling ill.
2006-11-06 03:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then he had to catch the last train home and he was being quite cold, and just said bye and kissed me on the cheek.. is this because his friends were around or what? Should i call his to ask him what the deal is cos i can't stop thinking about it and i want him to know how i feel.
2006-11-06 03:50:56 · update #1
His friends are also my friends.. in fact i've known them for 10 years.. so although i understand they have loyalties to him i don't think they'd get my hopes up unless they thought me and him could work
2006-11-06 03:59:09 · update #2
Call him and let him know how you feel
2006-11-06 03:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like he's kinda wierd around the friends.
Definitely tell him how you feel. I've been there myself...I liked someone that was part of the group (even slept next to her as you describe) but I just couldn't get the nerve to say anything more.
Also, another possible factor is that one of his friends likes you too and he doesn't want to intrude or hurt his friend.
2006-11-06 03:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how all boys are . if he cant act the way he acts around you when hes wit his friends he does'nt deserve a girl like you. believe me thats jus a sign that he's not made for you
2006-11-06 03:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. jenkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and let him know that you really do like him, but he gotta open up a little if he wants to date you becuz your not settling for this wierd stuff.
2006-11-06 04:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD help and guide you to a right and safe path. Please dont spoil your life, dont prepare hell for yourself. Get back to a pious life. Time will come, when you realize that that was against nature, moral and diginity.
Please open your eyes, think 1000 times b4 moving forward.
2006-11-06 03:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore him. Seriously. If you ignore him, he will come running. If you pester him and bombard him with questions, he won't be able to run away fast enough.
2006-11-06 03:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a looser and you are a booty call. his friends have nothing invested other than being his friend. loose him before you loose your own self confidence.
2006-11-06 03:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call him find out what is going on.
2006-11-06 03:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, you probably just got him pregnant...
2006-11-06 03:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋