Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

there's no computers, t.v., i can't go outside or leave, there's no one to talk to, and no games

2006-11-05 02:08:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey... i figured this is like the best free advice i can afford ^^" so yeh, im sticking to it. I just want some advice from people who think they know what to say? lol. or anything is good i guess... i recently broke up with my gf coz she cheated on me with a good mate. That realli sux coz i was realli down and out for a while and like everytime im tryin to move foward someone will tell me something else they said or someone else said and it brings me right down. Like my friend who she cheated with didnt really seem guilty or have any remorse, and the things he said like when my other friend asked me like what about me, did he know how upset i was and the things he did to me were killing me from the inside and all he said was pfft, who cares about him. that cut me real bad and made me start to thing about everything again and now i feel really depressed and dont know what to do. Will revenge really make my heart satisfied? To know that his legs and arms are broken? Well, advice anybody

2006-11-05 02:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been in a relationship now for a couple of years..neither one of us has told our families that we are together...we just don't like them being involved in our business BUT anytime we go out with his friends he still only introduces me as 'a friend' and I never mention to my friends that we are really a couple either...at what point do we let everyone know we are together? We aren't even spending New Years together this year...we've only spent one together since we've been in a relationship..this time around he notified everyone about a New Years get together but not me because of course what would other people think? His response was either I deal with it or don't. Well as much as I love him and I know he loves me...I'm tempted to tell him now that I don't want to deal with it anymore and go our separate ways. What should I do ? Do I completely end it or try and figure out a way to make it work?!?

2006-11-05 02:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

with regard to settling down in a relationship, marriage, family etc....

2006-11-05 02:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by medium_of_dance 4 in Singles & Dating

The woman had been away for two days visiting a sick friend in another city. When she returned, her little boy greeted her by saying, "Mommy, guess what! Yesterday I was playing in the closet in your bedroom and daddy came into the room with the lady next door and they got undressed and got into your bed and then daddy got on top of her..."

Sonny's mother held up her hand. "Not another word. Wait till your father comes home and then I want you to tell him exactly what you've just told me."

The father came home. As he walked into the house, his wife said, "I'm leaving you. I'm packing now and I'm leaving you." "But why--" asked the startled father. "Go ahead, Sonny. Tell daddy just what you told me."

"Well," Sonny said, "I was playing in your bedroom closet and daddy came upstairs with the lady next door and they got undressed and got into bed and daddy got on top of her and then they did just what you did with uncle John when daddy was away last summer."

2006-11-05 02:05:09 · 17 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really sad.

What can I do to get over it and be happy again?

2006-11-05 02:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 02:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by sunxshinebabi67 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 02:04:18 · 12 answers · asked by laura d 1 in Singles & Dating

he his still married. what rights on death and pensions

2006-11-05 02:03:39 · 29 answers · asked by sexytm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This world is a horrible, sick and disgusting place. No child should ever have to grow up in this world. With all the murder, rape, and things one cant even talk about, I refuse to have kids. If someone commits an awful crime against your kids, its that persons fault, but its ultimately your fault for bringing the kid into the world and subjecting him to that kind of pain. I dont care what happenes to me, but i am not going to be responcible for a tragedy.

2006-11-05 02:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 02:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

There are times when my friends make fun of me, laugh at me and I feel like an idiot when all of them laugh. I know they are just having some fun, but always it is me that is being targeted in the entire group. This happens at certain times. They are co-operative at other times, but I just get sick of all the teases. Plz tell me how do I cope with this?

2006-11-05 02:02:08 · 21 answers · asked by truth 3 in Friends

Is it just me, or is it really really really annoying when people talk 'baby' to smaller children - like sing songing, etc. I always try and speak to each person in the same way ( from my grandparents to youngest cousins). I do agree that i cant use that same words for the different ages but i still think that I should show the same amount of respect and maturity to each group. How about you?

2006-11-05 02:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by jst4di 2 in Family

I just signed up and I think that this is a great site. So many times have I been confused about things and no one to give me an unbyast opinion. I would like to help anyone I can. I am a great listener and I do give really good advice, that I have been told. If you would like to vent or have my opinion just go ahead! I'm here pretty much everyday.
Take care.

2006-11-05 02:00:23 · 11 answers · asked by happy in love now 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he will buy whatever I want...what should I start with?

2006-11-05 01:59:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ended up chatting with a very sweet man last night for about an hour and half. He was very sweet and funny and a had a lot of laughs. I wasn't looking for anything and neither was he, I think we were just both lonely. His wife is in another country and my husband works a lot. Nothing could happen because he lives in CA.and I live in CO. So, why do I feel so guilty?

2006-11-05 01:59:14 · 40 answers · asked by pmemommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i get extremely jealous over my husband's x.I start comparing myself with her + i hear many nice things bout her.I felt i could never be better than her.I know thats the past,they've broke up and he told me shes already a dead body to him.I tried to not think about it,its very foolish and hurting myself for no reason.I cried earlier after my husband told me some things bout her n he is sick of my attitude and told me to forget him.That it would be best for me.I love him more than my life.everytime i hear him talking bout her i wish it didnt happened between them n with me instead.I feel very sorry for making so much trouble for him.How should i start accepting she was a nice person n no point thinking so much nonsense.I would do anything to change myself.
he wants to break this relationship cause of my trust issue now. i cant do it . i want this relationship with him . i trust him just sometimes i say things which i dont mean but i really do trust him . please help me .

2006-11-05 01:58:53 · 16 answers · asked by ver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is very very sick, and I can't bare to see him like that. And there is no cure... no medicne, no injection no nothing. And my mom has MS. And I can't take it anymore. I'm only 13 years old. I'm still a kid and I am waching my parents slowly suffer!!!! I feel like I want to cut my wrists or something!!!!! I am going crazy! Ican't stop crying!!! I feel like if I hurt my self all that pain goes away!!!!!!!! Please help me...

2006-11-05 01:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We were close friends at Gillespie Middle school in Philly, you moved away and I never saw you again, I have not ever run into you on the street, so I guess you are not in Philly...let me know if you are out there or anyone knows you... a friend is looking to catch up

2006-11-05 01:58:08 · 1 answers · asked by ThunderCats 3 in Friends

I was your best friend on Natrona street In PA. You moved away and I had never heard from you again. It would be nice to catch up.

2006-11-05 01:56:19 · 1 answers · asked by ThunderCats 3 in Friends

2006-11-05 01:55:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 01:54:28 · 5 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 01:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dumped my girl 7 months ago coz i found out that she had cheated on me, we had been together for 3 years. I decided her to give a a second chance coz i love her i think that everyone deserves a second chance. However she had become very close to a male friend at the time when we split, so when we got back i told her that she had to be careful not to sway like she did before. One day she went to london for church and came back that same day i had a feeling she met up this guy when she went there, i confronted her and she denied and said that i needed to trust her. i later discovered that they did meet and she confessed that met up, but only didnt tell me coz she didnt want me to freak out bla bla.

The thing is how can she lie to me and simply accept me to forgive her just like that, to me she hasnt changed. I told her that its over coz i dont trust her anymore, she called her relatives who are now fuming and say i wasted her time. Did i do the wrong thing by dumpin her again?

2006-11-05 01:53:39 · 28 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Singles & Dating

has anyone come out of a relationship and found love again? have your children been excepted?
Please help im 20 my son is 3, I hear about people finding love all the time, it would really be nice to hear from people who have been through it all, I just feel that no one will ever want me, I am not blaming this matter on my child because if people dont like my son then thats their problem , he is a part of me, but has any one found it harder to date although they have a child? please help me.

2006-11-05 01:52:46 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Singles & Dating

everyone i go out with dumps me for someone else how can i find true love.

2006-11-05 01:52:32 · 4 answers · asked by danni 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 01:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by sammijokool96 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 01:52:07 · 15 answers · asked by saviola j 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are antifoot people so adamant-feet are just another errogenous zone is all .

I dont see the point of foot-a-phobia and repulsion
i mean im not saying it should be your thing by any stretch of the imagination however just about any part on a womans body can be an errogenous zone for us males.It could be the nape of your neck , your hair ,your earlobe , or your sides .

I also dont see how selfish a foot fetish is if you take care of a womans needs such as what she wants.Its amazing how many times i hear in threads on how selfish a guy is for having a foot fetish .Heck if pay attention to her breast , carress her derrier andgo down on a woman for a 1/2 an hour or more , make love to her whats selfish about sucking her toes or getting a footjob

2006-11-05 01:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I chose close family and friends to be our bridesmaids and groomsmen but we realized that some of them are unrealiable and we dont want the headache of wondering if everyone will get their wedding attire and if everyone will show up on time. I know my maid of honor and his best man will so we are thinking about having a matron of honor,best man, flower girl and ring bearer for our wedding party. Everyone else will just be invited to attend.

2006-11-05 01:51:10 · 12 answers · asked by shydiva218 1 in Weddings