Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

OK, I already know the answer is "no" but I've talked to him about it and he's fine with changing...and reverting back to his ways...and changing again the next time I get upset enough to cry. This is a true example of opposites attracting: he's extroverted, I'm introverted; he plays video games, I crochet; he's a Christian, I'm an atheist; he stays out til 4 AM with his friends, I'm ready to get married and settle down. The list goes on. We have trouble just finding things to talk about. I've tried to explain to him that I'd feel better if both of us didn't have to try so hard but he says I'm worth it. I know I have a great man, but should I break up with him for his own good?

2006-11-05 03:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Out of sight out of mind? Which one? Personally "Out of sight out of mind" works for me!!

2006-11-05 03:24:07 · 24 answers · asked by arrow 2 in Singles & Dating

I entered into a marriage with 70k of assets (equity from a home which I sold and put into a joint stock account with my spouse). He had a lot which was financed (little equity at the time of marriage) but during our marriage we built a house on the lot together and it is now worth 250K but my name is not on the deed. I have asked him to add my name to the deed because technically I entered the marriage with more assets than he did and my assets turned into community property but his did not. What course of action do I have if he refuses to add my name to the deed? I really don't want to divorce him over this but it is the principal of the thing. FYI the house on the lot was built "out of pocket" which came from his income because he was living in my house for free for a year (same house I sold and turned the equity into community property) but we built the house ourselves, putting in many design and labor ours personally and I paid for the 10k drive way myself.

2006-11-05 03:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Lori 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know if there's anyone who's so alone in the world right now that feel like they're not lonely anymore when they're in publuc and purpposely venture to public places for that reason?

2006-11-05 03:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I heard a girl say "once I get married, I will never have to give another BJ." I thought to myself, you are going to have many unsuccesful marriages. Dont women realize that if they dont do it at least once in a while he will find someone who will. I mean if he beats you and treats you like crap, i could understand not doing it, but if he works full time to support you and your family, shouldnt he get something in return. I realize that some women support the family, im not talking about you women.

2006-11-05 03:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25 & married. I own a 6 bedroom 3 bath house. I have an Lincoln Naviagtor and a Mercedes convertible. I have 3 children from 3-1 month. I'm a history teacher with a masters and working on dr's. WHY AM I UNHAPPY!

2006-11-05 03:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. i don't know if he like's me back. and i want him to know that i like him without telling him and without my friends getting in the way, what should i do

2006-11-05 03:21:39 · 23 answers · asked by nadine 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i cant tell if he likes me or not. On friday after school him and i where talking and then all of the sudden i asked him who he likes and he said that he wouldnt tell me so then i said that he was weird and then he chased me around the baseball feild and then i threw wood chips at him and then we where laughing and throwing woodchips at eachother so does he like me???

2006-11-05 03:20:41 · 5 answers · asked by Ashlee 3 in Singles & Dating

How will i know if my boyfriend really likes me or if he's just cheating or using me?
What should i do since his parents don't like me and my parents don't like him?

2006-11-05 03:20:29 · 12 answers · asked by angel_hart 1 in Singles & Dating

I am away at college but almost every weekend my mother calls me telling me that my younger sister has snuck out the house or that she has refused to come home. I do not understand this because she has a 4.2 grade point average and she has offers from ivy schools and it just seems like she is trying to ruin her life.

There seems to be nothing my mother can do to control her terrible behavior. She can't lock her up in her room or use physical force. And grounding her is pointless because she just sneaks out as soon as my mother goes to work. Does anyone know what kind of programs there are in place or what steps she can take to let my sister know the seriousness of her actions? What can the police do?

2006-11-05 03:20:24 · 5 answers · asked by Charlee's Mama 3 in Family

My wife get me to feed her almost non-stop, resulting in her becoming obese( around 35stone) she cannot leave our bed. The real problem is that i think she is offering prostitution services for people interested when i go out. The evidence for this this is dirty txt messages and her lack of interest in me. Now i have to go to prison for 2 years and i am woried she is going to ruin herself. HELP!

2006-11-05 03:20:23 · 26 answers · asked by Duncan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not ugly, concider my self not to be a typical guy. Would alow freedom within the relationship as long as that persons loyal. Want to become verygood friends, have loads of fun time together. Enjoy special moments, go on romantic dates and the list is endless. .But when i meet someone they are not serious enough or worried about if im to good to be true and cant handle me. I would appreciate any advice on the matter thanks. Have you also had similar experiences in life.

2006-11-05 03:18:31 · 20 answers · asked by sija_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

Where do ladies of this description frequent the most? Where do they live? What do they do for a living?

2006-11-05 03:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I divorced within the past year. We now live in different states. I have primary custody of our 14-year-old son. He now tells me he wants to go live with his father - the main reason being that he misses his chums and his relatives (on my husbands side - all of my relatives live 3,000 miles away). I can understand why my son would get lonely, but I hate very much to have him leave. I also feel that my ex is too lenient on my son, not oferring enough advice and direction. What would you do in this situation?

2006-11-05 03:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was so disappointed,
what should I do?

2006-11-05 03:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Friends

2006-11-05 03:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family

Could someone be that lonley to pay a woman from another country money to marry them?How many men on here have paid for a bride or will pay for a bride?

2006-11-05 03:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by wblueyesinvt35 2 in Weddings

i was just curious :)

2006-11-05 03:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I don't have any best friend but I do have close friends. I already experienced to have a bestfriend when I'm an elementary pupil but soon I found out that we can't agree on anything and this disagreement will soon go to serious conflicts and now I am a high school student, I decided not to have a best friend.

And this is the question that I really don't know how to answer,
What is that thing to consider that you two are now best friend?

2006-11-05 03:13:10 · 3 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Friends

I seem to grudge any time my bf spends with his frends..i know i'm dumb....its like i sit and wonder..why is he so into chilling out with the guys and stuff..when he's with them, he never calls or msgs..it would have been ok if i had the same feeling..but i'm not sooo into hanging out with the girls..when i'm with them i still think about my bf..is this a guy thing??how do i get over this weird feeling of resentment when he hangs out with the guys??

2006-11-05 03:12:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my ex 3 years ago. I now live with my 29 year old daughter and granddaughter. My ex continues to do everything for them. My daughter takes full advantage of this. He drives my daughter as she is attending courses during the day, etc. I told him to get his own life and stop doing so much for her but he won't listen to me and she gets angry at me. He will do errands for her - run to the bank, etc., anything she wants. He is contantly calling her and the baby just to talk. I don't mind him having contact with them but not like this!! It's ok now because I'm not dating but what if I had a boyfriend. I guess I would have to move out. I will NEVER go back with him, if anything, this has made me hate him.

2006-11-05 03:11:39 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine_lady 1 in Family

ok i went to this holloween dance and i met up with a boy that i have liked for a while now.. i am in 9th he is in 8th but well i really like him and we danced alot but on our last dance he said howie a friend of ours told him to dance with me and then he said but i enjoyed the dance.. then matt another friend in school went up and asked him if i liked him he said yes but not that way he just really likes me as a friend i just really like him because all the guys in 9th are so imature and he wasnt... but now we still talk and i just really dont know what he thinks about me...

2006-11-05 03:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 03:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Friends

There have been many guys who I am SURE have liked me, even one that knew I liked him and he like me and he never asked me out. I really don't get it I have been complimented many times on my looks(not that that's all that matters), so I KNOW I am NOT ugly, and I'm really nice I give everyone a chance and I don't care a lot about looks, but they just don't ask me out. EVER. Once there was this guy a lot older than me and I could tell he liked me. He was always looking at me and stuff but he never asked me out even though, I could tell, he REALLY liked me. WHY? I am definitely a virgin(not that it's a bad thing) and I have never even been kissed. Maybe it's because I don't know how to flirt or something. There has been only one guy I think wasn't intimidated by me and he went to college. What am I doing wrong? Guys don't even, when they do like me, tell me they like me. HEEELLPP?!!!!!!!!

2006-11-05 03:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been in serious talks of engagement and marriage for probably 6 months now. Now that I'm 5 weeks from graduating from college, we've been talking a bit more about it. My problem is that I don't want to pressure him too much, so I try not to bring things up too often. He has been sidestepping my questions about when we will get engaged (right after I graduate or if we will wait months/a year, etc). He also keeps maintaining that he doesn't want to get me a "crappy ring" so I'm assuming he's saving his money as he mentioned his belief that "rings should cost 2-3 months of a man's salary." We've been casually looking at rings together in a magazine or two, talking about what we like and don't like. So here is my question to you... I found a picture of an AMAZING ring today that is exactly the type of design I'm interested in. Would it be helpful to email him the picture, or will that just be an annoyance? All you men out there? What's a lady to do? :)

2006-11-05 03:09:54 · 20 answers · asked by xenomorph_girl 3 in Weddings

Why are they against it? I don't understand what they big deal is. I have Type 1 Diabetes which means that it's never gonna go away unless they come up with a cure. Stem cell research is on the border line of finding that cure, so I really don't understand why everyone is against it!!!
xxxoo

2006-11-05 03:08:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ur friend stop talkin about ppl she sees a person and atomaticly talk about ppl i dont know why but im starting not to like her

2006-11-05 03:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by Shanae :) 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been in serious talks of engagement and marriage for probably 6 months now. Now that I'm 5 weeks from graduating from college, we've been talking a bit more about it. My problem is that I don't want to pressure him too much, so I try not to bring things up too often. He has been sidestepping my questions about when we will get engaged (right after I graduate or if we will wait months/a year, etc). He also keeps maintaining that he doesn't want to get me a "crappy ring" so I'm assuming he's saving his money as he mentioned his belief that "rings should cost 2-3 months of a man's salary." We've been casually looking at rings together in a magazine or two, talking about what we like and don't like. So here is my question to you... I found a picture of an AMAZING ring today that is exactly the type of design I'm interested in. Would it be helpful to email him the picture, or will that just be an annoyance? All you men out there? What's a lady to do? :)

2006-11-05 03:08:34 · 15 answers · asked by xenomorph_girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when he responded by pouting out his bottom lip and whining, was that supposed to entice me & change my mind?

2006-11-05 03:07:57 · 2 answers · asked by Gabrielle 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 03:05:37 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends