I heard a girl say "once I get married, I will never have to give another BJ." I thought to myself, you are going to have many unsuccesful marriages. Dont women realize that if they dont do it at least once in a while he will find someone who will. I mean if he beats you and treats you like crap, i could understand not doing it, but if he works full time to support you and your family, shouldnt he get something in return. I realize that some women support the family, im not talking about you women.
2006-11-05 03:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any woman with that mind set is only lying to her future partner. If she is willing to do something before she is married then she should be willing to do the same after, or it was just lie in the first place. Women are no closer to prefect than men and be careful guys, we can be more devious!
This has noting to do with who is supporting the family. This is just another form of honesty with your mate.
Men that beat women should just be locked up and beaten themselves. If a man does this to a woman before they are married than she is a fool for marrying him, but still does not deserve to be beaten. You have drifted to many issues here so I am getting sidetracked.
Both men and women should be honest with their future mates. If she is not willing to perform certain sex acts for you before the marriage then don’t expect her to after you get married. If she does perform these acts prior to the marriage then she should continue after the marriage.
2006-11-05 03:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marriage is a partnership that should be based on friendship and communication as well as love. If open communication is a top priority in the marriage, things like this can be discussed and dealt with. As for the BJ, if she doesn't enjoy doing it, she shouldn't be doing it just to snare a husband. It should be done as something that is mutually satisfying.
2006-11-05 11:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like doing it then fine, don't do it. But don't give them before and act a perticular way to catch a hubby then filp after marriage.
All that will do is cause issues, guess that hubby can do the same then. Stop any romance giving to her in the same way also.
Ummmm, I want tickets to see the court battle on that one. Should be fun!!
2006-11-05 11:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who say that won`t be married long!! And there the ones that want attention when the man does cheat because she doesn`t keep her man satisfied. It does work both ways and he should keep her happy also but to think like that she `ll be in divorce court before you know it!!
2006-11-05 11:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love the way the women who are working and not staying home are excluded in your mind from having to give hummers. No wonder almost all of the women in America today are working!
2006-11-05 11:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people should continue to do what they did while they were dating once they are married. All of these things are probably what made the person want to marry in the first place!
2006-11-05 11:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most women are going to say they don't have to do this and no man shouldn't feel like they are entitled -- but u know what those are the same women who cry when their husbands have cheated on them
I personally feel don't do things during dating that you won't do when you get married -- because honey that is how he ends up in another womans bed -- men are men and if you go in to the relationship blowing him during dating and think you can stop later you are lying to yourself
keep your mouth closed before the altar
2006-11-05 11:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things wrong with this question...
You're not entitled to anything. Period. If you love someone, and they love you in return, things like this should not be an issue. If all you're looking for is someone to "give you something in return", go to the bank and change and hundred dollar bill.
2006-11-05 11:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I love giving my man BJ's. It excites me when I can fulfill his needs. Taste matters alot so sometimes I will clean him before I give him head and he loves that. I always finish him with my mouth and clean him with my tongue. He loves it and I love it.
2006-11-05 12:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t think sex is something you should get in return for providing for your family. It should come naturally as a result of loving each other and wanting to please each other and nothing else.
2006-11-05 11:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by Eileen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋