hey... i figured this is like the best free advice i can afford ^^" so yeh, im sticking to it. I just want some advice from people who think they know what to say? lol. or anything is good i guess... i recently broke up with my gf coz she cheated on me with a good mate. That realli sux coz i was realli down and out for a while and like everytime im tryin to move foward someone will tell me something else they said or someone else said and it brings me right down. Like my friend who she cheated with didnt really seem guilty or have any remorse, and the things he said like when my other friend asked me like what about me, did he know how upset i was and the things he did to me were killing me from the inside and all he said was pfft, who cares about him. that cut me real bad and made me start to thing about everything again and now i feel really depressed and dont know what to do. Will revenge really make my heart satisfied? To know that his legs and arms are broken? Well, advice anybody
2006-11-05 02:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget the ***** and your two faced "mate" revenge will only make you feel better for a little while in the long run its just not worth it !! they will both regret it soon enough "What goes around comes around" dont worry youll be laughing at them soon enough in the meantime keep busy if u can it helps;; and each new day the pain you feel will ease and eventually dissapear "goodluck luv"!!!!!!!
2006-11-05 02:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! Let it go. Revenge isn't the answer. You broke up with her and for good reason. You need to move on. Just tell everyone that you no longer want to hear anything about her and you could care less what she did or didn't do while you guys were in the relationship.
Only you can stop yourself from letting this bother you. Get back out there and start looking again.
Hope you find the answer that you are looking for!
See ya!
2006-11-05 10:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by happy in love now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, taking the revenge into your own hands will NOT make your heart satisfied... it will just give you more to worry about. you need to give yourself time to move on.
the reality of the situation, is based on how you choose to look at it... your ex is clearly a selfish, uncaring, unthoughtful, slimey, w*%#e, so forget about her. realize that the relationship wasn't meant to be, and remember that your friends and x will get what is coming to them. it is a matter of time. And, don't forget "revenge is mine, sayeth the Lord. "
your feelings of depression will pass on in time, probably in a day, if you try to get your mind on other things and stop thinking that there is anything you can do to change this situation.
2006-11-05 10:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never an option unless you want to spend a little time behind bars. Move on, life and love is hard, it has never been easy, you take the bad and you learn from it, grow with it and prosper!
2006-11-05 10:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STUPID DEVIL!!! thats just what he does once someoneis happy the devil tries to bring u down again stay strong with God and Stay hapy ignore all the other crud!!!!
2006-11-05 10:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by katelen59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, get over her and him. if he cheated with your girlfriend, and then doesnt care about you, hes not really a friend.
2006-11-05 10:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by AdviceGuy399 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Vengence is the Lords!!
What GOD does is lasting!!!!
2006-11-05 10:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋