Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

My father died when I was young b/c of.. well we'll say complications from surgery (The Dr's ****** up). And my mom has been sick all my life, and is never well enough nor financially fit enough to go anywhere.. I just had a baby and my husbands mother is healthy and able to come up and see her grandkid, and I just get so mad at him b/c he's always been able to do things with his family, no one's ever been sick or anything, and I never can... We live states away from my family, we're saving now to go see her next yr, but she may not be alive next yr... And I still hear my mother-in-law complaining that she doesn't get enough time with her grandson and she never gets to do this or that... etc.. She was here when he was born!! How can I get over this, it just breaks my heart...

2006-11-05 12:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by Me... 1 in Family

Say it's your birthday and it hasn't been completely forgotten but by the end of the day, one or two people that are very important to you either avoid you altogether or don't even mention it. Would this bother you? Trust me, I don't make a big deal out of my birthday. I'm happy if I stay home and do nothing as long as I get to see or talk to the people I care about most. Is it childish of me to be bothered that I didn't hear from a couple of good friends?

2006-11-05 12:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by - 4 in Friends

Do you feel guilty about it? Because I do.
Do you think about the other person and no matter how hard you try to get rid of him/her out of your mind, you can't? I do. And I try, but apparently it's not that easy. I know you might think that I'm greedy, but I don't want to have the other guy as a lover. I just want him to be happy. I pray everyday that he'll meet someone one day that loves him in return. And I don't know why I feel sad which I shouldn't be.. I think about him almost everyday, whereas at the same time, I feel guilty for what I feel because my husband loves me. What's this feeling? Why can I feel it? They say that if you're married you have to and only love your spouse. But this is something I don't create.. And now I just need someone to talk to for I can't and mustn't let what I feel out... someone, please help?

2006-11-05 12:45:48 · 14 answers · asked by christmasgreen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The girl is from Bangalore and I am presently in US, I would like to understand what are the requirements for the same? It would be best if someone has a similar experience then let me know. Also let me know if there are any agents providing these services also?

2006-11-05 12:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by phan77 1 in Weddings

I was just invited to a lingerie party for a coworker of mine, that is fixing to get married. Can someone tell me what goes on at these things and do I need to take something with me?

2006-11-05 12:44:23 · 14 answers · asked by J~Me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you pick out your engagement ring or did he?

2006-11-05 12:41:36 · 29 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Weddings

I am male and interested in finding women to wrestle me so I would like to know if there are any women in this country who love to wrestle men for fun

2006-11-05 12:38:25 · 7 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is go good so perfect but i just feel like theres a spark missing but I dont want to let him go because I know his a guy thats worth alot . but I feel like theres a kind of action missing in my life.

2006-11-05 12:38:24 · 3 answers · asked by boom 1 in Singles & Dating

do we haft to go to court for my dad to get custody or can i just go with my dad and not come back??

2006-11-05 12:38:17 · 16 answers · asked by blair w 1 in Family

A light skin guy can be a cheater,broke,and treat her like s**t and she sweats him.But a dark guy can treat her like a queen and she will pass him by.Whats the deal with dat?

2006-11-05 12:38:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I accidently booked a trip on a gay cruiseship and I wanted to return the tickets but I was told there are no refunds so I decided I'm not going to waste my money, I might as well go, gay people can't be that bad. So I went and I actually had fun for a while, I can't believe how much energy gay people have and how horny they are, jeez I had at least 20 gay men flirt with me but I told them the truth that I was straight so they said that's not what your boyfriend told me, I was speechless so I went to have a few drinks. After a while I was so drunk I don't remember anything, I woke up the next day next to a guy snuggled up against me in bed, I woke up and screamed and ran out of the room. Would this make me gay if I was so drunk I didn't know a man from a woman?

2006-11-05 12:37:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would you ask yourself out, and date yourself long term and have a relationship with yourself?

this was a quesiton they asked on a show and I answered that I would go out with me, be my friend and even maybe sleep with me, but not marry me, because I can be a drama queen and have issues.

what about you?

2006-11-05 12:36:55 · 30 answers · asked by motorized vehicle 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 12:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by German queen Bosnian princess!!! 2 in Friends

why are guys so afriad to ask people out?

2006-11-05 12:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by abnick2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with this guy... my friend. And well he has a gf and I don't know what to do, because I like him so much but hes serious with his gf and I can't tell him about it cuz he'll probably get weirded out and stuff... I'm not sure what to do about it. I need help, because he and I are close and I know that its pointless for me to like him because hes with his gf, but I can't help myself... I just need advice on how to get through this... please...

2006-11-05 12:35:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf understand this but fridays a have off but he wants to send time with the boys what should i do

2006-11-05 12:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by dar 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 12:34:48 · 14 answers · asked by tender_hearted_leo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 12:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by cute girlsarehot 1 in Singles & Dating

After 1 year after the judge ordering my ex wife to refinance the marital home and buy me out, she still refuses to do so, stating that she cannot affort to refinance it. The judge has now imposed a $5000 fine on her if she does not refinance by Nov 30, and $5000 for every month thereafter, if it's still not refinanced. How will the court collect this if she has no money. What comes next? Thank you.

2006-11-05 12:34:25 · 7 answers · asked by sky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my b/f , his best friend is a girl. and its not like im jealous or anything but what i dont get is like if i call him and hes on the phone with her he'll be like well can i call u back because im on the phone and he'll tell me with her. and im like how can u put her before me, i mean yeah they are friends. but not to long ago he liked her a lot. until she told him that they could never be together. and he told me that she had her chance. but i still think that there is something goin on that they arent telling me. its just so weird for me because she is the one who got us together in the first place but then after we start dating everything changes. i just dont know what to think anymore. he says that he likes me and that even if she told him that she wanted to date him that she had 4 years to date him and that was all he said. what should i do?

2006-11-05 12:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by babydoll10 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a married 27 y/o female who has been friends with single, 52 year old "Tim" for the past 7 years. I met Tim when I was very lonely, and I kind of adopted him as a surrogate father.(My own father was emotionally abusive). Tim is a great friend, but he's neurotic. He has an advanced degreee, but hasn't started working in his field due to shyness. In addition, his frustration with his inability to meet women (he's had a few relationships with women over the years, but never been married or seriously involved) has turned him into a bitter resentful person. I'm starting to feel wierd hanging out with him, and furthermore, I spend more time with him then with my husband! Tim's lack of work ethic really brings me down. Should I take a break from him, or just end things all together? Our large age gap means we don't have much of a common vantage point anymore, and the more I get involved with my career (I'm an attorney) and my husband, the less time I have to deal with his drama.Help!

2006-11-05 12:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I posted a question earlier and loved the responses that I recieved, to those that replied, thank you very much, and Im just reposting for those just joining us. - My girlfriend and I live in Michigan and next week we are going to pick up our best friend from Florida. She has just recently decided to finally get out of her horribly abusive *emotionally* relationship with her girlfriend of a year and a half... and wants to start a new life here. We have opened our home to her, and we care about her very much. I just have a little bit of worry about her getting lonely or something like that... She says she is very excited to come here and to start over. She means the world to us and we hold her very close to our heart. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to make her feel more at home or more comfortable here??

2006-11-05 12:32:21 · 2 answers · asked by llsoinlovell 2 in Friends

i need 2 names
liek things that go like candyman with something else
things like that would help thanx

2006-11-05 12:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by hayhay 2 in Family

I know I am starting early but since my fiancee and I have moved into our own place, my mother-in-law has been more than valuable. Between my fiancee and I, we work 6 jobs. When I am home she will come over and help me to dishes, laundry, and generally clean up. I want to get her something really nice for Christmas but I don't know what to get her. She never really takes time for herself but I'm not sure if she'd be comfortable going to a spa. Other than that she is very devoted to her family so I don't know what to get her. Please Help

2006-11-05 12:30:23 · 10 answers · asked by soxnut726 2 in Family

ok, i've been sortof seeing this guy. we're friends, and have hung out, gone to movies, a few dates, where he has labeled them "dates", and he has never kissed me. so today, we hung out all day, he hugged me, we tickle fight, laugh etc, and when he leaned into me, i thought he wanted to kiss me, so i leaned in too and then he backed away totally repulsed. i was surprised and totally taken off guard. I mean, why would he send all these lets go further signals and then back away? should i just cut my losses, chalk it up to he is not interested and forget about it?

Totally confused here. he's been doing this back and forth dance for months and i have no idea what to do. Thanks.

2006-11-05 12:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by Joyce K 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you think if you just got married and buy a Condo , and your mom (mom's wife) go an buy A condo in the same building?
and by way she is divorce.
tellme is good for the relationship of couple or not?

2006-11-05 12:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has been complaining that one of our other friends has been worrying too much about what her boyfriend thinks but now shes starting to act like her boyfriends opinion is law. i invited her to come hang out with me and some other people on firday but she said she didnt know if she could cuz she had to see what her boyfriend was doing. how can i tell her to stop being a hypocrite without making her mad?

2006-11-05 12:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Lauryn 2 in Friends

I have everyone in my husbands family allready done however I do not know what to get my own husband.He likes the Dallas Cowboys and a jersey would be appropriate but I checked the site and they are quite pricey and I don't want to spend almost $100 on one item alone.What thoughts would come to mind for the man who basically has everything?

2006-11-05 12:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by wsm0628 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This party is at her frinds house, a friend who is liveing ith a boyfriend. what can i say?
or do?

2006-11-05 12:27:46 · 10 answers · asked by kwasi a 1 in Singles & Dating

Just got out of a relationship with a 29 yr. old woman. I'm 24 male and basically was left confused at the end. The last month of relationship, she became very distant and cold. We stopped having sex, and she even rejected me twice. I figured she had a lot on her mind...work, family and school so i let it go. I finally couldn't take it and asked her if everything was alright. She said shes been going through a stressful time and had been doing a lot of thinking. We broke up because she could not find the time to be my gf. But it seems kind of strange to me that she would hold out sex for so long. She claims that she just doesn't have the sex drive...and gurantees me that its not becuase shes kicking it with someone else. Its been a month since the break up and I still want her back. This has been our only issue within our 9 month period. I told her I respected that she needed to get somethings figured out and that she could always rely on me. Its been a month...i'm still waiting

2006-11-05 12:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by Doug051 1 in Singles & Dating