Say it's your birthday and it hasn't been completely forgotten but by the end of the day, one or two people that are very important to you either avoid you altogether or don't even mention it. Would this bother you? Trust me, I don't make a big deal out of my birthday. I'm happy if I stay home and do nothing as long as I get to see or talk to the people I care about most. Is it childish of me to be bothered that I didn't hear from a couple of good friends?
2006-11-05 12:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by - 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aaaaaaa happy birthday hun mines on tuesday waaaay!! Been hinting for ages....i always find i get really down on my birthday its happened for a few years and yes if close friends forgot 'which i dont let them' then i would be upset...i guess it is kind of childish!! Im waiting to see if the guy who says 'likes me' is even going to bother to ring me to say happy birthday...i havent mentioned it in a week so waiting to see if he forgets and if he does hes in trouble.
I wouldnt worry about it people these days are just too busy.
2006-11-05 12:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all like our close friends to remember our birthday. And I use to be like a clock, could remember to the T. Well last year I neglected to call my very best friend. on her birthday....when I realized I called her at like 2AM to apologize. It had hurt her feelings, but overall it hurt me worst cause I felt like I let her down. Once in awhile we have things happening and don't mean to forget, we simply do. Perhaps this was your friends case???? It is not childish to feel emotional just don't dwell on it. On their behalf I hope all your days not just your B-day's are wonderful and full of what brings you happiness.
2006-11-05 21:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's okay to feel bad when the people you know care about you forget. But maybe they were really busy and just got lsot in their minds.It's not childish
2006-11-05 20:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not childish; get used to it. Sometimes people are too wrapped up in themselves to give a thought to another person or they just plain forget.
2006-11-05 20:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not chilidish its f ****** up ! that they didnt wish you happy birthday or even call you to say a hello
2006-11-05 20:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not childish of you! Friends are suppose to recognize you on your special day!
2006-11-05 20:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by macy5 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it was rude of them unless they completely ignored you too not just your birthday. maybe they know you didn't care about your birthday so they wouldn't make a big deal about it.
2006-11-05 21:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by connie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friends/family should talk to you regardless of if its your birthday or not. Maybe it is your imagination but if not then you should confront them.
2006-11-05 20:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by trumpetgal_1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, i mean if it was my b-day i would want the people that i cared about to be there with me ar to talk to me. i mean its your day
2006-11-05 20:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by leilo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope its not being childish... i would feel bad myself if my friends won't remember my birthday.
2006-11-05 20:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by wingless angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋