what would you think if you just got married and buy a Condo , and your mom (mom's wife) go an buy A condo in the same building?
and by way she is divorce.
tellme is good for the relationship of couple or not?
2006-11-05 12:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on the in law....if you get along with her it might be a good idea otherwise you two need your space and time together to be a married couple. I would talk with your spouse and then find a nice way to talk to your in law about it. Find common grounds on when or when not if they continue to live there would be the right and wrong time to visit. Be honest. Good Luck!
2006-11-05 12:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is definately not a great thing. At first it will be okay but in just a short amount of time this situation can only get worse. Sounds like dear old mom has some controlling issues.
2006-11-05 20:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by cjpburgess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to have family close by, you'll never know when you needed them especially when you have kids. In your case, your relationship will be stronger because you are aware about it. If you think your mother in law don't like you in the first place then it will be a problem but I don't think she will intrude unless you let her. Your mother in law will be thinking of dating again so you don't have to worry about it.
2006-11-05 20:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not so good if you just got married, but think about when you have kids, ou have a free baby siter for life and in your own building. take the bad for the good
2006-11-05 21:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to buy a condo elsewhere.
2006-11-05 20:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might not be good. depends on your relationship with the mother. if she is always in your business, it might not be good. talk to her and explain that you two need your space and be alone. hopefully she'll understand. since she's divorced, she might get lonely and intrude, but hopefully everything will work out. good luck!
2006-11-05 20:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. Could be a blessing or a curse. Be sure to set up and respect each others boundaries.
2006-11-05 20:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well l don't think having a mother in law that close is a good idea.
2006-11-05 20:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex alot and really, REALLY loud. She'll move away.
2006-11-05 20:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by pullmytriggerthenblamemygun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋