Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

I'm a 23 yaers old girl, I dont have any luck!
I come from an Arabic country, I life with my family of 5 unmarried girls ages between 30 & 42, we have lots of conflicts and we dont get along with each other, my mum is a housewife and my father is a retired 70 yo man.
I also have 3 brothers, they just care about their own matters, one of them just cares about his wife and family, the other one living abroad and we rarely hear from him and the last one is another burden on the family.
I havent been lucky with my studies, I didnt reach the 3rd Grade.
I need new ideas, because my life is sad and boring, I need something to do, I cant stay like that.
I think that marriage can resolve my problem, but I cant find anyone who cares about me.
We all know that we live just once, so we should take advantage of our life. But i cant do this on my own.
Thanks for your answers

2006-11-02 07:10:31 · 12 answers · asked by Noor 1 in Family

I have asked several Q's about my gf who is scared to go forward right now (bad past relationships and assorted other insecurities) and she may seriously need to seek counseling (we have talked about it). That aside, how long has anyone here waited successfully for their love to come around? I had a response a while back about a guy who waited like 4 years, but both were in other relationships along the way, but they eventually got married. I am not too keen on that idea at all.

2006-11-02 07:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on my cousin's friend and he sure showed me that he liked me(flirted shamelessly). I asked my cousin for the number and he gave it to me. I want to call him, but what do I say?
I don't want to sound stupid and say:"It's been 2 months since I saw you...remember me?
HELP!

2006-11-02 07:09:34 · 6 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Singles & Dating

you've never dated each other and you could never be together........would you tell her straight out or ignore her?

2006-11-02 07:09:09 · 12 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Iam having trouble with both family's .the baby's dad's family has caused me alot of trouble and know my family has turned they backs on me . They want to believe them and not me . so know i don't know what to do. i feel like i am the only one who is fighting for my child.The baby's dad and and grand mother are trying to take my baby know and it is not even here yet. so what should i do stay or leave.

2006-11-02 07:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by SKEETER M 1 in Family

Please keep sexual things out of this. We've both decided on not having sex until we're married.

Anyway, we usually go to the movies, but that can get quite expensive. Does anyone know of any fun dates that don't require a lot of money, or better yet, any money at all?

Thanks for the suggestions in advance. :)

2006-11-02 07:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

we already agreed we are officially over but he still calls and calls me.
it's been months,
He won't give up

2006-11-02 07:08:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO YOU TELL A MARRIED GUY THAT WANTSS TO MESS AROUND WITH YOU BUT YOU HAVE ALOT OF FEELING FOR HIM. I TELL HIM NO BUT HE KEEPS ASKING AND HE ACTS LIKE HE DOESNT EVEN CARE THAT HES MARRIED.

2006-11-02 07:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by penut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding was set for may 24,2008. So that would give us enough time to plan and save money. Well now that the baby is on the way* what should i do. I think that we she go on and get married and have the wedding later after the baby is born* Please help me

2006-11-02 07:07:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-02 07:07:46 · 4 answers · asked by Tinkerbell82 1 in Singles & Dating

in every dream this child of mine looks the same in all dreams me and my freind had the same dream in the same night.Also my lucky number is 7 i had this dream 8 times now i really think this dream will come true i just dont know when

2006-11-02 07:07:37 · 6 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 07:07:15 · 30 answers · asked by Carrie 4 in Weddings

Am I the only one out there that does not like their step-child? I have tried to be friends with him but to no avail. I've spent money I don't have on the little ungrateful brat. My hubby and I fight because of lies being told by my step-child and even when proved he lied, I am still in crap with hubby because I'm supposed to be the mature one. This happens with my bio child too.

We eat what the kid wants, go where the kid wants, watch TV programs that the kid wants and the kid "Is the best in the world" while my own child gets picked on, can't watch her own shows, spends majority of her time in her room (with me) mad about the step-kid, plus has no say in what we eat, etc.

My child has a bedtime, and goes when I say so. His kid stays up 1/2 the night, blatting from being overtired, and again he's the best and just a little kid (he is 9, not a baby).

I love my hubby. But this kid is making me regret marrying a second time. Anyone else disliking their step-child/ren

2006-11-02 07:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by GirlinNB 6 in Family

My exhusband took my daughters and moved out of state about 10 years ago and it took me years to find out they had ended up in Memphis. I have not seen them or heard from them in all this time. All I want to do is hear from them and know they are doing well,let them know I am alive and love & miss them. I have lost so much of their lives and I will never be whole until I hear something of them.

2006-11-02 07:07:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kathy L 1 in Family

2006-11-02 07:06:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every body calls some girls and guys the pops or the populars in school....in EVERY school they have them, and i know i cant escape from it, but y? i mean whats soooooo special about them and y are the known as the cool and popualr ones who all the guys want even tho they might not be pretty or smart or nice?

2006-11-02 07:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When did you have your first kiss?
How old were you?
When was it?
Who was it with?
Was it special?
I nwas thinking about my first kiss today and i just realized i am totally unhappy with it and yeah so what about you were you happy with it??

2006-11-02 07:06:05 · 18 answers · asked by bebegirl049 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont get it why are guys so difficult to understand. what does it mean when a guy says he likes you but treats you badly??

2006-11-02 07:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by penut 1 in Singles & Dating

and they start blushing and it makes you shy what does it mean?

2006-11-02 07:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 07:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of activities do you engage in?

2006-11-02 07:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone ever went to court to legally be married and still have a wedding at a church later??? Is that normal?

2006-11-02 07:04:09 · 25 answers · asked by AUDREY H 4 in Weddings

i accidentally said something mean about a person (not a friend, a teacher i respect) to one of my friends.. the thing is im almost 100% sure the teacher heard me because he was near by and i didnt noticed him til my friend told me descretely.. ididnt mean what i said AT ALL, it was just one of these moments where u take it out on the first person you think of.. this teacher is someone i really respect and i fould feel really bad if he changed his impression of me.. i will in NO WAY go talk to him, because im not sure if he heard.. i haven't been able to forgive myself since this morning.. what should i do to stop thinking about this and beating myself up about it??

FYI : what i said to my friend was not rude.. i just said i couldnt stand him.. :(((((((((

2006-11-02 07:04:04 · 23 answers · asked by hedZy ♀ The Dancing Banana 4 in Friends

My husband and I will be married for 7 years next Apirl.

our marriage is good but we never do anything together

we both work full time and never talk to each other unless it

is something about someone else. we have older children

(out of the house) this is not my first marriage but is his.

we still love each other just don't spend time together or talk to

each other we can set in the same room for hours and not say a

word to each other . I don't feel like our marriage is ending but

we all know the rule about 7 year. so can anyone tell me what I

need to do to help this marriage FYI tried Date nights didn't last

but two weeks

2006-11-02 07:03:41 · 23 answers · asked by lostintntoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 19 and last week I went for a first date with this lad i liked for ages. half way through the date, i asked if i could put my phone in his coat as i was sick of carrying it round. in his pocket was about 6 condoms. I was too embarrassed to say anything, but i spoke to my mate when i got home. she said that he was obviously after one thing and i shouldnt see him again. is she right? or should i just be thankful that he was willing to be 'careful' if anything did happen between us. i dont want sex yet but i dont want him to get fed up of me, so im in a confusing situation- please help!!!

2006-11-02 07:03:06 · 46 answers · asked by lauz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 07:02:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I managed to get through highschool with honors and I graduated in the top of my class. I never dated any one and I focused on my education. Now that I am in college I am getting kind of lonely and I see all the other girls with bfs. I really want to start dating, but I really dont know how to. I dont know how dates work or any of that kind of stuff bc I focused my on my work. I always have guys who stare at me, but they act like they are scared to talk to me, then the others always assume that I am taken. I want to have a better social life with guys but I dont know where to begin. I was raised very conservatively, so I have never kissed or done any of the other stuff. I want to find a good college guy that is gonna be willing to respect my decision to abstain from sex. I have never had a problem with guys looking at me, btu they never actually come up 2 me. I dont understand the logic behind this. Do I need 2 wear tight clothes to attract them so they will come up 2 me?

2006-11-02 07:01:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls reply honestly............
does boys mature mentally befor girls...............?
ya yes i know girls are more mature than boys, but who matures first...remmember i mean mentally

2006-11-02 07:00:55 · 45 answers · asked by jay t 2 in Singles & Dating

in a child support situation from california someone suggested i notify CSA. what is csa?

2006-11-02 07:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the beginning of this year, two beautiful girls were placed in my care. The girls were at the age where they start to loose their teeth. The youngest of the two lost her first and her second tooth while she was in my care.(Her older sister also lost a tooth) The girls were place back at home recently and now the mother wants the teeth. I grew a huge bond with the children throughout the months we shared and it was devastating to loose them. Since the girls were with me when they lost their teeth, would it be wrong to keep them? I have three teeth. I feel the mother has a valid point but its all I have left of them. I need some advice. Am I being a baby about this? Should I give the mother their teeth? Do I even have the right to keep them?

2006-11-02 07:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family