we already agreed we are officially over but he still calls and calls me.
it's been months,
He won't give up
2006-11-02 07:08:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is not like a light switch.. he can't just turn it off like that.. he needs more time 4 it 2 sink in, that it's really over.. sometimes people only love one their whole life time.. don't be 2 hard on him, because you may never find a love like his again..
2006-11-02 07:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Restraining order.
Okay seriously he can't move on dear. Either he..
A.)Is in love with the idea of being in love with you. If he was in love with you real love he'd respect your decision sounds like infatuation.
B.)He thinks he can win you back which by annoying you to no end shows he's not a logical cat.
C.)You're very very good in bed.
D.)He doesn't have the confidence needed to move forward. He may feel that he can't find anyone else and is desperately holding onto the past.
It may sound crazy but ask him why he keeps calling. Chances are your asking will make him realize it really is over and make him question his own actions.
If i could advise him i'd just tell him holding onto the past takes away from what you could be doing now and what you could be enjoying in the future.
2006-11-02 07:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From experience, just tell him the truth. I know you say you have already told him that you dont have feelings anymore. Thats all you can do. If all he is doing is calling you, you dont have to answer the phone all the time. Hopefully he will get the hint one day.
But if he is trying to follow you or ends up making threats then thats when you get legal help.
2006-11-02 07:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number, don't answer when he calls or return his calls, change your email address or block him from your email etc. In other words, ignore him. He will either get the hint or start stalking you. If that happens you may end up involving the police.
2006-11-02 07:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You simply need to tell him to stop calling. I am sure that he is hurting, but you need to tell him to move on with his life or otherwise it is going to force you to take out an EPO against him if he will not leave you alone.
2006-11-02 07:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That could turn into a bad situation. I would change my number and buy a can of pepper spray. Good luck
2006-11-02 07:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2006-11-02 07:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by spiritfilled_daughterofzion 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking his calls.
Stop talking to him.
Stop responding to him.
He won't give up because he's getting something from you - or he's mentally unbalanced and needs help.
2006-11-02 07:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't get the hint. Cut your losses hon. Maybe you should leave him alone and he will soon find a life;)
2006-11-02 07:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get an unlisted number. Get a BIG boyfriend who's into Karate and lifting weights. That will get the message across and if it doesn't, let the new boyfriend have a talk with him.
2006-11-02 07:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋