WHAT DO YOU TELL A MARRIED GUY THAT WANTSS TO MESS AROUND WITH YOU BUT YOU HAVE ALOT OF FEELING FOR HIM. I TELL HIM NO BUT HE KEEPS ASKING AND HE ACTS LIKE HE DOESNT EVEN CARE THAT HES MARRIED.
2006-11-02 07:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by penut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Penut, you know that it is a sin before God to mess with a married man and just because he wants you doesn't mean that you have to go after him too. Put yourself in the wife's position. Would you want some other woman having sex with your husband if you were married? No you wouldn't. Keep telling him NO and he will get the picture but don't give him any reason to think that you are going to have sex with him. Some men and some women too have some kind of nerves. If they want to go out and have sex when something goes wrong in the marriage then what was the point of getting married? God sits high and HE watches low all I have to tell you is that you know how fire feels here on earth. Why would you want to burn like that for the rest of your life in hell? God be with you.
2006-11-02 07:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have feelings for a married man? And he has feelings for you? Or is it lust? You may be on a completely diffrent page than he is. I'm glad you have told him no but, you need to think about what your dealing with. This is a married man. He has no respect for his wife so, how could he possibly respect you? And on the flip side, evaluate yourself. This is not an emotionally heally relationship to be in even if he is just your friend. RESPECT YOURSELF!
2006-11-02 15:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by glisten1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not trying hard enough to avoid him. You know that.
If you really wanted to avoid him, you would.
Don't pretend that you have no control over your own feelings & life just because you have feelings for this married man.
Trust me do what ever needs to be done to get this guy to leave you alone. Remind him that he's married, and would he feel if his wife was doing the same as him.
2006-11-02 15:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should this be so difficult for you? You know he is married and it would be wrong for you to "mess around" with him knowing he has a WIFE!
Say No and mean it. Tell him you don't do married men.
2006-11-02 15:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him NO and be sure he understands. If he is asking you at work it is harassment and your NO constitutes harassment if he continues. You should never get yourself into a position in which he can hit on you unless you truly want him too. He may not care he is married but you should and God will if you commit adultery with him. Run away from this idiot and fast.
2006-11-02 15:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he does not care that he is married. It is a good thing that you do. Just remember he has a wife at home, and that you would be a part of the destruction of their marriage. I do not think you should be friends with this individual. Tell him so.
2006-11-02 15:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uhm... being married is a HUGE deal... do you really want to carry that burden or rep of sleeping with a married man... stand your ground. Think about the girl he has at home... no one deserves to be cheated on.... he might not care but... you should. Tell him that you know it not right and remind him he's married... if you don't respect yourself neither will he. don't fall into temptation!
2006-11-02 15:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lolis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your NO answer and let him know that he needs to quit persuing you. Remember if you do cross the line of helping him cheat, you are not only going to be blamed as a home-wrecker, but he will cheat on you too.
Just say NO, NO, NO, NO. You will feel much better about yourself and never have to keep the lies that will become of a situation like this.
2006-11-02 15:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how persistent he is you need to stand your ground in saying no. If a man is willing to dishonor someone he made a supposedly lifelong committment to what do you think he will do to you? Use you for his own purposes and then toss you aside. Why are you even associated with him after you said no? Sounds like a jerk to me.
2006-11-02 15:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, knowing that he is married, this guy is a slime, and you would be partly responsible, for this marriage ending/kids being put through this!! So just stay away from him, and let him wreck his own marriage without you!!
2006-11-02 15:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋