My wedding was set for may 24,2008. So that would give us enough time to plan and save money. Well now that the baby is on the way* what should i do. I think that we she go on and get married and have the wedding later after the baby is born* Please help me
2006-11-02 07:07:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Congrats!!! If you're wedding is planned for May '08, then keep it that way. You both obviously made a commitment to get married, so there is no harm, even with baby on the way. Give yourself the extra time needed to plan and take care of your new baby...and hire a wedding planner so you don't have to deal with all the extra stress. It will be worth it in the long run.
2006-11-02 08:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would want to get married ASAP, so that when the baby is born you are already married. I would just go down to the court house and get legally married. Keep your wedding date for May 24, 2008 and just have the traditional wedding then. You may already be technically married but you can still have the wedding of your dreams later on in 2008. Being pregnant will put a damper on the whole wedding planning thing, especially during the first and third trimester. Trust me, I'm 22 weeks pregnant right now and it isn't always a bowl of cherries. :) The weight gain, the back pain, headaches, leg cramps, vomiting, being extremely tired ALL THE TIME.... planning a large wedding is a lot of work. Good Luck and congratulations on both the baby and the wedding :)
2006-11-02 07:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS, The wedding date is a year and months away!! If you insist on having a big to do wedding then keep the date, but personally I think you both shoudl save as much money as you were for the wedding and use it for the baby, have something small in a month or two.... maybe December!?! I think you both will agree in the long run you should get the wedding over with before the baby. Your gonig to have lots on your mind after the baby comes. Get married so that your man and wife when your child comes into the world. Plans always change so make this be for the better.... get married before the baby.
2006-11-02 07:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, congratulations on the wedding and baby!! I have seen this happen loads of times, people put the wedding off and 15 years down the line have still never got married. Why not consider having a smaller wedding, and then when the baby is born, you could have a huge party to combine the celebration of the baby being born, and renew your vows at the same time?
2006-11-02 20:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you jumped the gun on this one, the big wedding is out. Go down the the court house tomorrow, and get married. You were going to save for nearly two years for a wedding. You can't afford to be doing that now. The baby is going to cost you all of that and more. It would be irresponsible to waste that much money, when you have a child to think about. Do the right thing.
2006-11-02 16:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. If you feel it's important to be married before a baby, then I would get married now, while you are not showing too much and can wear a cute dress. If not, wait until 2008, when you can save and have your body back to normal to look good on your special day. But I will say that a baby costs a lot of money, so it may be harder for you to save after the baby is born. Good luck.
2006-11-02 07:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by laura_lou80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have their own opinion about this and you'll be getting many different answer. It's really up to you. Do you want to have a child before Marriage? or After Marriage?
If you want a child BEFORE marriage you better get married ASAP before your tummy gets big.
If you want a child AFTER marriage than you should start thinking about the financial of the baby and the wedding. Not only that, you have to extend your wedding date to a later day because you know women want to lose that baby fat after they had given birth.
In Asian Wedding Usually the guest would give the bride and grooms money for the gifts. If they ever have an unexpected baby they would get married ASAP and use that money gifts for their child.
It's really depend on how you think of it.
2006-11-02 07:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wait and have the wedding after the baby is born, but if you want to have the wedding before the baby is born you can have a small wedding. The only thing that I hate about having had my children out of wedlock is that their dad's insurance doesn't pay for everything.
2006-11-02 07:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would act on the principle of "smithing the iron while it's hot", and would be getting married a.s.a.p., even if this meant not having a big wedding. Later, you can concentrate on the baby, and perhaps mark a wedding anniversary with a special ceremony you didn't get to have the first time around.
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