I have asked several Q's about my gf who is scared to go forward right now (bad past relationships and assorted other insecurities) and she may seriously need to seek counseling (we have talked about it). That aside, how long has anyone here waited successfully for their love to come around? I had a response a while back about a guy who waited like 4 years, but both were in other relationships along the way, but they eventually got married. I am not too keen on that idea at all.
2006-11-02 07:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have waited my whole life to find a guy! and a few weeks is the longest i've waited so far for a guy to come around. and it was not sucesseful.
however i can understand the girls insecurites and yes if she has been scared in the past then she may need to work through all that first. and she may very well need to see a counsouler and there is nothing wrong with getting help to work through your issues if you need it. just do your best to help her understand that your not out to hurt her and be paitent with her. and give her time if she needs it.
2006-11-02 07:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Almost Happy Housewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once waited 2 months but then decided to move on because I realized that he was not the right guy for me. So sometimes it works out and you will end up with that person you are waiting for, and sometimees you will realize that it is not the right thing to do, like in my situation. Your instincts will tell you to keep on waiting or not eventually.
2006-11-02 15:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have waited for this son of B I T C H for 9 year long f u c k years i lost a baby and this a s s left me for another girl that had money he hurt me so bad and the pain is still killing me inside.i am sorry i had to let it out.
2006-11-02 15:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋