Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

I hate admiting this, but I'm really wanting to get some unbiased imput. My (recent) ex-boyfriend, in my opinion, displays behaviors w/ his sister that don't seem "normal". They are both in their mid- twenties and they still do stuff like wrestle (jumping on top of each other, tickleing, giggling...). She demands a lot of attention from him and gets angry when she doesn't get it. One night my ex and I had a party, and they disappered for half an hour to fight because she was mad that he wasn't calling her enough. At another party (and this made me cry) a bunch of us were just sitting there and he started smacking her butt and pulling her against him and picking her up. It really embarrased me. It's a bunch of little things. I do realize his family is more affectionate than mine, but I just got a weird vibe. I really don't think they have crossed any lines, but I definitely don't flirt w/ my bro? What are your thoughts on this behavior?

2006-11-02 08:23:16 · 25 answers · asked by Amaranth 2 in Family

when parents are not married why is it that the mother has more rights than the father.

2006-11-02 08:23:02 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Moved out of town to be with this really good guy so I thought,yup you know what happened next,he's a f'in *** hole!When he's nice he's really nice.When he's mean he's really an azz!Not abusive at all.He's has one of those damn mouths were you almost prefer for him to hit you than to say what's on his mind.My thing is I jhave'nt found a job they stole my truck and shi@ just can't get no worse so I say but it is,they did find my truck 3 days ago they are working on it.But I want to leave and he knows it,but he's doing everything to keep me here,let's go and pick out a puppy,let's go and buy you a ring.My gf said that's becuz he don't wanna here me.The only thing is I have my 10 yr old with me and don't want her caught up in my shi$!Yes I have plenty of family and I still kept my apt in Va,Beach.But should I leave when he's here or at work?No he's not violent but can be veeery nasty with his mouth verbally!

2006-11-02 08:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family

have you ever used a condom and gotten someone pregnate? contracted STD's had it break? fall off? what are the risks of using one and not

2006-11-02 08:21:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 3 girls still give me no privacy what-so-ever!! My girls are 13,10 and 6. I guess that's a thing of the past. The doors would be banged down if I kept them shut for too long.

2006-11-02 08:21:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been told frequently that I'm fun to tease. What makes someone fun to tease and how to I become someone that is not fun to tease?

2006-11-02 08:20:45 · 3 answers · asked by Tavita 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

we met just one month before I go for my master in another part of the world. We had a lot of good times, and all these memories still in my mind. I really miss him and miss him everyday. We keep on communicate each other, but slowly it become less and less, and he become more and more busy. I dare to disturb him. but missing him became more and more, sometime cannot help but cry....

2006-11-02 08:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by yy2006 1 in Singles & Dating

recently my parents have split. i am 15 almost 16 and well. my friends seem to be running away from me. My mom was al alcholholic since i was born and now that im 15 and shes gone i kinda miss her but shes in jail. my dad seems happier but IM NOT!. and i dont no how to get through this. I love my dad so much but i just cant stand living with him. i pay bills now to help out almost 700.00$ a month. i work yes. i have np helping out but. since its winter and i get less money and i have other priorities like buying myself some winter clothing so i can atleast have some fun this winter. my family isnt very wealthy. though with our house and clothes and **** you would think we are. anyways anyone help? have anything to say about what i should do. cause this is leading me to depressing and being a teenager im scared i may become "suicidal" like half of my friends. and id ont want to tell my friends at school since they lie to me and seem to always want to runw hen i have problems...thank yu

2006-11-02 08:19:33 · 18 answers · asked by Baby-Smurf</3 1 in Friends

2006-11-02 08:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by michele j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 08:19:28 · 18 answers · asked by Linda H 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriends sister who is a little younger than i has a baby and i see how my boyfriend gives her attention i mean of course he's the uncle right. Well the daddy isnt in the picture and i feel that the baby is seeing my boyfriend as a dad. I feel jealous because i want a baby and he always tells me were too young and we have to get our career started and this and that but i wish he would give the attention he gives to the baby to our own. I dont know its driving me crazy and i feel horrible for being jealous. Is it right what im feeling?

2006-11-02 08:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by H0T_SAUZE 3 in Family

My husband had an affair 2 years ago with the secretary at work that bombed out for him she wanted money. He waited a year and started another affair with a woman older than him with smaller children and continued this affair for a year. Several times the mistress emailed me and told me about the affair and he would break it off and then they would start it over again. Now she has found someone else, he says he wants us to work it out and stay together but this is twice in a row he has done this and each time it is during the fall of the year. I really dont understand what he is thinking we have been together for over 15 years and he just says that he thought the grass was greener on the other side. Well how many times does he have to check the other grass? I love him with all my heart but right now I am really confused as to what to do. He always tells me he loves me and always has but I wonder about that. I feel like I am just convenient to him.

2006-11-02 08:19:22 · 32 answers · asked by slowlopin13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband is an a**. My daughter told me this morning that her dad's sister is teaching her how to light cigarettes with a lighter. Of course, her dad will deny it. The question is, what can I do about it? The aunt is the baby sitter when my daughter is at her father's, which due to current custody arrangements, she is two weeks out of the month. I want my daughter to be taken care of, not end up burning a house down!!

For the record, my daugter is four, very smart, and I have taught her not to mess with guns, knives, lighters, matches, that kind of stuff. She knows the rules at mama's house.

2006-11-02 08:19:21 · 8 answers · asked by tinkerbell24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 08:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by chiquilla 1 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a person millions miles away from me! I love him but want to know public opinion on the general issue of these relationships

2006-11-02 08:18:09 · 19 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2 in Singles & Dating

It's been 11 months and I still haven't gotten over the fact that I lost my virginity to the wrong person and I hate myself for it and I just want to forget it.

2006-11-02 08:18:01 · 25 answers · asked by hermione3291 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I the ONLY one that had wonderful parents, have no animosity or anger towards my adopted OR birthparents and don't feel the need to go "look" for something?

2006-11-02 08:17:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is there any way to get rid of the empty feeling, suck as a broken heart?

2006-11-02 08:17:05 · 17 answers · asked by natinarichard 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 08:16:55 · 22 answers · asked by IndyGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

He is in his upper 30's and he can't ever give me a sex session longer than 20 min!! I'm dying. when he's done it doesn't come up for a long time and by that time he's sleeping anyway. I know his stamina isn't quite there anymore but what can he use to keep it going all night? besides viagra

2006-11-02 08:16:25 · 12 answers · asked by Curious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok the guy that i like is really special. I figure that he has a plan to break up with hisgirlfriend. I would love if they broke up but, doinf that might hurt my friend who is involved in the plan and doesn't know it. I dont want to ruin a relation ship. But we want each other bad! Now I have asked this question everyday since I found the website... And i just want to say thanks to everyone who told me to back off. I really think it is the right thing to do. even if I urge to be with him and I know he feels the same way. But what is done is done. We cant help the fact that his girlfriend still needs him but ... I know we love each other. Now before anyone says anything, I have not slept with him nor hav I kissed him. He has a girlfriend for crying out loud. Its not my buisness if he chooses to be with her of be with me. One day we be together. But for now...O have all you to thank. I really appreciate that you all have guided me in the right direction. Thanks , Cherish

2006-11-02 08:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand. If your man keeps going back and forth between you and his ex, it's obvious he has feelings for her. Since they have so much more history than the new girlfriend, why won't the guy just go and be with the ex again. It's like they never stopped seeing each other anyway.

2006-11-02 08:15:45 · 16 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

alot of boys think im kind of a dork cause I act kinda strange. Any ideas on how to get there attention?

2006-11-02 08:14:52 · 2 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

Have had a few dates and many phone conversations in last few months, but feel relationship is not going anywhere. Should this be done via e-mail, phone or in person.

2006-11-02 08:14:49 · 7 answers · asked by catw 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 08:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl at my work has these pictures with other girls in them. She will let me take out anyone that is not as pretty as her. But if I ask about one that is prettier than her she gets all mad and changes the subject. Then she starts asking me what my ideal woman is. I just don't understand why she wouldn't restrict me with some and restrict me with others.

2006-11-02 08:13:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 08:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by allendreamcometrue 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i've been engaged since september 26th.. so excited!! but i'm a junior in high school and fiance's a freshman in college.. we've been together for a year and 5 months.. we don't wanna rush things but we don't want to wait for what will seem like forever either.. when do you think is the right time to start planning a wedding?

2006-11-02 08:13:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Love , Sex , Money , Time , .

What is lacking in your life ? What are you doing about it ?

2006-11-02 08:12:28 · 11 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

he told me he loved me but did he mean it?

2006-11-02 08:12:12 · 21 answers · asked by legs 1 in Friends