Ok the guy that i like is really special. I figure that he has a plan to break up with hisgirlfriend. I would love if they broke up but, doinf that might hurt my friend who is involved in the plan and doesn't know it. I dont want to ruin a relation ship. But we want each other bad! Now I have asked this question everyday since I found the website... And i just want to say thanks to everyone who told me to back off. I really think it is the right thing to do. even if I urge to be with him and I know he feels the same way. But what is done is done. We cant help the fact that his girlfriend still needs him but ... I know we love each other. Now before anyone says anything, I have not slept with him nor hav I kissed him. He has a girlfriend for crying out loud. Its not my buisness if he chooses to be with her of be with me. One day we be together. But for now...O have all you to thank. I really appreciate that you all have guided me in the right direction. Thanks , Cherish
2006-11-02 08:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm ok?
2006-11-02 08:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no merit in staying in a relationship that is a farce. If this guy truly loves you then he needs to face himself and make some choices. No relationship lasts or feels good if the two people are not really in love because there is no real commitment. Yes, people get hurt but in the long run the hurt from staying in a relationship with no love gives far more pain. The unloved person will forever be wondering what is wrong and will be constantly trying to change and it will be to no avail. Yes, you need to back off and let him be. He needs to face the facts and make long term decisions and one of those decisions is if he belongs in a loveless relationship. But he cannot have you on the side knowing that he can rebound in an instant. Go about your business and let him know that your love is no longer available at this time under the present circumstances. And do just that. If the two of you are meant to be, it wont be long before you hear from him. But do not be available until he is a single person and has truly ended the other relationship. Dont be an offer in the wings. Every time something goes wrong in his relationship, he can fantasize about you and not face himself.
2006-11-02 16:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Props to you for making the right decision, I know it can be very hard when your heart is involved. Good Luck
2006-11-02 16:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important ---
A difficult decision was made ..... you have chosen a path to follow and will move on. Destiny awaits you. Good Luck
2006-11-02 16:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, anytime. Hope everything goes well with your situation, and if you ever need anything, just post here and we will all be more than happy to answer.
2006-11-02 16:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Pray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋