2006-11-02 08:16:55 · 22 answers · asked by IndyGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like your the problem-you want to give it away -why not seek Jesus and get honor so you can honor yourself-david in His amazing grace -John chapter 3 -that saved a wretch like me :D
2006-11-02 08:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ten years ago I dated a guy and we would sleep together and no sex. We had an agreement that before we moved to the next step in our relationship we would both get tested for any sexually transmitted disease's. We both agreed that this would be amature thing to do.
We used to have so much fun together, never had sex but we did become good friends.
2006-11-02 17:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Plain Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's his cultural upbringing? Not to be stereotypical, but I know some good Italian boys that wait until marriage..for real! He might be shy or a virgin....or possibly gay. Talk to him. Find out and move on from there.
2006-11-02 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you share a bed and have not had sex does not mean that he is gay. It could just mean that he enjoys laying with you. After nine months, have you talked about the intimate part of your relationship? Maybe he doesn't believe in premarital activity.
2006-11-02 16:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been dating someone for 9 months and you dont know whether they are gay or not then there is definately something wrong.
2006-11-02 16:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he slept with you,then hes probably not gay.i would say he doesnt want sex till he gets married and also hes probably just being careful,because of all the desease going around.if you want sex ,why dont both of you get tested first,that way he might be a little eased about the sex.
2006-11-02 17:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't know you want to, he may just be being respectful. You should ask him what is up? You could try doing a striptease for him and see how he reacts.
2006-11-02 16:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 9 months in a relationship, i have said this on here before, just ask.
2006-11-02 16:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very gay... after 9 months, there's no way he can be shy around you
2006-11-02 16:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say he has low libido or fear of intimacy..you don't mention your age..but as a male i'd say something is terribly wrong.
i would find it very hard ( no pun) to sleep next to a woman i cared for w/o sex happening unless there was a verbal agreement about no sex
2006-11-02 16:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by universalist49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
just because someone chooses to delay the sex, doesn't mean he is gay
it could be that he wants to be absolutely certain before he commits himself
it is nice that he is not just interested in"sex"
2006-11-02 16:29:22 · answer #11 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋