Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I would like some input on this situation. There is this guy that likes to stare and smile at me everytime that I go to this store. I would say this has been going on for maybe 2 months. Finally he goes ahead and gives my friend his number for me to call him. So I gave him a call the next evening and it was a cell phone number. The phone rang for a while and then it said the customer was unavailable. So I called back because I wasn't sure if I had dialed the right number and I got the same thing. So I figured that either his phone was disconnected or he's having problems with his phone. So then he call's me back about 10 minutes later and asked who this was. So I told him and I'm not sure if he hung up or if he's having a problem with his phone because the line went dead. So I called back about 30 minutes later and I got that same unavailable thing again. I'm confused because he didn't call me back! Why would he go through all of that to give me the # and not call back?

2006-10-31 22:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by KieraSimone 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 22:53:24 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does everyone else do it 3 and 4 times in one night? I physically can't do it. It's not my fault and it's not fair of my girlfriend to hold it against me.

2006-10-31 22:52:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just wants to hang out with me but never comes on to me. He'll go with the flow if I make the effort but he doesn't seem bothered otherwise. I've become really upset about it and worry that he doesn't fancy me anymore. I'm not very confident about my body and admittedly I am negetive about it alot - he says my paranoias have put him off being intimate with me because I think he's only doing it because I tell him to! Does that sound like a real reason? I'm not sure... He's been through a bad patch lately (he had a health problem that led to him losing his job and he was out of work for months and living at his parents) but things are back on track now apart from this issue and now I think he just doesn't want me anymore. He still says he loves me and he seems to want to spend time with me though so I'm confused?!

2006-10-31 22:51:22 · 35 answers · asked by Juniper 2 in Singles & Dating

can one live and even sleep in the same bed with a guy that has crush/intrest in you without making luv?

2006-10-31 22:50:25 · 8 answers · asked by fantasy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Friends are asking "what do you want to be called by everyone"? I haven't ever thought about it,so now I'm thinking.
Im 1/2 German and 1/2 Norwegian. My daughters have always called me "Sandy" in a nice way.

I know I've already posted this, but I did something to close the question by accident,so I've reopened it in my own way,since Im new at this. Sandy

2006-10-31 22:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by Newest Grandma 1 in Friends

I was at the train station and exchanged smiles with a girl that was walking past me. She stood probably a metre or so away and then a couple of minutes later I turned around and she was practically standing right next to me...then the train came and she moved away. Was this her way of showing interest and when I didn't make a move she moved away?

And, a few days ago I exchanged a smile and some words with another girl. When the train pulled in I took one of two spare seats, giving her the chance to sit with me. I don't know if it was my imagination but it looked like she kind of 'twitched' as she walked past, maybe like she was thinking of sitting next to me? What do you think? I'm hoping I'll bump into her again, try and start a proper conversation. So what do you think?

2006-10-31 22:41:00 · 12 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this boy wnt out for like 8-9 months and we broke up this was a yr ago! and we have been in a relationship scince then! we are both in yr 13. but we were rele good frends when we broke up! but now he just doesn tlk to me or n e thin! he will say the odd thing! im not too sure wt i have done? i still kind of think about him but i dunno if thats just because me and my other bf have just broen up! anybdy got n e help?? why isn he tlkin to me?

2006-10-31 22:40:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FAQ by women? WITH ANSWERS

Q: My fiance still has feelings for his old girlfriends. I'm afraid he will not be faithful.


A: A man's capacity to love is boundless. It has been proven to
increase with the number of sexual partners. Thus, by having a
few other women, your partner is really increasing his love for
you. Best thing to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present,
and cook him a nice meal and don't mention this aspect of his
behavior.

Q: My husband has too many nights out with the boys.


A: This is perfectly natural behaviour - and it should be
encouraged. The man is a hunter and he needs to prove his
prowess with other men. Far from being pleasurable, a night out
with the boys is a stressful affair, and to get back to you is a
relief for your partner. Just look back at how emotional and
happy the man is when he returns to his stable home. Best thing
to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him a
nice meal and don't mention this aspect of his behaviour.

Q: My husband wants to experience three-in-a-bed-sex with me and my sister.


A: Your husband is clearly devoted to you. He cannot get enough
of you, so he goes for the next best thing - your sister. Far
from being an issue, this will bring all of the family together.
Why not get some cousins involved? If you are still
apprehensive, then let him go with your relatives, buy him a
nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal and on't
mention this aspect of his behaviour.

Q: My husband continually asks me to perform oral sex with him.


A: Do it. Sperm is not only great tasting, but has only 10
calories a spoonful. It is nutritious and helps you to keep your
figure and gives a great glow to the skin. Interestingly, a man
knows this. His offer to you to perform oral sex with him is
totally selfless. Oral sex is extremely painful for a man. This
shows he loves you. Best thing to do is to thank him, buy him a
nice, expensive present, and cook him a nice meal.

Q: My husband doesn't know where my clitoris is.


A: Your clitoris is of no concern to your husband. If you must
mess with it, do it in your own time. To help with the family
budget you may wish to video tape yourself while doing this, and
to sell it at car-boot sales. To ease your selfish guilt, buy
your man a nice expensive present, and cook him a delicious
meal.

Q: My husband goes straight to sleep after making love - we have
no time to talk.


A: Sex is an extremely difficult task for a man. Afterwards he
needs rest. In fact, the more he loves you, the more hard work
his love-making is, and the more rest he needs. Stop putting
pressure on him. Buy him a nice, expensive present, and cook him
a nice meal.

Q: My husband's efforts at lovemaking only last 30 seconds.


A: Your husband loves you very much. He is so turned on by you
that he cannot control himself. In fact, the shorter the
'effort' the more he loves you. Return this love by buying a
nice, expensive present, and cooking him a nice meal.

Q: My husband is uninterested in foreplay.


A: Foreplay to a man is very hurtful. What it means is that you
do not love your man as much as you should - he has to work a
lot to get you in the mood. Abandon all wishes in this area, and
make it up to him by buying a nice expensive present, and
cooking a nice meal.

Q: My husband has never given me an orgasm.


A: The female orgasm is a myth. It is fostered by militant,
man-hating feminists and is a danger to the family unit. Don't
mention it again to him and show your love to him by buying a
nice expensive present ..and don't forget to cook him a
delicious meal.

2006-10-31 22:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we decide to get married we are talking on the phone 24 hours we never sleep is that love? do i need to marry him?

2006-10-31 22:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always had a fairly high self-esteem and believed that if a guy was really into me and it was meant to be it would just happen naturally. I have strict rules about not chasing a guy and not letting any guy mess me around. But im starting to doubt all these rules because at least the last 4 guys i have considered settling down with, have told me they feel im too good for them. im somebody they would consider "one day", "in a long term reloationship", "being married to" etc. Its starting to really effect me. should i start smoking? being a tart? acting like all the other girls? maybe there just isnt anybody out there good enough for me. maybe it is me! maybe i dont deserve somebody with the standards i expect. i give up... my head is spinning.. pls help?? i really dont know who to be anymore.

2006-10-31 22:37:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 22:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gf is 30 in jan, need spot on pressie, no wedding rings! thought about whale watching in scotland but she gets seasick very easily!

any other ideas?

2006-10-31 22:34:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

richness or love?which is better for good life?
which one do you prefer ?????????
be honest pls.....

2006-10-31 22:34:05 · 20 answers · asked by sonruyaa 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation. I will be 22 in December, and she turns 18 in May. That makes it bad enough. What makes it worse, is the fact that my friends all think she is a "nasty *****" just because she screwed one of my friends over. Should I worry about pleasing my friends? Or should I do what makes me happy. To be perfectly honest, I don't think it would be long term, but I never can tell. I really like this girl, but as I said, she is only 17, and is probably not as emotionally mature as someone my own age. I've always had problems getting along with people my own age. My friends' ages vary between 15-18 years old. I just need to know if I should ask her out, and if so, any advice would be helpful.

2006-10-31 22:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Kodos Atoz 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a really low poor sexual appetite, and he thinks mine is too high (if you call every three days high). When he refuses me and doesn' t feel like it, I start having real dreams about having sex with other guys.... ugh, and I hate it......and trust me, I've talked to him.

2006-10-31 22:31:31 · 16 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 22:31:29 · 18 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 22:30:53 · 26 answers · asked by indieblue 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be cool like other girls in the class but they consider me as a nerd.I'm a straight 'A' student and guys always talk to me just so I could solve their homeworks and help them with school,they never talk to me because of me and I hate it!
Everytime I want to join their conversation they roll with their eyes and ignore me...the only friends are actually my teachers.
I wish I could be with those cool guys or girls.
Could you tell me how to become cool?It isn't something I can learn from books...

2006-10-31 22:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-31 22:29:57 · 15 answers · asked by indieblue 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like some tips for wedding night. Give me some ideas about buying gift for my bride for wedding night and other useful tips.

2006-10-31 22:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Gagan S 2 in Weddings

I've known him for 8 years, he was my first love and I still think about him and visa versa. I have a bf, care about him and love him, together for 2.5years, but don’t know if he is the 1. Should I go to end this chapter of my life and 2 b sure? Everybody’s telling me that me and my bf don’t mach, love blinds you... and everybody love’s my X and we share the same interests, me and my bf total opposites! I don’t know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-31 22:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

2006-10-31 22:28:14 · 6 answers · asked by B V 1 in Weddings

Even though my brother is young (9) I understand my mom wants to play with him. But she acts too childish sometimes and it gets on my nerves. And she is soo demanding and when I try to cancel plans with her (my parents are divorced, I live with my dad), she gets upset and makes you feel sorry for her and I go back with her. As a teenager, I want to go out and have fun with my peeps but, with divorced parents, I have no control.

2006-10-31 22:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica D 2 in Family

I have 4 kids all boys, my eldest is 20, 18, 14 & 6. I,m 39 yrs old born july 28, 1967 at 9 pm. I really need to know if my relationship with anthony would last. It's been always a rough life for me.

2006-10-31 22:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by masopiensrizenriquez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you look at the "anal" thing ?? is it normal , disgusting, exciting .... or what ??? what if your man insists to have it ?

2006-10-31 22:24:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ya'll, I live in Birmingham, Alabama and this type of stuff does not happen here, I've never heard of it happening anywhere for that matter! I know that there are mothers and sons that mutually decide to be intimate with each other (which is totally sickening to me) and that there are sons that lust over their mothers (which is equally sickening), but this is really trippin' me out! The mother says that she tried to get up, but her son kept forcing her down!

2006-10-31 22:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by timeoutformiesha 3 in Family

Give me some details, not a book though. I'd love to hear all your answers especially some unique ones.

2006-10-31 22:20:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 22:18:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my BF very much but this old friend I have some special feelings for him is there anything wrong with saying that?

2006-10-31 22:18:08 · 36 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Singles & Dating