what have i done???

Question

me and this boy wnt out for like 8-9 months and we broke up this was a yr ago! and we have been in a relationship scince then! we are both in yr 13. but we were rele good frends when we broke up! but now he just doesn tlk to me or n e thin! he will say the odd thing! im not too sure wt i have done? i still kind of think about him but i dunno if thats just because me and my other bf have just broen up! anybdy got n e help?? why isn he tlkin to me?

latte or who ever u are im year 13 u dipstick!!! which means where 17 and 18!! and i typed short hand! so dont complain about my spelling! i type quickly!!

Answer 1

may be he wants you to call the cards,he might be thinking the same about you but just not sure where to start,perhaps wats happening is completely opposite to what your thinking.i would think that you both went into these relationships because you wanted to see each others recation or make each other jealousy,may be he's gulity about something that it leaves him speech less or did something that he found out about. just tell him that you'll forgive him what ever he's done and he should forgive you.

Answer 2

This is the equivalent of him pulling your pigtails if you were still kids. Men are weird and trying to figure them out will waste a lot of energy! He is around you all the time and is maybe finding it hard to get over you properly and him ignoring you may be his way of trying to get you out of his system? Its natural that he is in your thoughts honey, you must see him a lot in person so ignoring him and putting him out of your mind will be difficult. Maybe just ask him why he is being this way with you, you may be surprised at the answer..?? Hope this helps. x

Answer 3

Dont want to sound patronising, but you are still young, it gets worse as you get older and things hurts loads more, in a few years you wont believe you actually bothered with this lad.....enjoy your youth dont stress about relationships at such a young age, these are good years to spend with the girls having a laugh! get out there, have fun!

Answer 4

Can you think of anything you did differently in the last month or so??
If not, he's probably just an arsehole, ignore him and move on, he ain't worth the trouble. He's acting like a 2 year old.

Answer 5

Went out for 8-9 months at 13 ????? Where on earth are your parents??? You are far too young to date. It is clear by your writing that you are far too young and this is the reasons that 13 year old girls end up pregnant at 16 and 17 years old. Good gracious. Hang up the boy search and drag out the barbies and your homework. You're grounded, my dear! No more boys, no more dates until you are 16. Got it?

Answer 6

Was he friends with your bf? is so he might just be 'staying out the way'

or he might still like you,
and now your single the opportunity has risen,

but he's not sure he’s' up for it
and would rather keep his distance rather than get friendlier.

Answer 7

Hes a man honey, one day he'll love u then he'll ignore u or cuss u there isnt any good answers just ignore him and meet urself someone else whos gorgeous and makes u laugh!! best of luck

Answer 8

So many reasons. He could be jealous of ur other bf or he might have found another girl. Just go n speak to him. Dont just sit there wondering what you have done!

Answer 9

Once you leave school, which is a very insular atmosphere, start work or uni this boy will be an insignificant dot in your history.

Trust me.

Answer 10

He may be feeoing guilty becasue he cheated on you or soemthing happend taht he cant handle sharing with you and he wont be ready by forcing it so you have to let some things slide.