Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

Five days ago,a guy in my class offered me to become his girlfriend.At the beginning I decided to say yes to his proposal. But the last day I changed my mine and I told him that I like him, but like a friend.It would've been easier saying yes,but i thought that it was better for him to know the truth.Now he is really hurt. I wanna call him up and talk to him, but i am at a loss for words, i just don't know what to say.I really want to stay friends, but...
Another problem is that lots of girls like him, and some guys are crushing on me. Him "proposing" is the major news of the class and they are watching us as if we are Romeo and Julliet. They follow us around and ask us what is going on all the time. Lots of people will be happy that we aren't together but...On the phone i told him that this girl likes him and he said "and jessica, hilary, tatiana,e.t.c." So i joked and said you're a girl magnet. he said:not for the girls i like (a.k.a. for me).How can i make him feel better?

2006-10-31 19:53:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just found out my ex just got married... like two years from our breakup. and he married the woman he was cheating on me with. what the heck

2006-10-31 19:49:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 19:48:28 · 31 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

On Satuday night I went out with this girl that I met on "myspace". We met for drinks at a nice restaurant, then went to a hockey game. After the hockey game was over it was only 9:30 p.m. so I asked her if she would like to do something else. She did so we went to a local bar and had a drink, checked out some costumes and shot the b.s.... After a while (a couple hours) she was like "would you be offended if I'm tired" I was like "no, it's getting late and I understand if you're tired" So we wrapped it up... We walked back to the parking lot where both of our vehicles were and had a nice little hug, no kiss though. I had mentioned the idea of going to a movie on Sunday and she said "call me tomorrow afternoon" so I did. She didn't answer so I left a message and she returned the call about 1/2 hr. later. She didn't want to go to a movie because she had to work Monday. I haven't heard from her since. Should I send her a message and ask her straight forward whether or not she's intersted?

2006-10-31 19:45:57 · 6 answers · asked by corbin_rox 1 in Singles & Dating

i really wanna have sex with my bf. but i'm afraid that after that he'll get tired of me. i'm a virgin so yeah it's a big deal. would it be better if i just stick with the other acts? do guys treat their girl differently after they finally get sex? like do they stop being as sweet, ect..
i'm 19 by the way and up until a few months ago i thought i wanted to wait until marriage. but it just doesn't seem as much of a big deal as it did before. but on the other hand i love my over all innocence and if i have sex then all my innocence will be taken away and i'll be like every other 19 y/o. i just wanna still be able to give him something special but after sex i'll probably just feel tainted. i don't think i can explain it. just answer however you feel like responding. please don't be rude

2006-10-31 19:44:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 19:41:53 · 23 answers · asked by mjallebawalsah21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter get married next month, she's 24 anyway but here in Saudi that age is not legal cause they want 25. In our own country 18 is the legal age for marriage that's why i cant understand the consulate.They asked me to make parental consent in marriage and sign it (that's all) and my daugther and her fiance will get married but i dont know how to compose it. any help?

2006-10-31 19:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by yoplait 1 in Weddings

I am attracted to this lady but she is a co-worker and I do not want my emotions or feelings interfere in her work and career. She knows i I feel for her but she also remembers past experience which caused her pain in her life from a past relationship and I don't think she wants to go thru that pain again. can someone pls give me some good, mature advise (with a bit of humour in it coz I like to see the funny side of life). HELP!

2006-10-31 19:38:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 19:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by mjallebawalsah21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like i'm running out of things to talk about lol

2006-10-31 19:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Singles & Dating

Yes I am the 15 yr old kid and the 21 yr old girl is my brothers 6 yr girlfriend. Just going to tell you why I think she likes me. For one she is alwes trying to wrestle me. I usually pull away since am shy. 2nd She is alwes calling me sexy and trying to talk to me when am watching TV and she also invitied me to live in my brothers apartment am like ok... yea.. then like there are alot of other stuff but its just all raceing through my mind and cant picture it and type it out so yeah.. I am also like really short 5'0 and she is like 5'11 lol and a model with pretty good body but it confuses me since in middle school no girls like me why this girl like me so much? My mom even told me she told her she liked me and talks about me all the time I mean c'mon am a 15 yr old and she is 21 yr old model what the hell she see in me?!?!?!

2006-10-31 19:35:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter get married next month besc she's now pregnant but not in legal age.The consulate asked me to make parental consent in marriage and sign it but i dont know how to do it. any help?

2006-10-31 19:33:40 · 5 answers · asked by yoplait 1 in Weddings

Has anyone had any real success or insights reading a book on relationships/dating? Sherry Argov's or any of the others?

2006-10-31 19:32:09 · 3 answers · asked by Rose of the Valley 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband is in the air force, so he's gone a lot. we have a 4mo. old and i just found out he cheated on me or rather, has been, and spent $400 on strip clubs and "massage spas" in vegas. when i asked him about it he denied it, when i checked the account, and there it was in black and white he fessed up. about everything.this behavior has been going on our entire (short )marraige (1 yr 2 mo.) we keep saying "divorce" and then making back up, and my main concern is my daughter. the worst part is were both very young, im a lifeguard and a cocktail waitress, not like i have a career to support my daughter with on my own. should we separate? see other people? i asked him a couple days ago if hes been looking at porn, he said no,then tonight when i came home, there it was all over the comp. screen. does he want me to end something he cant? im very attractive, all his friends and co workers say so, so whats wrong?

2006-10-31 19:29:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a boy at my skool but i dont think he knows.
he hangs around the popular group at my skool.
should i: 1. go up to him and say i really really like you, 2. write a note to him and shove it in his locker, 3. pretend and forget all about him or 4. ask him out but i cant coz my parents wont let me till im older. no fair.
P.S im shy to tell him that i like him coz he like sorta popular and he never ever hangs around me.
which one should i choose????

2006-10-31 19:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by xx_roxychik_xx8 1 in Singles & Dating

i m planing to surprise my hubby on his birthday by decorating the home with candles n all that n cook a dinner which he like most.my problem is his birthday falls on a sunday which he will be stay allday inside the house n cant ask him to go out for decorate my home as he may guess what im up to.. ,,n i have two small kids too,pls pls pls .....kindly suggest a way to do as i planed...pls help me....!!!!!!!!

2006-10-31 19:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by mashi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 19:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by rainie0509 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His daughter said that she feels like she is the last to know things, and is not in the group, when he spends time at my house. She feels like we're one happy family (her dad, me, and my 13 yr. old son) and she is the outsider. My fiance has his house and I have mine and we're in two different school districts with 2 different middle schools. The weeks (every other) he has her, he takes care of her at his house and we get together on one or two nights. When she is not with him she is at her mother's. It would be very difficult for either of us to move until this spring when next school year the kids will both be at the same high school. She thinks we're having fun without her and it makes her feel badly. My son is with me full time because his father died of cancer. Sadly, when we are together, she barely speaks to my son, and acts superior. It used to hurt him, but now he just ignores her. So, when we are together, it's hard. And, now she's putting on this pressure...Help!

2006-10-31 19:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Family

I've known him for like 5 years and I'm 16 while he's 26. He's very sexy and while I have crushes and dates with guys my own age, I always end up thinking about him. Actually I think the day I 'grew up' (lol) was when we were working together on something and we got carried away and ended up hot & heavy! my friends were with me one day while we were working and they said that we looked at my booty so many times, that they lost count! lol. (but everybody looks) There's always this feeling between us like tension but I know we can never do anything because he's 10 years older than me. I don't wanna like 'date' him, but I wanna do something. Should I?

2006-10-31 19:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one guy just told me that i am the one he is looking for and i love him sooo much but for the three months we were broken up i found another guy who completely loves me and he tells me that if it weren't for the other guy i would be the love of his life. i feel like i love them both equally but in different ways. how can i decide?

2006-10-31 19:25:23 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 19:24:59 · 19 answers · asked by Emmauk 2 in Friends

I want it to say Big Sister & Little Brother on the frame itself or on the glass.

2006-10-31 19:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family

Divine love.. is it the thing of the past?

Love is "you give everything without expecting anything."
It is a old fashioned funda.. now?

2006-10-31 19:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend always tells me that she does not like to change the position while having sex because it is painful when you change. i dont feel confortable anymore having it with same position...

2006-10-31 19:09:35 · 5 answers · asked by lionceau 1 in Friends

just make passionate love.

2006-10-31 19:08:46 · 13 answers · asked by saturdaynight19010@hotmail.com 1 in Singles & Dating

Divine love.. is it the thing of the past?

Love is you give everything without expecting anything.
It is a old fashioned funda.. now?

2006-10-31 19:07:18 · 12 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 19:05:46 · 22 answers · asked by ciggie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 19:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by ImJuStAgIrL 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for me to go out to coffee just because I enjoy his company, or is that sending vibes that I would be interested in a relationship? And how do I break the news that I don't want a relationship if/when it comes up?

2006-10-31 19:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by dandelion86 2 in Singles & Dating

What part of body should I work out to look sexy?

2006-10-31 19:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating