On Satuday night I went out with this girl that I met on "myspace". We met for drinks at a nice restaurant, then went to a hockey game. After the hockey game was over it was only 9:30 p.m. so I asked her if she would like to do something else. She did so we went to a local bar and had a drink, checked out some costumes and shot the b.s.... After a while (a couple hours) she was like "would you be offended if I'm tired" I was like "no, it's getting late and I understand if you're tired" So we wrapped it up... We walked back to the parking lot where both of our vehicles were and had a nice little hug, no kiss though. I had mentioned the idea of going to a movie on Sunday and she said "call me tomorrow afternoon" so I did. She didn't answer so I left a message and she returned the call about 1/2 hr. later. She didn't want to go to a movie because she had to work Monday. I haven't heard from her since. Should I send her a message and ask her straight forward whether or not she's intersted?
2006-10-31 19:45:57 · 6 answers · asked by corbin_rox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are so many possibilities as to why she's not responding, she could be not interested, just really busy right now in her life, or playing hard to get.
If I were you I would definately mention that you had a great time with her and that you are interested in dating her and just ask her straight up if she is interested or not. Worst case scenario, she gives you some BS excuse and she's not the one ;). I'm a firm believer in being up front. Playing games is really immature and just wastes everyone's time.
2006-10-31 19:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Monica G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet...wait a few days, and again ask her out. If she says no, or gives you and excuse...then you will have your answer. Or if she says no and finds an excuse and you really like her...you could tell her to contact you when she has a free day so that you can get together. If she calls...great. If she doesn't, then again you have the answer. Some people are put off by confrontation, so this is why I'm suggesting alternatives. Good luck
2006-11-01 03:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fat but don't look fat in your picture on My Space?. Maybe she thought you were cute in your picture but then met you and saw that your fat and got disgusted and only acted like she was having a good time with you. She said call her just to be nice. She thinks your really gross and doesn't like you. I think you should lose some weight and try again or put up a photo that accurately captures you and a girl that doesn't mind disgusting fat people will like you and not be horrified when she meets you for the first time. PS...if your not fat I say wait a couple day's and call her..she might have been busy. Good Luck Sir.
2006-11-01 03:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was a guy, that is exactly what I would do. Call her once and ask her if she is interested, if she finds another excuse for not going out then tell her that you are not into playing head games.
2006-11-01 03:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her directly, see how things play out. Enjoy this time of indecision and romantic hesitation. I wouldn't worry about her too much. I have a friend whose philosophy is to wait until girls call you - me I dunno. I say just date causally, go out with your friends...Take it easy...approach this situation in a more relaxed manner. Good Luck
2006-11-01 04:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by ballistic222000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that coz there is doubt in your mind already... there are no sparks, you would be able to tell...
2006-11-01 03:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Frooshanti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋