Yes I am the 15 yr old kid and the 21 yr old girl is my brothers 6 yr girlfriend. Just going to tell you why I think she likes me. For one she is alwes trying to wrestle me. I usually pull away since am shy. 2nd She is alwes calling me sexy and trying to talk to me when am watching TV and she also invitied me to live in my brothers apartment am like ok... yea.. then like there are alot of other stuff but its just all raceing through my mind and cant picture it and type it out so yeah.. I am also like really short 5'0 and she is like 5'11 lol and a model with pretty good body but it confuses me since in middle school no girls like me why this girl like me so much? My mom even told me she told her she liked me and talks about me all the time I mean c'mon am a 15 yr old and she is 21 yr old model what the hell she see in me?!?!?!
2006-10-31 19:35:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww honey thats just normal i guess?? no actually its not.
you have to tell her your underage.
shes 21.
and idk whats wrong with her.
your probably very charming.
Awww :)
2006-10-31 19:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by luyanu yang 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It may be an infatuation thing OR nothing and she just might be finding you just cute and smart according to your own age. But keep out of her way as much as possible. It will ruin two relationships at once. Your brother will feel offended and if she can ditch a 6 year old strady bf for his brother, there is no guarantee she will have her eyes only for you. Try to keep to yourself when she is around or tell her in a seriopus, gentle but firm tone that you feel uncomfortable with her frank behaviour though you know that she only means to be friendly and that she should give you some time so that you can come out of your teenage shell and then perhaps you will be able to talk with her more freely.
2006-10-31 19:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be confused about her actions. Maybe she is just being nice to you and you are taking it wrong. She may be flirtacious just because she likes you as a friend and wants to make you feel good about yourself. Maybe you need to discuss this with your brother. If what you say is true then you guys have a problem. A 21 yr old woman with any brains does not go for a 15yr old BOY. And if she does, you better tell your brother.
2006-10-31 19:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed it is very difficult to read the mind of a girl... Incidents are recorded that people having this age difference got indulged into sexual relations and lateron parted away... In your case (1) may be she is flirting with you (2) may be she is extrovert by nature and does beheave in the same way with other boys disregards of age (3) may be she is just friendly with you or (4) may be she want to do something more than that... Simply can not predict.
You are also going through hormonal change and passing through physical changes so it is also possible that you are interpreting all her behaviour in your own way.. If you trying to interprete her friendly behaviour in your own way then people can not help you from out side...
In any case whether she is flirting or you are getting attracted to her .. indulging into sexual act will destroy your relations with her as well as with your brother...
But I know how difficult it is to strike a mental balance especially when a girl is beheaving like this and we are also attracted by her..
But you got to beheave nicely...
2006-10-31 21:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just being really friendly, i have a really good friend thats 22 hes really sweet he hugs me and tells me all of his secrets, and hes he has snuggled up really close to me before, but hes just a friend, im 12 and dont worry i know hes not getting intimateor anything, i know that hes just caring for me. but if the 21 year old that you know is bothering you in anyway at all, or doing anything inapropriate, you should tell either your parents or your brother or someone that will help you out, I think that you would be best off just being her friend.
2006-10-31 19:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sir.Ducklington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she likes you as anything more than a friend... You might see it as more because you have never had a girl treat you like that... if she has been with your brother for 6 yrs I think maybe she looks at you as family nothing more...
2006-10-31 19:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it but dont think into it to much it isnt gonna go anywhere so get your confidence level up and find a girl your own age!.... (if she starts really coming on to you (i.e sexually) run!!!!! it might sound like fun and make you feel like a big stud but its gonna end before you even know it plus she could get in ALOT of trouble... (let all the guys at school know a model is hot for you...LOL)!!!!!!! really raise your "cool" status...lol
2006-10-31 19:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you are gonna grow in to a cute young man. I dont think this is pediphelia, she is trying to form a sisterly bond with you. Of course at this time you are also a raging sea of hormones and boy those things will screw with you, believe you me. Of course if she does try something with you you should be careful. Is she making other physical contact besides wrestling?
2006-10-31 19:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by //// 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
aw....hah she thinks your CUTE as in like a little brother figure...she doesnt want to date you. She already has a bigger version of you...your brother. Which he'd kill you by the way, dont forget. She just sees it as innocent fun - Don't try to make a move or anythign or she wont even wreslte with you anymore.
2006-10-31 19:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by joeknockz 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think she is only being like a sister to you. She is just getting in good with your brother by doing this. You have a problem if she is alone with you and she starts taking off her clothes...or starts touching you...then you need to run and go find somebody to arrest her!
2006-10-31 19:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She's prolly just busting your chops and being your friend...if you want a relationship w/ her keep it plutonic like you've been doing until you hit 18...then more adult decisions can legally be made on your part..6 years of difference isn't that much....good luck...
2006-10-31 19:38:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋