i just found out my ex just got married... like two years from our breakup. and he married the woman he was cheating on me with. what the heck
2006-10-31 19:49:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares, move on...There is a reason you are not married to him
2006-10-31 19:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lady, here are my two cents. He was cheating FOR that woman so obviously it makes sense that he marries her after breaking up with you. Secondly, two years is a respectable enough time to wait after the breakup/divorce for marrying again. It is your problem that you sre still concerned about what he does in his life after all these years and you are the one who needs to pay more attention to your life. Death will not rescue you from the torment, it will only alter your physical conditions and you never know if there is hope beyond this world. So, it's better to try to do better here because we know and can learn how, because this is the only world, we really know about.
2006-11-01 04:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no man nor woman worth killing your self over!
You said you broke up with him two years ago, and he married the one he was cheating on you with!
Your break up was the best thing that could happen! He has found the woman of his dreams and you need to do the same!
2006-11-01 04:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear... it has been two years u broke up, so u should have get over him, or havent' u?
Just take a big portion of ice cream, enjoy ur life, and think that u r tooooo good for him ;) ... he dont deserve u. And, it's not so sure anyway if u would b happy if he marry u, right?
Well.. i know the feeling... but, i'm sure u will find someone loott better than that guy. It's worth to wait for the right guy on the right time.... just take ur time and enjoy ur life.
2006-11-01 04:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hanindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are only saying you want to kill yourself as an expression. If not, call 911.I know it can be difficult to move on but two years is a long time for him to still be affecting you this way. Don't take offense to this, but you might want to talk with a professional. Again, if you are serious about wanting to kill yourself please call 911 you need to be in the hospital so you can get better.
2006-11-01 04:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on unless you just are crazy about him and have children. If so then start doing certain stuff for yourself, like working out or bring your kids to the park with friends and somehow let him find out. He will see that you are doing well and that will make him want to be around you more. Try it out, you will be surprised what happens, but it takes time, so be patient.
2006-11-02 00:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by angela c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandy !!Brandy !! Why do you want to kill yourself ? If your ex cheated on you with his current wife, don' you know he is going to cheat on her? A leopard never changes his stripes. Continue to live so you can hear the gossip and say to yourself, "What goes around comes around".
2006-11-01 04:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two years is quite a chunk of time... why dont YOU have somebody new by now?... let him go... and dont kill yourself i understand feeling pain over a lost relationship with someone you loved or cared about believe me i do but its been two years... if you are still having a hard time letting go seek counseling... you dont need him to define you as a person....
2006-11-01 04:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
killing yourself is not the right way to solve your problem. move on girl...that means you're not meant to be and he loves the girl more than he loves you.Anyway with that guy his coward, user and cruel!i hate cheaters...who do they think they are?his not the only man in this world girl so keep alive and find your mate.its not easy i know but soon you will get over him.
2006-11-01 04:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are feeling right now. thought about the same thing a lot of times, but then i realized if ever i'd kill myself, people will be coming to my funeral, to what? look at me lying in my coffin and feeling sorry about me? they might be laughing as well for me being weak!! well i wont give them that satisfaction! i've learned that in time we can let go, nobody can tell us when, even ourselves can't predict it, but it happens, it happened to me. being hurt and depressed is natural, it makes us human, we can never appreciate the good things if we haven't felt it. be strong, you are in control!
2006-11-01 03:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by aei40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋