Here's the situation. I will be 22 in December, and she turns 18 in May. That makes it bad enough. What makes it worse, is the fact that my friends all think she is a "nasty *****" just because she screwed one of my friends over. Should I worry about pleasing my friends? Or should I do what makes me happy. To be perfectly honest, I don't think it would be long term, but I never can tell. I really like this girl, but as I said, she is only 17, and is probably not as emotionally mature as someone my own age. I've always had problems getting along with people my own age. My friends' ages vary between 15-18 years old. I just need to know if I should ask her out, and if so, any advice would be helpful.
2006-10-31 22:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Kodos Atoz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, what you got to loose?
If she says no, then you can close that chapter and move onto the next girl.
2006-10-31 22:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, why are you even thinking about just some random girl and then pit her against your friends?? Do you even know who she really is??
Be her friend first and base any further relationship on it. For all you know, she might be a sweet and the stuff your friends are sayin about her might just be rumours.
2006-10-31 22:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she is 18 and LEGAL before you ask her out. That would be the smart thing to do, not to mention, if you give yourself that much time, you might decide that she isn't really what you want.
2006-10-31 22:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out but keep it as a platonic relationship till you think you are ready to go to the next level.
2006-10-31 22:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for someone else if she was 21 and you were 25 it would be different, she still has a lot of peer pressure to figure out and playing with the girls.
2006-10-31 22:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask! Life passes by quickly! Take a chance you have nothing to loose!
2006-10-31 22:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it,and always keep in the back of your mind that there are hundreds of women out there.
2006-10-31 22:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot judge her by what your friend says since he may be jealous. But in any case I think she is too young.
2006-10-31 22:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋