Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

I am a sucker for love.. I keep wanting to leave this one person.. but then I feel that if I were to leave and not turn back.. what if he loved me... but didn't have the courage to love me.. that same way I love him....

2006-10-30 12:56:43 · 8 answers · asked by shysinglefriend 1 in Singles & Dating

I mentor 14 yr old teen and I have a problem with his mom right now. I made plans to take him to a sporting event this Saturday and had cleared it with her several weeks ago. I bought tickets ($50). I now learn that they are going to New york city that day only 5 days before. Also, I need to tell you, he isn't doing well in school and one of the incentives I've given him to improve is grades is that if his next report card is good, that I would take him on a trip to New York for the weekend ( we live fairly close to NYC). This is a trip that he wants to do. His Mom is aware of this incentive and his grades have not improved. I feel that she is totally undermining me on trip and I'm pretty upset about it along with the fact that I have made time for her son and bought tickets to the event. We have been open with each other in the past. Should I confront her about this? Should I explain how I feel about this trip? Should she be taking him to NYC when his grades are not good?

2006-10-30 12:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by tyler b 1 in Family

with out making him cry or physical contact of any kind

2006-10-30 12:56:00 · 16 answers · asked by catiebug 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 12:55:52 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

not that it matters but ive had a few, i had a topic questionas whats your favorite nfl sunday meal and yahoo said it was out of line -10points lol ok whatever. wow.

2006-10-30 12:55:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The mother is stable and has been for 2 years, she is in school and working hard. She has always taken care of the children full time and only experienced extreme depression 2 years ago which required hospitalization to regulate meds. The father comes and goes, has a long history of domestic violence, ADHD, personality disorders and substance abuse but is holding a job now and has a college degree, although no formal treatment for substance abuse. He has a long crimial history and spent time in jail. whos fit?

2006-10-30 12:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do u get control of ur life? How do u get over a break up, start a new job, let go of old friends that bring u down, deal with a screwed up family, and find happiness for urself? I feel like I have lost my whole life and dont know how or where to get me back. I have too much stress and think i am about to have a nervous breakdown. Done seen the dr. but i need to get off my butt and get my life in order but dont know how. Where do u find the strength to get on ur feet and let all the stress go. I live in a bad situation with my sister and am tired of taking care of her and my family thinks its my job to do it but im only 23 and i want a life of my own. i dont even know what else to say. i need good friends and motivation.

2006-10-30 12:54:34 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

2006-10-30 12:54:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love her. i saw her walk by me with her head down and a book on her face and i knew i loved her. there's been a girl in my classes since 6th grade and i always thought she was a geek. a real geek. these days though i've noticed how her hace is really pretty and how she always makes people laugh and the way the teachers love her because she'll argue with them and make them laugh. i notied how she squeeks she sneezes and when she says my name she never just says "ryan" she says "ryan snifle." always.

do i love her? i cant stop thinking about her and i cant even say "hello." when i do i run away. im a football player who is in love with a book worm theatre girl.




help.

2006-10-30 12:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad has deabetis and he has low blood sugar sometimes but he has had 3 in the last week and a half and i dont know what to do and right now im really mad at him because he was in the car when this last time happend and it could have caused a car accident and he knows that it happends sometimes but i just dont know how to deal with it! please help me!

2006-10-30 12:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, my first question is how do you dump a boy? There is this boy that likes me, hes nice and all, but I fell like I need to dump him.

My next question is how do you get a boy to like you? Theres this other boy that I like and I think he likes me. I also can't tell if he likes me or not. HELP!!!

2006-10-30 12:53:12 · 4 answers · asked by T. 4 in Singles & Dating

Four years ago when my relationship began, it was a far cry from what it has become today. The man Im with was caring, kind, generous etc etc. Today I am now a shell of what I used to be. I no longer have any friends, I am unable to go anywhere, do anything. Because I tried to make him happy, I gave up everything a little at a time for him. Now I have no where to turn. Shelters are full. I have no income because when I would start a job, he did his best to make sure I didnt get there on time or missed work all together because of no transportation or money for a bus. I have called state & federal agencies for help but because I have no dependents, disabilities and Im white...I dont qualify. Other than being homeless and on the streets, I have no where to go for help. Is there anywhere I can go to seek assistance untill I am able to find employment to work long enough to be able to feed and house myself? Is my only option to live with an abusive relationship forever? Help!!

2006-10-30 12:53:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Four years ago when my relationship began, it was a far cry from what it has become today. The man Im with was caring, kind, generous etc etc. Today I am now a shell of what I used to be. I no longer have any friends, I am unable to go anywhere, do anything. Because I tried to make him happy, I gave up everything a little at a time for him. Now I have no where to turn. Shelters are full. I have no income because when I would start a job, he did his best to make sure I didnt get there on time or missed work all together because of no transportation or money for a bus. I have called state & federal agencies for help but because I have no dependents, disabilities and Im white...I dont qualify. Other than being homeless and on the streets, I have no where to go for help. Is there anywhere I can go to seek assistance untill I am able to find employment to work long enough to be able to feed and house myself? Is my only option to live with an abusive relationship forever? Help!!

2006-10-30 12:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We both bot a job at a castle and locking up for the night we had sex in queen victorias bed. Any idea how we could top that for a novelty place to have sex? Personaly I don't think you could beat the vatican... but don't want to go to hell =P

2006-10-30 12:51:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Umm.. yes. This guy who i do NOT like. but is like my best friend... (who happens to be 5 years older than me ) (im 15) emails me all the time.. but lately he hasnt been... and i asked him today why he hasnt emailed me back after i wrote him a huge email.. and he said " i guess i havent gotten around to it" and all he talks about is this girl named "amanda" whats going on?

2006-10-30 12:50:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this has happened to me today and she really looks hot, but the thing is she has a van and might be a mother. I said maybe wednesday. what should have i done?

2006-10-30 12:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Singles & Dating

So I went out with this special girl one time and it was pretty cool. We watched a movie and went to coffee. I want to call her up and ask her for a second date. What should I do! I definitely will take her to eat somewhere, but what do I do after? What kinds of things can we do? I dont just wanna say 'see you later' after dinner! And should I attempt to kiss her on the second date? Also should I ask her to be my girlfriend on the second date. Please tell me! Please!

2006-10-30 12:48:21 · 8 answers · asked by awesome127 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 12:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are both active member of alcoholics anonymous. I would like to know if marriage of this type usually work out

2006-10-30 12:47:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ellen J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I'm 15.. Over the summer, I fell in love. Dont say anything like I'm too young, just please listen. Well, here , where I live summer is may to august. ( its' already snowed at my house). So about 3 months ago, I spilled my guts to this girl, whose been my good friend since we were 7. Well she said she didnt like me like that. I suffered through that for about a month. Well then she emailed me, and said she really missed our friendship. So i told her it was just hard seein her, but promised her things would be better. They got better, I thought I moved on. Well yesterday, man I had a relapse. Me and her flirted kinda, ( she's a flirt, so you cant call it that) well anyways, all those feelings came back, and here I am again, wishing she would like me. I dont know what to do. I mean I see her all the time. This weekend, were goin with our youth on a trip to charlotte. My point is, I really love her, and i cant move on. Is thereany hope for the future?? Please help????

2006-10-30 12:46:50 · 20 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean what most of u do when she approached by nice black one .....i fancy that white girl in my class and she treats me normal like other class mates ... i live in UK , ESEX where there is majority of white and its that rare to see mixed couple ,, that girl talks to her white mates in the class most of time ..i didnt talk to her much and even dont know how she feels twords me ..there is many obstacles begins with our friendship as we just know each other as class mates and if she is open minded in term of dating out of her race or even making friends ...many of my friends been saying that this area are extremist people . i really fancy her but iam like that guy who making dreams in his mind because she even doesn't talk to me that much and she might grown up with that prejudice against other races ....

2006-10-30 12:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u like it? cuz if you dont like it ur nuts. cuz i hade to live in oklahoma for 2 weeks and on my third day me and my lil bro got into a fight. and wuts odd bout that is i never realy get into fights with anyone, i always make friends not enemies. so it will make u fall in love with where u curently live now. just letting u kno awesome rockford is and how hard rockford ROCKS ON!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-30 12:46:34 · 1 answers · asked by inez s 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help please ansewer my question how do i tell my mom should i write her a letter or tell her up front please help

2006-10-30 12:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

WHAT,? I HAVE TO PROVE THAT IM JUST AS GOOD OF A FATHER AS SHE IS A MOTHER ? IF THAT AINT DISCRIMINATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-30 12:45:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy for about three months now. He says he really likes me but sometimes when I call him he won't return my calls for days at a time. When we get together we go out to dinner and I have oral sex with him and he likes it. He's never sexually penetrated me, but he now wants to have anal sex with me, but I won't bend because he's too big.

Lately, he has been very demanding and very abusive to me by slapping, hitting, biting, and beating me when I'm performing oral sex on him and ususally this happens when he's been drinking.

I think I want out of this type of relationship because I'm not getting anything out of it..But, whenever I see him at work, or when he looks me in my eyes or calls me I find it difficult to say no to him.....

He told me that he wants to start treating me better than he has should I believe him? should I give him a chance? or should I just move on?

2006-10-30 12:45:54 · 23 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I want to go with boys my age but I don't know what to talk about on the phone. HELP!!!!!! I don't want to sound geeky but then I don't want to ask or talk about nothing at all. HELP ME PLEASE!!!

2006-10-30 12:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-30 12:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by CaliGirl27 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, in what way?

2006-10-30 12:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by soft 1 in Singles & Dating

So say you have a friend who you have known since you were in kindergarten possibly longer. You get older and one day you realize....hey my buddy's kinda a hottie toddie.... so you go out a few times. You both know your leaning towards dating relationship status and have discussed the matter to a great extent, but decide to just let things hang out for now. And it seems cool, and it's like your cool and I'm cool and things are cool. And you have every reason in the world to want to continue dating this person; pretty much everything in common, families kinda know both of you and have good feelings about each other, friends are the same, but for some reason **** be weird. You get the I'm kissing my brother feelin going on. And altho you always have a super shazamtastic time together ya just get the akward feeling. PROBLEM!!! What are you supposed to do with this? Continue moving into a relationship thang and risk losing a really good friend if things don't work out? or drop the whole show and move back into the comfort zoneio?

2006-10-30 12:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by rrice215 1 in Singles & Dating

I can please her OK but I want to blow her socks off, can any girls out there give me hints on how to surprise her and make her feel really good?

2006-10-30 12:42:46 · 3 answers · asked by Tridda AKA K.B.J.G 2 in Singles & Dating