i love her. i saw her walk by me with her head down and a book on her face and i knew i loved her. there's been a girl in my classes since 6th grade and i always thought she was a geek. a real geek. these days though i've noticed how her hace is really pretty and how she always makes people laugh and the way the teachers love her because she'll argue with them and make them laugh. i notied how she squeeks she sneezes and when she says my name she never just says "ryan" she says "ryan snifle." always.
do i love her? i cant stop thinking about her and i cant even say "hello." when i do i run away. im a football player who is in love with a book worm theatre girl.
help.
2006-10-30 12:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a sophmore by the way
2006-10-30 12:54:58 · update #1
wow, you remind me of the movie "she's all that". Maybe you just like her, you can't LOVE her. LOVE is not like a crush or infatuation. It's something else. In your case, it's just a crush....why don't you go up to her and strike up a conversation or do it the old fashioned way!! Be her secret admirer! Give her flowers or a note in her locker....she'd be sure to notice. Don't be shy! If you are, get someone else to talk to her. Ask your friend to ask her what she thinks of you. Good luck!
2006-10-30 12:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are fun! Ask her out. Get lunch (it's less pressure than dinner). Go on a walk. Do something casual so that you're comfortable. The thing about the theater/bookworm who makes people laugh- she's confident, and comfortable. I know because I was her years ago. She'll appreciate you being direct. I suspect that she'll let you know if she's interested. Approach her.
2006-10-30 21:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by toolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, just talk to her. I say this because the girl you are describing sounds just a little bit like me, and I wouldn't laugh at you, or be rude or anything awful that you might be afraid of. Tell her how you feel, or just start out making casual friends with her. I personally would try my hardest to make you feel comfortable talking because when a person is talking to me, and is obviously trying to have a decent conversation despite being uncomfortable, I really feel for them. I would listen and laugh at corny jokes. She might come to a football game of yours.
Start out by trying to say hi to her everyday, then try just mentioning something casually that you can both laugh about. (Did you see the stupid burgler story on the news last night?) Ask her what book shes reading. (this one gets me.)
Eventually it will get easier.
2006-10-30 21:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ciera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawww thats so cute, just go talk to her, just sy something like " hi, would you like to come have lunch with me" or if thats abit too much say something like " would you like to come watch me play football?, I would really like it if you did"
2006-10-30 20:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by ros_0123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what school do you go to...
and oh yeah i think you shoyuld just be yourself and ask her i mean if you;re a footbal player she probably would say yes
and GOOD LUCK
2006-10-30 21:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Italyfan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing bad about that.
And if you see something wrong about liking someone like that ,your an ***. Love is love. wait it out. gl
2006-10-30 20:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for her!
2006-10-30 20:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by d_unit2k7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋