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So say you have a friend who you have known since you were in kindergarten possibly longer. You get older and one day you realize....hey my buddy's kinda a hottie toddie.... so you go out a few times. You both know your leaning towards dating relationship status and have discussed the matter to a great extent, but decide to just let things hang out for now. And it seems cool, and it's like your cool and I'm cool and things are cool. And you have every reason in the world to want to continue dating this person; pretty much everything in common, families kinda know both of you and have good feelings about each other, friends are the same, but for some reason **** be weird. You get the I'm kissing my brother feelin going on. And altho you always have a super shazamtastic time together ya just get the akward feeling. PROBLEM!!! What are you supposed to do with this? Continue moving into a relationship thang and risk losing a really good friend if things don't work out? or drop the whole show and move back into the comfort zoneio?

2006-10-30 12:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by rrice215 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I am having a similar situation. I have known this girl for 4 years (we went to high school together) and we're really good friends and all, and now we go to the same university. Suddenly I'm absolutely crazy about her, but I don't know what to do. After about a month and a half of chickening out again and again, I finally stopped thinking and just asked her out. Now, I was real nervous about it, cause as you say, you don't want to risk losing your friend, but she had a real big smile on her face after I asked her, like she'd been waiting for it. What I'm trying to say is if you sit there and think about it, generally your mind will come up with all the bad things that could happen. But if you just go do it, you won't end up missing out on all the great stuff that could be waiting for the two of you. And if he is your friend of a long long time, you probably don't have to worry too much about losing him entirely if something goes wrong. Friends overcome things all the time. G'luck mate!

2006-10-30 12:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0 0

I think you guys should really consider a serious relationship. I know you both and could really see you two going the distance if you both really want it. It seems as if it's getting harder and harder to meet guys that are decent, and he seems to be a great guy that will treat you like a princess. They say that you are supposed to be best friends with whoever you marry, and if that is ever the road you want to go down, he might be a good possibility. Ahhhh, thats all I wanna say right now, LMAO

2006-10-30 21:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by chickypie 2 · 0 0

well if u or him aren't feelin comfortable, then maybe u should stick to being just friends.... but if u guys are comfortable, then try it out. But just Promise eachother that no matter what, u won't let this fling get in the way of best friends.


hope i helped andd good luck!!!
;)

2006-10-30 20:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by cAllimac 2 · 0 0

I would go back to the comfort zone.
But thought this sounds redundant... trust your HEART! If you dont feel the amazing sparks when you are kissing, don't do it just for kicks. You may be too far into it now.... But good luck. Follow your HEART!

2006-10-30 20:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 0 0

wow thats a really hard subject... i think you should try it out but just in case it doesnt work promise each other youll still be good friends

2006-10-30 20:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0 0

the friendship as you know it will be over if it goes to the next level

2006-10-30 20:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by loverboyyoume 1 · 0 0

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