Umm.. yes. This guy who i do NOT like. but is like my best friend... (who happens to be 5 years older than me ) (im 15) emails me all the time.. but lately he hasnt been... and i asked him today why he hasnt emailed me back after i wrote him a huge email.. and he said " i guess i havent gotten around to it" and all he talks about is this girl named "amanda" whats going on?
2006-10-30 12:50:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you, but gave up because you do not like him the same way. He is twenty and his mind is primarily on one thing where ladies are concerned. You do not represent that to him.
Now. I could be entirely wrong because what was just described is a terribly shallow person. But also somewhat normal. Instead, he could be a procrastinator like the rest of us males. Or, Amanda could be on him for having an email relationship with a 15 year old. Could be almost anything, but certainly nothing evil.
Keep sending emails, preferably short ones, and make sure he knows you are at least a friend. And ask how Amanda is doing. If he wants to date her, good, as long as all you want is to be a friend.
Good luck with this!
2006-10-30 13:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmnnn......I going to take a wild guess and say you do sorta like him and you probably were trying to see if he felt the same way in the lengthy email.
if I'm wrong then more than likely he had an interest in you at some point and then "amanda" came along and now he is interested in her which means that now, you take a back seat in his mind.
If i'm completely wrong then it means that both of you had a platonic relationship but he met "amanda" and since she is occupying his thoughts, you stil take a back seat since he wants to focus on her.
No matter what, you are still his friends but when he dates other women, he has to be focused on them first and then you later since you guys are just friends but he doesn't want to disrespect any lady love that he may have.
2006-10-30 20:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is that he's 20 & you're 15. He's a young man, & you're still a child. I am afraid that you are going to have to accept that he is going to be tied up with Amanda for awhile.
But that's a good thing because now you can find a boy closer to your own age that can be a little more sensitive to your needs.
2006-10-30 20:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it he is five years older,i think you should relax and let things run it course,besides you said you do not like him.
(It is obvious that he has lost interest so please,resort to being just a friend and save your self the worry,unless you want to get hurt,for he is not focus on you,i think his mind is more on the pu ssy, of some one else or he is just not settle,or is looking for his age)Don't worry may be it is for the best.
2006-10-30 21:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is just what men do. Non-sexual friendships between guys and girls are difficult enough at the best of times but when you add in your age difference and a new girlfriend ... well, you do the math.
2006-10-30 20:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has a girlfriend and does not want to appear to be cheating esp with a 15 yo
he has decided it is inappropriate to be close to you --- too many potential problems --- not reality but the perception a 20 yo and a 15 yo would raise eyebrows
2006-10-30 20:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think it matters what is going on.
You are not over 18, and he is.
If you are hoping for anything to happen that would be againest the law =0
2006-10-30 20:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by dreamscrushed 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Umm.. I think you should stop whining and find someone your own age
2006-10-31 14:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he is a little too old to be your best friend!
2006-10-30 20:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 20 your 15... that should be a good enough answer.
2006-10-30 20:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋