i mean what most of u do when she approached by nice black one .....i fancy that white girl in my class and she treats me normal like other class mates ... i live in UK , ESEX where there is majority of white and its that rare to see mixed couple ,, that girl talks to her white mates in the class most of time ..i didnt talk to her much and even dont know how she feels twords me ..there is many obstacles begins with our friendship as we just know each other as class mates and if she is open minded in term of dating out of her race or even making friends ...many of my friends been saying that this area are extremist people . i really fancy her but iam like that guy who making dreams in his mind because she even doesn't talk to me that much and she might grown up with that prejudice against other races ....
2006-10-30 12:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its fine and when i see an interacial couple i think it's really cute that they're breaking thee prejudice barriers around them.
2006-10-30 12:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by chill out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm from the US, but I can say that I would never have any qualm about dating someone based on his race. When I see a black man, I don't think anything different than I do when I see a white, Asian, etc. man..."Move to the left so you don't run into them and appear rude."
Try to start a conversation--feel the situation out more. If she seems okay with talking, then you are probably on the right track. If she isn't okay, then move on--you are better than that. Good luck!
2006-10-30 12:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, really; guess it kinda depends on how you've been raised
I don't fancy black men usually, but neither do I retch if I see one; I acknowledge them as a fellow human being with dark skin and move on. It's a matter of personal taste, not prejudice(but that's just me...)
2006-10-30 12:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think people are people i dont care if your black ,white red yellow or green . i live in a place where there are very few colored people, there is a couple of african americans here and i like them both ive never really been around black people but i think people are people all of us bleed red and have feelings the only difference in people are the color of thier skin and thats not enough for me to say you cant like or love some one because they are not of your race.
2006-10-30 13:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind seeing it. I'm Asian and have dated several Blacks guys during the years and had a relationship with one for two years. I know how your feeling about interracial relationships since it frown about my culture. Have you tried talking to her about it? I have talk to many people about having a relationship with other cultures. It won't hurt if you bring up the subject of interracial relationships if it doesn't hurt your friendship with her.
2006-10-30 12:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rommie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think that there is no trouble on earth with "dating out of her race", as you say. I would date a black guy or any other "color" guy if they matched other, more important, requirements.
Give it a shot man. If she isn't up to dating a black guy then she isn't worthy of you.
2006-10-30 12:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ciera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated many black guys and my parents have no problems with it. Im sure if I did date a Han Chinese guy, they'll be fine with it too. "If your happy," they say.
2016-03-28 02:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be judgemental?
just go over and talk to her...what have you got to lose?....
if it works out than all the best to you...if not move on....
always remember jsut because ur friends say the ppl in that area extremist...doesnt mean they all are.....give it a shot man!
2006-10-30 12:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by DonnyD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to not like black people and ever since i went out with my boyfriend who acts black cuz he was raised by black people but now most of my friends are black. like most of the football team is my friends and they are black. just talk to her.
2006-10-30 13:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by stokes_girl1127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The color of one's skin should not matter. People are people. If skin color matters to her, then you wouldn't want to be with her anyways. The person you're with should want to get to know you based on what's inside you, not on the color of your skin.
2006-10-30 13:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Marianne K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋