Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I have been married for 7yrs to my husband. we got married after i had my daughter by him we haven't been dating a long before i got prenant. Now we got three kids together. my problem is i feel like there no love and affection in the marriage i don't enjoy sex because i'm alway force in to it. No passion. I love him but I also what to feel love as well he tell me he love me but it don't feel real. He put everything before me as far as Job&Business. He just take care need of the house and put money in my hand so that it will keep me happy. But the happiness don't last long. I tried talking to him about it. But is seems as if he don't take my words serious. I try everything. yes I prayed to God. But at the same time I'm tired of crying and wait for him to come around I'm ready to leave the marriage. what will you do in this situation.

2006-10-28 07:26:09 · 18 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been talking to my old best friend (which happens to be a guy..and UGLY one at that) lately. Mabie twice for about 5 minutes to see how he has been. My husband got mad about it. Was I wrong?

2006-10-28 07:25:55 · 23 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Friends

2006-10-28 07:25:51 · 16 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Singles & Dating

Iam a good student and have straight A's, but my parent do not let me go to parties or to any places by myself.They want to plan MY future, and they dont let me be independent. What should I do?

2006-10-28 07:25:26 · 30 answers · asked by aleinharo 1 in Family

What is the first step?? How do I know if I wil get full custody of the kids?? Who will get what as in the house, vehicals..ect.. I am a stay at home mom so I havent worked most of our married life.

2006-10-28 07:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a girl in 7th grade and I weigh 112 pounds and am 5 foot 1 inch. All the other girls that are the same hieght say they weigh 95 pounds. Am I fat?

2006-10-28 07:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is talking to me about her boyfriend and her problems. My other bf is talking to me about how she hater her boyfriend and how my other bf is going wrong. Then on top of it all this guy that is her friend knows more details and her past life then I do. It is getting on my nerves! HELP ME!

2006-10-28 07:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by crispy apples 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is a couple of yrs older then me , so all my life i've had his friends around since i was about the age of 1. well now im older and his friends are too. well over the 2 years ive fallen hard for one of his closes friends and i think that his friend "greg" has fallen for me 2. But im affarid that my brother will get mad at one of us , becasue i want to be w/ "greg" so badly.

what would you do in my situation risk my brothers anger toward the matter or be a shy sideliner and wait for the day that its ok for us to be together w/ my brothers concent or , sneek and risk getting caught. HELP PLZ

2006-10-28 07:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 07:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by meghan 1 in Friends

nuthin like poems and crap and nuthin abt sex and virgins just smthg nice 2 say

2006-10-28 07:18:58 · 1 answers · asked by bannakai 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 07:17:40 · 4 answers · asked by Dalys R 1 in Friends

i like this boy and he is 1 year older then me what do i do?

2006-10-28 07:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by execusive chick of eastwick 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff cameron and her guy have been going out since i think....january of klast year, right? She told me they broke their virginity together, but I always had a feeling he liked me, ESPECIALLY when we started school together...He flirts with me in classes we have, does he like me?

2006-10-28 07:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Singles & Dating

I've already contacted child support enforcement. They are doing their best, I'm sure, but working very slowly. I've also considered a private investigator but cannot afford one. I'd follow him myself but he lives several states away. How is it possible that we can find out a physical address, phone #, debts, etc. but cannot locate a person's place of employment through online research? Am I missing something?

2006-10-28 07:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there are these 5 kids on my bus and they always hit me say i have the most retarded comebacks and the bad thing is they say they want to kick my butt. but im not a fighter and i really want to be. i have a tough mom who is telling me to kick their a** but i cant because i cant fight.

2006-10-28 07:15:47 · 2 answers · asked by .Samantha 1 in Friends

What would u do if u talked (bad things) about ur friend 2 a guy she liked? But that was when she kept on ditching you, but now 7 months later she finds out but you guys are friends now?

I already apologize and asked her to forgive me. What should I do now?

2006-10-28 07:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A woman tells you that she "needs some time to get her life together" when you ask her out, because she's just come out of a bad relationship and is not yet interested in jumping into a new one.

A month later she asks you to come to a meeting out of State (2 nights) and tells you the reason is because she wants to see you because she likes you. She still says she is happy being single and is not ready to date but also doesn't know how you can tell if a person is ready to date.

2006-10-28 07:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by j t 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok....he's kinda the athletic type and he sometimes does weird things. And oh, ya did I mention I once went out with him, except he says he never liked me, but that was almost a year ago. And he's right here in the library on the computer next to me. I'm not gonna make a huge jump, but I'm willing to try something. Please help me, I've known him for around 4 years and we've been good friends since 5th grade, we are in 7th grade going into 8th grade right now. If you seem like you have to know his name it's Tyson. I need answers. Please.

2006-10-28 07:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She keeps playing solitare on the computer and is always late for work

Should I worry?

2006-10-28 07:13:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends boyfriend is kinda overweight, and his uncle who is supposivly a dr. told him that he cant make any babies because of him being overweight! is this true or is his dr. just not verry good!

2006-10-28 07:11:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After they get themselves drunk and come on to you? Is it wrong to think that if a girl buys her own beer, gets drunk and gets horney, that she cannot choose having sex? Talking about lame, I personially think that a girl that crys rape after this is hiding her shame and needs to get help. Rape is a terriable crime, and not to be taken lightly. Many Lives are ruined over a girl who got herself laid and then had second thoughts or was drunk and uses that as a excuse to save her honor.

Thoughts?

2006-10-28 07:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

because from my last X i am still recovering ,and we rushed into this relationship, and i just wanna take a break and catch my breath and not go out with anyone right now

2006-10-28 07:10:57 · 19 answers · asked by candy 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and like this guy (27) he is very sweet and understanding, and cute. He has Cerebal Palsy though. I hate the fact that I even care. He is 100% able to take care of himself and has a great attitude on life. I just get embarassed by
the way he walks and what not. I feel like people will think I am not that great a catch if they see that I am with him. I am also worried about never being able to dance with him and stuff like that. He is a great guy and if it wasn't for his disabilty I would already be beggin him to love me for ever. I am just really thrown off by it. He has many great personality traits that come from overcoming what he has. He is very undertanding and compassionate. When I'm laying with him I just feel everything is okay and my mind gets quiet and peaceful. And whenever I feel confused or frustrated about life, he helps me figure out how to work through it. I keep picturing him in my head as "whole" and ask "what if?" how do i overcome this?

2006-10-28 07:10:04 · 10 answers · asked by mischevious_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea what to do. My brother and I need some help. Well you see, every time we get into a fight it usually ends up with someone crying. Usually its my Brother, and he tells my mom everything that happens and he usually tells my mom if I hurt him. Then I get in trouble, even though he starts them usually. And if I do get in trouble I go in my room and I hit my floor as hard as I can, then I hit my leg as hard as I can. I can't talk to him about this cause he would tell my parents. They just think that he is an angel and 1 time I told him that our parents treat him better and then he went to tell them, and I asked him not to, but he did it anyways, and then me and my mom got into a huge fight last summer. And then when I get hurt really bad I don't tell on him cause I'm the one that would get blamed for this. Can you please help me? I want to be done with hitting me and the darn floor. Thanks for reading my question and answering it.

2006-10-28 07:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Family

Well my friend likes harry potter and lemony snickett books but she has em all. I dont know what to get her. What would you get your best friend. She is very special to me. I need to get a meaningful gift.

2006-10-28 07:08:34 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley O 1 in Friends

If a strange, creepy guy came up to you and grabbed you pulled out a kinfe, saying 'Um, nice girl to rape'....................but then was hit with a zap....and shrunk down to just and inch tall.

What would you do?

2006-10-28 07:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by Little tiny one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 07:06:50 · 10 answers · asked by marcia_mahoya 3 in Friends

me and my bf have been going out for almost 8 months and in the beg. of the relationship i always wanted sex... we did it like 5 times every day..... now i don't really ever want to have sex... is it just me? do other people get like this.. is there any way to fix it?

2006-10-28 07:05:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime my brother sees me he keeps saying to me I wish you would die I can't understand why he is my twin brother as well we used to be close when we were younger. But now he just wishes I was dead I can't understand why he wants me dead.

2006-10-28 07:04:13 · 26 answers · asked by liz 2 in Family

my mother has moves every couple of months, her latest move was across from us ( me and my family & my brother lives next door to me). She moved in with a roommate & he left in middle of night due to supporting her for months,(they werent involved) she has no job, and no place to go. she is acting as if its our duty to support her now, she is doing nothing. we have told her flat out. we even looked in the local paper for jobs but she still didnt do anything. As of monday she will be locked out. We have done our best, and our out of ideas. Giving her money and a place to stay is not an option since she burned that bridge with the landlord.

2006-10-28 07:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Dunkyin 2 in Family