After they get themselves drunk and come on to you? Is it wrong to think that if a girl buys her own beer, gets drunk and gets horney, that she cannot choose having sex? Talking about lame, I personially think that a girl that crys rape after this is hiding her shame and needs to get help. Rape is a terriable crime, and not to be taken lightly. Many Lives are ruined over a girl who got herself laid and then had second thoughts or was drunk and uses that as a excuse to save her honor.
Thoughts?
2006-10-28 07:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ben and lisa brought up a point sorta, What about when BOTH are drunk. Are they BOTH commiting rape then? And what if they guy is falling down drunk but the girl only had a few? It seems to be a one sided deal with the guys losing always.
2006-10-28 07:22:04 · update #1
To have sex with anyone while they are drunk is a crime. Not one person is in the right state of mind. The man should respect that a woman is drunk and not take advantage of that situation..That makes you more respectable...L
Yes many girls misuse the word rape and it is a shame that some guys have to pay for only doing what they think that woman really wanted...L
2006-10-28 07:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by ben and lisa h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was alone for three years because of this fear, and the fear of catching an STD.
What you say is correct. And because of how bad men in general's reputation is with rape, women can lie and get away with it because it's easier to believe the women, regardless of the facts. This is why I encourage logical thinking over emotional thinking.
ben and lisa h - Your assuming that all girls don't want sex while drunk and don't know what their doing. Many girls do. Thats why many guys go for it when the girls insists on it. Some girls aren't sure, and some guys take advantage. Sometimes it's not really rape, it's really miscomunication, especailly when some girls say NO and they really mean YES, and expect the guy to KNOW they really mean YES.
2006-10-28 14:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know what to say because the topic is complicated. Hmm... I honestly think that girls like that just have issues. I guess the key in that situation is to buy a girl a drink, not 10 drinks, and to not take home the girl who is piss drunk. Not sure... Just use your judgement. And yeah, I agree with you, as long as you're not trying to get the girl very drunk so she won't be in her best judgement, but the girl is also stupid for allowing herself to become intoxicated. Complicated topic! Use your best judgement.
2006-10-28 14:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it is ridiculous and wrong when girls do that.. i was a survivor of rape and trust me it is the worst experience of ones life..and when stupid girls get drunk and get laid and go "oh **** i didn;t want to do that it must have been his fault! Omg he raped me" i think that they should meet a person who has been raped and see if they have the same emotional scars and etc. cause trust me they won't. People of today are ridiculous
2006-10-28 14:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They have no honor if they were to do so so not the best choice of words but yes I agree with you I would just stay away completely
2006-10-28 14:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by Since birth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm with you. It's scary but that's what women get because they are the fairer sex.
2006-10-28 14:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋