To set the scene...We're both 23 & have a great marriage! Our love is unlike any other I have ever seen.The thing is, BEFORE we got married, he cheated on me, not one, but with two. He says he "was young & stupid", & it didn't help that @ the time we were both in Iraq as soldiers & hours apart. I believe him with all of my heart. Ever since we got back together, got married he has proven to me in EVERY way & everyday that he would love me more than anything & never do anything to hurt me again. No prob, I believe that, the problem is Me. I don't know how to FORGET the past. I have forgiven him, had I not I wouldn't have married him. But it bites me every now & then & causes an argument.I hate hurting his feelings when my not forgeting the past comes up, he's so loving.I want to stop,stop & forget already, it seems so simple yet I can't find a way. Randomly it would pop up in my head, & my not being able to forget hurts our feelings.Youd think with so much love in between us Id forget.
2006-10-28
07:41:32
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VolimT
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Marriage & Divorce