We were married for 14 yrs. We were raising his 2 grandchildren and maybe sex was not as exciting as the beginning but it was there. His new girlfriend gave him porn star sex as he calls it to snatch him and now he is lucky if he gets it from her. She never wants to talk to him on the phone when he calls her, she is down right mean to him and yet he has not left yet. She is a crazy woman who has moved in the apartments across from me and wants to get even with me when she is the woman who took my husband under false pretenses.
2006-10-28 07:32:30 · 5 answers · asked by lelia tequila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm, sounds like the ago old analagy, when men go through their change of life.
As someone before me said, it's human nature to want what you don't have, the grass is greener on the other side.
Unfortunately, once you get there you find out it isn't greener and you can't always go back to where you were.
You need to decide if you want him back or not, if you do, then tell him, he may be too ashamed to admit his mistake to you and ask for your forgiveness. If you take that baracade down for him and let him know that your willing to work things out with him and try again then I think you will find out that your nasty neighbour will move.
If he moves back with you she will be out in the cold and will no longer have anything to brag about.
However if you don't want him back then next time she tries to make your life difficult just look her streight in the face and say, thank you for taking that looser off my hands, your welcome to him. Then hold your head up high and walk away from her without another word.
That should shut her up! She will probably leave him too once she thinks it doesn't bother you!
2006-10-28 08:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can give them the porn star sex from the beginning. Be everything he wants you to be, but most of the time he will leave anyway. Most men are in a competition with all their buddies, to have what they might think is a better woman. Some will even give up everything, just for the chance to be with someone new, that might cause their buddies envy.
2006-10-28 14:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by whitetigress1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both at fault what snakes they both are. I would start having fun with the single life and mingle. They are not worth worrying about since they both are low life people. If I were you I would be glad you have him out of your life especially if he is going into detail about his sexual relationships with her good or bad. Start doing things that you once did before that maybe he did not like doing. Dress the best as you can and hold your head up high. Show both of them you are fine with what they did. I tell you that is the best revenge ever.
2006-10-28 18:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, men are dumb, what can I say. No offense to them, it just comes naturally....it's in their genes. He doesn't want to leave her because then everyone will know he made a mistake and his pride will be hurt.
2006-10-28 15:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that old song "you don't know what you've got till it's gone" sort of sums up his situation...
2006-10-28 14:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋