My brother is a couple of yrs older then me , so all my life i've had his friends around since i was about the age of 1. well now im older and his friends are too. well over the 2 years ive fallen hard for one of his closes friends and i think that his friend "greg" has fallen for me 2. But im affarid that my brother will get mad at one of us , becasue i want to be w/ "greg" so badly.
what would you do in my situation risk my brothers anger toward the matter or be a shy sideliner and wait for the day that its ok for us to be together w/ my brothers concent or , sneek and risk getting caught. HELP PLZ
2006-10-28 07:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him and if your brother is mad about it tell him you really like "greg". the only reason your brother would get mad is because he cares about you and doesnt want to see you get hurt
2006-10-28 07:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by The_Truth_Finder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother must be a pretty horrid person if he would not want his friend and his sister to be happy. Is he a horrid person? Or are you assuming that he will get angry?
If anything happens, don't hide it, but at the same time, don't make a big deal about it. If it kind of happens naturally your brother is less likely to get upset then if you sneak around and purposely keep him in the dark. Just let whatever will happen happen openly, like start hanging out with "greg" as a friend without your brother along and take it from their. Your life and "greg's" life neither belong to your brother.
2006-10-28 14:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your brother's friend, and your brother's friend likes you,
that's all that matter. He's not your parent, so you really don't need
his consent to start hanging out with or even dating Greg. Get
help from your brother's friends, if they are supportive of you and
Greg being together, and maybe even your parents. It's really none of his business if you ask me, unless you get into trouble or a problem, then he might interfere. Unless Greg does something to wrong you, or you do something to wrong him, he really has no
reason to be upset. Maybe he is uncomfortable by the fact his sister and one of his best friends like each other. It's not wrong
to do or want to be with Greg, or for him to be with you. Your
brother needs to grow up and get over his immature concerns.
2006-10-28 14:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, unless this guy named "greg" is a bad person who is doing things that are illegal, immoral, and or is treating you and other people badly, you should go out with him instead of being in fear. Your brother is NOT the one who decides your life and what you may or may not have or who you can see or not see. Ultimately this is up to you. I am assuming you are around 16 to 19 and you feel that it is hard to go in like this in fear of making a mistake. The biggest thing you have to worry about here is WHAT IF you never make a move and miss out on a terrific guy and he could want the same thing too. Think about it and let me know how things go.
2006-10-28 14:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say how much older greg is than you...if you're a minor and he isn't, hold off. if you're both minors, talk to your brother about your feelings...all he can really do is get mad and say no. i would def. not sneak around...that could mess up your relationship with your brother, and his friendship with "greg." best of luck.
2006-10-28 14:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask what your brothers opinion was and then if he is alright with it then maybe your brother could talk to greg for you and ya'll could all go on a double date .
2006-10-28 14:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your brother would be fine with this because after all he should be concerned for your happiness above all else......I would def. go for it...and if i were you i would sit down with your brother and talk to him about it so he hears it from you guys first...remeber to listen to his advice though because he knows this guy alot better then you!!!
2006-10-28 14:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by CONFUSED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realy like this guy i think u should be with him. it doesn't matter wat ur brother thinks its ur life not his. maybe he'll get mad at u but it will soon blow over. if ur brother knows how much u "greg" he'll undersatnd. just give it a try. peace
2006-10-28 14:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kirie S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
risk and just do it like YOU whant it 2 do
2006-10-28 14:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your brother his opinion
2006-10-28 14:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋