I have no idea what to do. My brother and I need some help. Well you see, every time we get into a fight it usually ends up with someone crying. Usually its my Brother, and he tells my mom everything that happens and he usually tells my mom if I hurt him. Then I get in trouble, even though he starts them usually. And if I do get in trouble I go in my room and I hit my floor as hard as I can, then I hit my leg as hard as I can. I can't talk to him about this cause he would tell my parents. They just think that he is an angel and 1 time I told him that our parents treat him better and then he went to tell them, and I asked him not to, but he did it anyways, and then me and my mom got into a huge fight last summer. And then when I get hurt really bad I don't tell on him cause I'm the one that would get blamed for this. Can you please help me? I want to be done with hitting me and the darn floor. Thanks for reading my question and answering it.
2006-10-28 07:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
aww sorry babe looks like ur going through a tough time. Listen tho, ur mom still loves you, and she probably wants to hear what u have to say, so try talking to your mom without your brother around, then tell her everything. If u are afraid to go up to her and tell her face to face, then as weird as it may sound, write her a letter telling everything u want to say. And i know someone even better that can help u. jesus can!! just pray to him, u will feel comforted in a time of need =] i hope things get better =]
2006-10-28 07:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so wait you get i trouble and you beat yourself up? Literally? Not good, maybe you should just not tell him anything at all?! And instead of hitting yourself make a dammit doll! you take an old sock stuff it with cotton and use buttons and such to make a face and when you get mad hit IT on any surface you can find till all the stuffing comes flying out of it all the time you are slamming this dall on the what ever you are hitting it on you are YELLING DAMMIT DAMMIT DAMMIT!!!
Sounds stupid but it works and it don't hurt you at all. Good stress relief promise!
And as for your brother I have 2 I feel your pain but when we get into fights we just walk away and don't talk to each other till we calm dawn. Sounds like you just need to right in journal or something instead of telling him things!
Good luck!
2006-10-28 14:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by joiegirl0310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your annoying brother is not worth hitting your floor or your leg. Have you ever tried ignoring him totally? If it will be of some comfort for you, he'll grow out of this phase. You may even become friends one day! Perhaps, in the mean time, you can write a letter to your mother, telling her how hurtful their prejudice are for you. I hope it will go better!
2006-10-28 14:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a younger brother and when ever we fight my mom asks us, "who will look after you if me and your dad were gone now?".and it made us think. he is the only family i have, after my parents.so from that day, we stopped fighting. we fight but we have decided to sort it out ourselves, we dont involve our parents. and as you know it, as time goes by, he has become someone i can always trust and so have i. we still argue over stupid things but in the end we make up. cause he is all i have and i am all he has. so, dont be jelous of your brother, dont bang your head, just be friends with him. buy him what he likes and start new. cause when you will grow up and face the world, he will be your only friend.
2006-10-28 14:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems u r really havin a hard time...well if u r elder thn ur bro thn u need to understand a bit....thins wud get better whn he gets mature enough....ur parents love u but as he is younger thy mostly prefer to take his side don worry thins ....if they get worse try to hav a talk wid ur parents....m sure they will understand best luck...
2006-10-28 14:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by squazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know ... because i fill it 2 ... my sister complains about me ... hate it ... i tell u what ... what ever u do .... never wish 4 a brother or sister ... they are so the annoying ... hate then a lot ...
2006-10-28 14:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel...i have the same problem..but you will get used to it..instead of hitting yourself hit a pillow....
2006-10-28 14:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋