Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

I love brown skinned boys (african-american, polynesian, etc.) and I tend to get nasty looks from people of their race, when they see us together or even see one of "their" men dancing or flirting with me. I don't see a problem and I love people of all races. I just want to have others' point of view, because there is no way I will ever lose my love for those type of men. Does it offend you to see a bootyful white girl with a sexy black man?

2006-10-27 07:50:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet him feb, 3 ,06 and he went away on the 18th after we spent two weekends together. He told me he was going to see friends.. well yesterday i found out he went to meet another girl and she sent him a lot of message after he moved into here but he never checked his yahoo so he didn't know they were there. I don't think he is talking to her, but he is talking to other girls and he says nothing about me. (at all) he don't know i know about all of this. My question, is should i tell him i know and get to the botton of this or just forget it he is with me now ?

2006-10-27 07:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by shelley w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by kvnouma 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly. What are the benefits? I'm not interested in religous reasons.

2006-10-27 07:49:40 · 15 answers · asked by Barrett G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 07:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by Johnny 3 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy from the internet, that i really liked. we went out a few times and i thought we really hit it off.we seemed to have a lot in common. we haven't had a sexual relationship, but we both enjoyed taking it slow and gettong to know each other.my dilema is this. i was with him one week ago and we had a really good time together, and told each other so. we talked the next day and things were fine.i called him the day after that and left a message on voicemail. he usually returns my calls but hasn't. i tried talking to him on instant messenger and he seemed to brush me off. next i sent him a text message telling him that i'd like to see him. no response. my question is how can you have such a good time with someone one day and 3 days letter just blow them off.i'm realizing that i won't hear from him again and have no intention of contacting him. i am confused and just trying to understand

2006-10-27 07:49:03 · 13 answers · asked by bmmpuma 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend and an ex bf that r trying to talk me into doin illegal drugs but i tell them no but they keep asking and i dont want to ruin a good friendship with them so plez HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-27 07:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by ropergurl 1 in Friends

my friend is having problems with her friends trying to get her to do drugs i dnt want her to but i dnt know how to help her helpme help her plz!!!

2006-10-27 07:48:46 · 1 answers · asked by Becuz I Luv You!!! 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 07:48:05 · 35 answers · asked by Tosh 1 in Family

Ok im pissed about this.i told A so called friend who i liked. Ive never had a girlfriend at our school so he decided to tell this clues on who likes her. thats wat made me mad. she found out today and i was tardy in the only class i have with her. i was to nervouse to talk to her and just glansed at er in the hall way with a blank face. SHe did the exact same thing and never talked to me. DOes this me she thinks im a freak or is she to nervouse to say too.

last year we were kinda friends that had fun together and now we are both 13 in 8 grade

2006-10-27 07:48:02 · 19 answers · asked by dfgsg 2 in Singles & Dating

He walked out on my mother and brother and I when I was 12. I watched him walk away. He would maintain a relationship with my brother but not with me. He invites my brother for xmas and holidays, not me. He was supposed to look after me for 2 weeks when my mum was out of the country and I was 15, he dropped me off home alone after 2 days. I used to go out of my way to try and maintain contact with him but it became obvious he wanted nothing to do with me so the last 12 years have come and gone without him in my life at all. I am leaving in a few months, moving abraod, eloping, and I won;t be back. Should I contact him before i go? I am sure he will hear about it from my brother and I am sick of always being the bigger person when it comes to him. He left for another woman and she had daughters my age-she called n told me at 13-he has new daughters now, he doesnt need u. I am asking this q again just to see the answers. I am torn on what to do and yes he is my biological father.

2006-10-27 07:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4 in Family

The gals I usually date are....how should I put this. Easy!! I am trying to change my dating habits and started dating a gal a bit closer to my own age( I am 43 she is in her mid thirtes). We have been on three dates now. I will be taking her out again tonight. She is unlike any gal I have dated in a very long time. I like her alot. We as of yet have not done anything romantic other than a couple of kisses( no tounge ). The girls I usually date hook up with me on the first date. I am going crazy. She has made it very clear that she likes me but said she likes to take things slowly. I have always had a three date rule and am breaking my own rule by going out again for the fourth time with out sex. I am trying to change my ways and she is helping me do that but how long is to long to wait?

2006-10-27 07:46:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to ask this cute girl out but i am very shy... we have known eachother for 11 years and are really good friends,, how do i ask her out without getting rejected????

2006-10-27 07:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

well my brother is 2 years older than me, he likes to push me around when he cant't get his way, he has punched me and shoved me and kicked me, and lots more, but nothing perverted. he is really strong, and he is sixteen, (im 14). i tell my dad and mom but my dad never see's him doing it so he never gets in much trouble, and plus he lies. he really likes to embaress me in public to, (but that might be normal). can some one tell me how to stand up for myself and make my big brother stop?!?!

2006-10-27 07:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by lauren r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked this a little while ago but I want more answers....esp guys, help me out here.

I am going on a date with a guy who hasn't dated in a couple years. (The reason's not important, nuf said that it is not because he's not cute/smart/nice, etc.) Anyways, he seems very shy and nervous. What should I know about guys who haven't dated for this long? How can I make him feel more comfortable?

FYI I am not nervous about this, just looking for tips on how to make him relaaaaax. (And no guys a BJ on the way to dinner is not happening.) :o)

2006-10-27 07:44:55 · 9 answers · asked by M K 2 in Singles & Dating

(i will be there after him so i cant do the whole roses on the bed thing! lol).....

2006-10-27 07:44:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:44:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Umm.. Yeah.. theres a party tommorow... and i heard the person having it say that shes getting people to bring alchohol to it.... and her parents arent going to be home.. now.. i could EASILY get there.. considering the fact this girl is like super preppy usually and thats how my parents know her... but my guy instinct says i shouldnt... we could get arrested... im only 15!! what should i do?

2006-10-27 07:44:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is my best friend

2006-10-27 07:44:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-27 07:43:46 · 15 answers · asked by milo 1 in Friends

What do you girls think us guys think about this
Do you think we prefer huge large breasts!
Small soft ones, with big nipples!
do you think we all think about seeing them every time we see nipples thru a shirt or blouse?
What are your thoughts, !

2006-10-27 07:43:43 · 19 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have not dated for a long time, was in an abusive relationship, I am in therapy. I meet this guy on line, we have talked for over 6 months now, 20 hours this week alone, exchanged pics. We talk about everything, I am apprehensive, but I think I have found my soul mate. I am thinking of going to Holland to meet him, is there anything in particular I should ask him about himself before I make a decision? I am 33....serious answers only please.

2006-10-27 07:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:41:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im feeling really restless...what sounds fun?

2006-10-27 07:41:27 · 23 answers · asked by marie 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by Psycho 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it's weird that she's being really nice when I don't exactly have anything to offer her back except for my company to wherever that we're going. My sister assured me that she really is nice but isn't it just weird that someone almost a stranger to you asks you on a trip?

2006-10-27 07:40:26 · 14 answers · asked by wanie 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 07:40:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anointed 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes i feel as if there are no guys out there that can keep up....

2006-10-27 07:39:48 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my cousin had gone to saudi to work.and he used to call me often and saying that he is not getting his salary and working too many hours per day it seems.but he said its ok but they are not paying his salary.so he said that he is gonna his country.and he gave one landline telephone number to contact him.and he also used to call me from that number.now last 3 months i didnt hear from him and the the telephone number which he gave to me is out of service.im too much worried. and also he had not gone to his mother country as well.his family also too much bothered about him.is there any way that i can find him with the telephone number?or is there any other ways?pls someone help me.im now in Qatar with my husband.

2006-10-27 07:39:32 · 2 answers · asked by sss 1 in Singles & Dating

I started talking to a guy for about 2 weeks hes nice and caring.
I've known him scince high school but we saw each other at a football game and just had a small conversation and trated phone numbers. The problem is that we were talking about our ex-boy/girl friends and he still talks about her not all crazy but he does and i feel that if i really start to like him hes gona leave me and go back to her, but he says he wont. Sould i trust him?????

2006-10-27 07:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating