i have a friend and an ex bf that r trying to talk me into doin illegal drugs but i tell them no but they keep asking and i dont want to ruin a good friendship with them so plez HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 07:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by ropergurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look Princess, you don't need us to tell you what you know is the right thing. These people are not your friends. Quite the opposite in fact. They are trying to get you to do something that you do not want to do and you obviously know it is wrong. You stay strong and stay away from these "friends". If they persist then tell them you will be informing their parents or law enforcement if they don't leave you alone. YOU STAY AWAY FROM IT! YOU KNOW YOU DON"T NEED IT.
2006-10-27 07:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will end up ruining the friendship..when you get lost in the drug world, all you ever care about is more drugs...your friends become your bank..that means your friends will end up stealing from you to support their habit!
If they are your true friends they would take your que and stop using!
Stay strong!! Talk to your school councilor about the problem, you don't have to name names..just ask for help in what to say!
GOOD for you for saying no!
2006-10-27 14:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by kat k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not good friends if they are trying to talk you in to doing something you don't want to do! You don't need those kind of friends. They will only bring you down.
Take it from me, been there done that and because I wanted to have my friends, I ended up being in the wrong place at the wrong time with drugs and got arrested!
2006-10-27 14:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by shrsandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if they are your good enough friends they will understand that you dont want to do them. All of my friends were doing illegal drugs also and i wasnt into them so i would just stay away from them. Dont worry about losing their friendship because if they get mad about that, they arent your true friends anyway.
2006-10-27 14:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by raerae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to sound like a know it all, but if they are trying to talk you into drugs, they are not true friends, and your friendship is only a lie. speaking from experience, I am 43 yrs old, lost my family, and everything I ever loved, because of so called friends and poor choices on my part because I didn't want to jeopardize the relationship.and guess what after all this where are the true friends, not with me!! they turned their backs on me and stayed with the wife because she is still indulging with them, as well as protecting them. but sooner or later "what goes around,comes around!!" Best Wishes
2006-10-27 14:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns and don't let them talk you into anything! Misery loves company! They want you to be part of it because they are threatened by the fact that you won't! Don't fall for it! You should try to stay away from them as much as possible! Guilty by association! If they get busted and you are with them....guess what? You go down too! Be smarter than that!!
2006-10-27 14:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a friend is trying to talk you into doing anything you don't want to he/she is really not a friend, good friends respect ones wishes. Stay clean and tell them to find new friends that they all have something in common with, stay strong and do only what you believe in, Best of wishes to you,
2006-10-27 14:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own opinion, somebody who wants you do things you don't want is not really your friend. You are doing great to said NO. Don't let other people change your mind be stronge because is to be stronge it make you be a diferent person and unique. You are a special person and they need to understand how you are and think. Thank you!
2006-10-27 14:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Yupi Yupi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of drugs are we talking here? Is it just pot? If so no big deal but anything else will just f*** you up!But if they were really your good friends they would not pressure you into doing something you don't want to do! Maybe you should find better friends.
2006-10-27 14:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
s good friend wouldnt want to make you do drugs and if they are trying to force it on you then find new friends cause those are the people that are going to bring you down later in life
2006-10-27 14:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by mschmitty920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋