I started talking to a guy for about 2 weeks hes nice and caring.
I've known him scince high school but we saw each other at a football game and just had a small conversation and trated phone numbers. The problem is that we were talking about our ex-boy/girl friends and he still talks about her not all crazy but he does and i feel that if i really start to like him hes gona leave me and go back to her, but he says he wont. Sould i trust him?????
2006-10-27 07:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i think you should trust him. Just because he talks bout his ex theat doesn't mean that he's going to compare you to her. Maybe he sees the things in you that he use to see in her. So I think you should give it a try. Don't be quick to judge so quickly.
2006-10-27 07:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by NAKIYA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early to answer that. Relationships take time to build. The two of you need time to get to know each other as you are today. That talk of "ex's" will fade as you get closer .Right now it's just common ground used for conversations sake. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 14:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who initiated the conversation on exes? If it was you, then just because he talks about her, don't take it to mean he still likes her. If he brought it up, and seems to think of her often, then take your time to see if he's over her. Ask him, if he brings her up again, who broke up with who and why. If he seems bitter, he may be jealous because she cheated on him or because she is dating someone new, and he is still interested. If she did cheat on him, however, it's unlikely he'll go back to her - But he may be looking for a rebound girl, if the break-up was recent. If he talks kindly about her, then don't take that to be a bad thing. That means the break-up was probably mutual, or that he feels guilty for breaking up with her, but he broke up with her for a reason. It's unlikely that he'll want to rekindle their relationship, but don't be jealous if he talks about her, or still talks to her occasionally.
I would take your time with this, get some answers, and then see if you trust him enough to date him.
2006-10-27 15:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sailor Jupiter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, you should talk to him about it a little more. Why did they brake up? If she left him and he still wants her then I wouldn't date him... I would wait and let him get over her before you persue a relationship with him... On the other hand, he may be talking about her because she is a topic that you both have in common. Anyway, you should talk to him more about his feelings for her and maybe wait it out.
2006-10-27 14:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by mellowemi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you just got to really talk to him since the past 2 weeks.
Give him a chance, maybe he's not completely over the ex just yet. Don't give up, and good luck!
2006-10-27 14:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by wanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes talkin about her all the time then hes probably not over her yet. He needs closer from one relationship before he begins another one, at least if its gonna be a good one
2006-10-27 14:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by CrzyGurl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long it's been....I would give it some time really until he really IS over her. And of course who broke up with who and why is an important factor.
I would just stay friends right now..and date..really...make him work for you a little so HE is sure he really wants this and so you are sure also....why rush?
2006-10-27 14:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by YourShopGirl.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing it has only been two weeks. Sure there is a chance that he will go back to her but if you never take chances in this world then it sure would be boring.
2006-10-27 15:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet. In 14 days he hasn't earned your trust. Wait another 2 months before you decide if he's trustworthy.
2006-10-27 14:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he still has feelings for his ex.. well everyone can say its hard to get over someone.. especially if he and that girl has been together for a long time... but dont loose hope, ive always believed that past is past... and they've parted ways right? you can be his future now, just dont pressure him to much... guys dont want to be all too mushy.. just be there for him always and let him see that you care for him and you can be a good gf(",)... good luck.
2006-10-27 15:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋