Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

the guy i like his ex girlfriend broke up with him like a couple weeks ago. im pretty sure he like me but he hasnt said he does. i havent exactly told him i like him but i wait by him at his locker and i hang with all the time at school. today he was not at his locker, and i dunno why but i feel really down cus of he wasnt there and i dunno if i being obsessive or jus have a case of liking someone a lot? please help....

2006-10-27 07:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by Deni T 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:59:18 · 13 answers · asked by Rattail 1 in Singles & Dating

Over the summer, I moved in with a good friend of mine. She (30) has been with her boyfriend (28) for over a year, and although I know him and think he is okay, he can be highly obnoxious. It's not intentional, he has a personality disorder. He has very bad habits around our house, and since he is just a visitor, how can I tell her in a nice way that she needs to speak up about it, or take care of it herself?
A few of his annoying habits include:
(1) Leaves the toilet seat up.
~Hello, you're in a girls' house!
(2) Finishing the roll of toilet paper and not replacing it with a new one, just leaves the cardboard core there and puts the new roll on the sink.
(3) Leaves his dirty dishes, silverware and cups in the sink instead of putting them in the dishwasher.
~It takes 2 seconds, the dishwasher is right next to the sink!
(4) Showers at all hours of the night, walks around in a towel, or in pajama pants and a tank all the time.
~That's fine at his house, not mine!
Advice

2006-10-27 07:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by TWBensgirl 2 in Friends

2006-10-27 07:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it dirty for your girlfriend to give you a little striptease, we have been dating for well over 2 years and she says anything like that make her feel dirty. im not doing to push the suject.

2006-10-27 07:58:54 · 33 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my ex was showing my friend the e-mails I sent him from when we brokeup.Were still broken up but thats besides the point. Why didn't he delete them? He told my friend that he was going to do it tonight but I don't think so. He was looking at me with a jealous look again when my friend saw a pic of my new bf.

2006-10-27 07:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

like this boy NIck and we tend to flirt alot.... and last week he called me and we both talked,, i asked him him if he likes me and he said well i never really thought about it but Yes i do like u... and then i said i was cold and he said aww my poor baby do u want a bear hug.... then i called him on sat.. and told him i was at a baseball game and he said ,, your just saying that just b/c u want me to go.. and i was like if u want to u can.. so he walked after his football game to go see me at the baseball game.. we talked and stuff.... But he hasnt called me in a week and this week it seems like he's been talking to me less sorta also he ignores me..... he saw me talking to this boy and he looked at the boy with the most angriest face ever..,, like if he was going to beat him up.. and today i told him why is he acting diff and he said he wasnt.... and then he asked me if i was going to go to his football game... why do u think he's been ignoring me?? especially since a week...... .. well now i figured he lied to me and i guess he was just trying to play with my feelings... b/c my friend told him jen needs to talk to u ....(jen=me) and supposely he said .. ugh and rolled his eyes at my friend...... and 2 days after he gave an angry stare at my friend b/c he made me laugh.... but wouldnt that mean hes jealous?? so iam not sure whats going on.. iam confused.. and today i actually started a conversation, we flirted,and I said did u miss talking to me and he said Maybe ,so i was like u know maybe means 90% for me and he said... yeah i do... but then he said i was too controlling...... today my male friend who is also a football player asked Nick what he thought about me and he said i was nice... and my friend told my crush that i and nick make a nice couple... and that we should go out,,, and my crush supposely said nah,, and that he has 2 gf's one in north carolina and one in seymore... and supposely hes going to move back to northcarolina........... thats what my friend said........ and iam so pissed b/c i feel like it was wrong for Nick to put my hopes up by saying that he wanted to make out with me and stuff... HES SUCH A PLAYER!!! i really wish i could hurt him some way.............. like he did to me..... :(

2006-10-27 07:58:44 · 2 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I become more relaxed when I am with my gf. I am always uptight and nervous because I am going through so many difficult problems right now and my gf thinks I am taking it out on her. I am not trying to do that and I don't want her to feel like I am so what can I do. I would love toi talk to her about my troubles but I do not know how to tell her to where she will understand. Can anyone help me?

2006-10-27 07:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, we both have children, and always agreed that they shouldn't be overly involved in our relationship until we were together for a while. Recently our relationship has hit a wall. I think it's time to move forward or forget it, but because he doesn't want to take on his ex wife( who won't allow me anywhere near his children until we're engaged or married)who apparently hates me(she doesn't even know me) he thinks things can just stay the way they are indefinitley. His ex calls several times evey day, makes unreasonable demands on his time and finances, and basically works very hard to keep me out of his family/personal life. He allows it because he says he doen't feel like dealing with her, easier to give her what she wants. He doesn't understand how alienated from his life this makes me, it makes me think maybe he's still unsure, he says he's sure, but nothing changes. Am I wrong to be bothered by her control over him?

2006-10-27 07:58:12 · 10 answers · asked by jacqueline s 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it that you really look for in a man be truthful.
please leave good answers

2006-10-27 07:57:52 · 22 answers · asked by Since birth 2 in Singles & Dating

or suggest that you're just want to be friends. Some women have loads of male friends but I just seem to fail at this completely.
All men around me either want a girlfriend or nothing...

2006-10-27 07:57:22 · 18 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Friends

2006-10-27 07:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by classychik 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:56:35 · 5 answers · asked by starangel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and she has a bf but she wants to be with me badly and she says she really really really likes me and its gettn close to loving, ive been with her 3 times we had drama and issues and on the 3rd she went out wit her ex-bf because she was "hurt" and she keeps saying their in love and all this stuff but i really really like her and the same for me she acts diffrent on da phone and on myspace, should i wait for her?

2006-10-27 07:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by PIMPN 1 in Singles & Dating

This smart mouth boy called me a big head! haha why dontcha look at his cone head! Tell me some insults i could say to him!:@.........please

2006-10-27 07:56:20 · 7 answers · asked by mariah!:) 2 in Friends

ok i like this guy and we like each other in a very sexual type manner...and his friend whos a marine was killed recently so he won't talk to me at all now...should i worry that he only likes me for sex or should i wait it out..or forget all about him??

2006-10-27 07:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by ann g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am at the end of my rope.
I have a 9yr old daughter who refuses to be good in school.
Every week I get a note from her teachers that she wants to run the whole class, doesn't listen, and gets out of her seat all day long!
Now, its to the point where they call me almost daily!
I don't know what else to do...
Anyone have any ideas?
I have grounded her, taken away things, had a heart to heart with her.. and I am just lost now.
Someone please give me ideas or tips to help her!
Thanks

2006-10-27 07:53:42 · 41 answers · asked by dayapibu 2 in Family

I moved out of town to be with someone I have known for years.The thing is he's a different person now that I'm here.When he's nice he's really nice and when he's nasty he's really nasty.He always listen to my phone conversations,and he snap's off for no reason.And he has this bad habbit of saying azz!If things don't go his way azz.I want to leave but don't know how.I don't think he will hurt me but I have a ten yr old daughter to.Since I've been here my truck has been stolen all kinds of things have been happening I can't find a job nothing is in my favor since I been here.Any suggestions?And no I did'nt know he was like this he was always a good person.

2006-10-27 07:53:25 · 22 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been living with him for a couple months, dated him for almost 2 years. he completely selfish sometimes. he always starts fights and lately he hasnt been that into sex. but he jacks off multiple times a day. never effected sex life with him before thoough. am i just boring him now b/c im with him everyday or what does anyone think it is? i feel i sho9uld leave him but i dont want to. i lo9vew him too much. any suggestions? ive dressed up for sex tons of times, all kinds of stuff. i even do what he likes that i think is completely weird.... **** him in the *** with a strap on then have sex with him. he doesnt get off on guys vthough, just women with strap ons and fetishism and bondage. anyone have any suggestions????

2006-10-27 07:53:19 · 14 answers · asked by snagglepuss731 2 in Singles & Dating

I already told her....but, i feel bad when i around her....sometimes i feel like she dont like me as a Best friend no more......i Told her that i was drunk when i did it........i really was.......SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS

2006-10-27 07:53:10 · 21 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:52:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never met this person, but he is 20 and I am 30. He says that he loves me. Yes, he knows my age!!!

2006-10-27 07:52:11 · 14 answers · asked by hugsnotdrugs3333 2 in Singles & Dating

i was in a long term relationship for 6 years. She was my first g/f and we were together for a long time. We were engaged and were getting ready for marriage when I stopped having feelings for her and ended things. That was a year and a half ago. I've since met other women and none of them have really done anything for me.

Only one other girl ever ignited any kind of emotion within me but she's made it clear her and I will never be.

Other than that, I can't ever see myself in a relationship with anyone but my ex. I can never see myself kissing anyone else. I can never see myself singing a song to any other bride at my wedding. I miss putting my hand around her waist. We never had sex, but I can't see myself having sex with anyone but her. I can't see myself having kids with anyone else. But I still don't think i'm back in love with her.

2006-10-27 07:52:09 · 18 answers · asked by tell_me_whos_sleeping_with_who 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend gf of 9 years past away in july of 2004 ,after her death we beagn seeing each other ,but i was with him a year b4 she past and i didnt knew about her when i found out i left...me and him are no longer toghter but him grieving over her kinda ruin our realtionship which i totally understood he needed to grieve ...its been 2 and a half years now since she passed do u think he is still depress and thinks about her??

2006-10-27 07:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was really upset with an ex.bf who tried to hit on me and tried to pull down my pants he was drunk and we were both at my friends party and I called my bf crying and my bf went to his house picked up a bat and messed up my ex bf. car and had my ex.bf ruffed up.I did not ask my bf to do this !and feel really bad my ex.bf thinks i had something to do with this and will not stop calling.My bf is a hot headed Italian guy from brooklyn and a little bit protective of me(the jersey girl) i dont think he ment any real harm .

2006-10-27 07:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by Donny 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to leave and the thing I am afraid is what i am gona do when i miss him. First he dont want to marry me. And then If he marries me he puts to many terms and conditons. I am just not strong to leave him. Tell me how to leave him and never look back. Like i did it first time but we got back together because I wanted to be with him. But he's just dont treating me write and I am aftraid to leave him agian.

2006-10-27 07:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are not adolescents, we are responsible and good friends. I feel angry more than sad. What can you tell me?

2006-10-27 07:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by rosyrose 3 in Singles & Dating

He hasn't called in a week and often leaves me wondering about him. We go to seperate schools, see each other once every other blue moon. My parents don't want me to date him because he's white and all we ever seem to talk about is sex. Should I let him go and even though I have tired so many times, why can't I let him go. Red flags are going up everywhere, all my senses tell me that I need to move on. However something inside of me is telling me that I would be making the biggest mistake of my life if I left. Should we be friends? Should I cut him off all together? Is this being in love or becoming so damn desperate that I can't tell my own clinyness from love. Someone help me pleeeese.

2006-10-27 07:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:50:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce